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Frequently Asked Questions

  1. For general counseling and guidance please call between 11AM to 7 PM. However in emergencies you can call 24X7.
  2. Please note that your emails and calls may be attended or seen by different persons in the organization. While calling, you may be required to share some details each time.
  3. Couples wishing to get married please email scanned copies of your age proof and address proof of both of you to
  4. The couples intending to marry must have their Age Proof and Address Proof with them. The bride should be 18+ and the bridegroom 21+ in age.
  5. The couples have to bear actual expenses on their lawful marriages, intimation to authorities and families through official departments, legal process, protection process, process for cancellation of FIR/MPR etc.
    प्रेमी-प्रेमिकाओं को कानूनी दस्तावेज़ों (वकील की फ़ीज़, कोट का खर्चा और कागज़ों के पैसे), वैध स्थान पर शादी, तत्काल पंजीकरण, सुरक्षा प्रक्रिया एवं प्रतिवेदन, मुकदमा रद्दीकरण, अदि पर आने वाला वास्तविक खर्च खुद ही वहन करना होता है। हमारे शेलटरों में किसी भी समय तक नीतिओं (नियमों) के अनुकूल रहना, भोजन अदि मुफ़्त है।
  6. There is no COURT MARRIAGE, as there is no law that allows a court to conduct ceremonies, however, some advocates befool lovers. Please remain cautious.
  7. Marriage must be got performed at a lawfully valid place because all the temples or Arya Samaj etc. are not treated valid due to various directions by the Hon’ble High Courts of Delhi, MP, Punjab & Haryana, Rajasthan etc. A marriage at a lawfully valid place may be got registered, however, it is not mandatory as the proposed law is Pending before the Hon’ble Parliament since 2005-06. Love Commandos helps you get married at a lawfully valid place.
  8. Inter Caste marriages do not require the provisions of Special Marriage Act (SMA).
  9. Even if some people undergo SMA marriage permissions under Section 13, they need to comply with provisions of Section 4 also.
  10. Inter religious marriages with lawful conversion do not require SMA.
  11. As a matter of policy we do not interact with parents of anyone. We have faith and belief in our Constitution, Resolutions of Parliament and Guidelines of Hon’ble Supreme Court of India.
  12. Please understand that you should not waste your energies in convincing your parents or families, particularly when you know their mindset of being anti-lover, religious or caste-wise fundamentalists or hardliners, as it may endanger your lives and liberty. Lovers should have the courage and commitment to spend the lives together.
  13. The Parliament had way back in October 1978 omitted the provision of Guardianship in marriages, our great constitution guarantees marriage by choice of both, the Hon’ble Supreme Court has given detailed guidelines to promote Inter caste and inter religious marriages in Criminal Appeal No. 958/2011. It has also directed for prosecution of such persons opposing such marriages under the legal provisions.
  14. All Our 7 shelters in Delhi and NCR and other make shift shelters in other parts of the country are free for stay, food and emergencies.
  15. Minors and non-earning / unemployed couples should please excuse us.
  16. As a matter of policy, mobile and internet communication of the love couples or victim(s) is not allowed during the stay in any of the shelters. No communication will be allowed with those parents opposing such love relationship. In emergencies parents can call helpline numbers after which a decision will be taken on the merit of each case and submissions by the parents.
  17. Couples seeking help from us should never inform about their movement to their families, relatives and friends for reasons of their own security and that of other love couples at our shelters. Couples found having done so can be turned out of the shelter/ make shift shelter at any time as their continuance may be dangerous for other Love Couples.




Frequently Asked Questions — 54 Comments

  1. Sir…
    My friend is in love with Muslim girl & he is Hindu. They want marry each other.. So plz help us … So manny problem they are facing this time… My friend is not complete age 21, he is 19 years old …..

  2. hi. i recently heard about Love Commandos. i (am 24 yrs, Punjabi) used to work in pvt company but then when my parents came to know i love a Malyali guy (who is 24 yrs) and is presently working in pvt company, i was taken back to my hometown. i want to get married to the guy whom i love but my parents are not agreeing for it. my parents are orthodox. could please provide us some advise because i am now being forced to get married which i am not ready for. if you could also provide me all the details how much expenses we will incur to seek your help and also the lawyer’s fees.

  3. Sir… app log support kesse karte hai. Kya app log couples ke ghar aakar batt karte hai? Or kya app log police ko bhee sumjhate hai. Kyuki city ki police bhee couples ke against ho jati hai. Or constitution ko follow nahi karti.. app kesse kesse help karte hai.. please give me a answer in brief. By the way i appreciate your group. You r doing a great thing. We all new generation youngsters all are love and appropriate you.. ab practical chizzo par hai ajj ki new generation… analyse karte hai sochte hai. Sahe decision lete hai. Or phir kuch kar neekalte hai… mangannat kahaniyo ke based par nahi leti decisions ki generation…. bus sabse badi problem hai. Parents or unke baccho ke beech bahoot gap aa chuka hai.. gap toh suru se he thaa…. but abb baccho ko gap deekhne laga hai… ki kya sahe hai or kya galat.. tabhi abb India ka name hai …. MAKE IN INDIA

  4. Hello sir/mam,
    How r u?
    Actually i love a girl but problem is that she is Muslim and i m Hindu and our family will never allow us to marry together,
    We both are 22+
    Can u please help us and tell us the full procedure of love and court marriage and full cost of marriage, we have some savings and after marriage we both will do job,

  5. Hello sir,
    Mera naam Shaan hai nd mai Muslim hu, mari girlfriend Punjabi hai, hum dono legally mature hai, hum dono 6 yrs se relationship mai hai, hum dono shaadi karna chate hai lakin humhare ghar wale nhi manege, aap humari kis tarah help kr sakte hai jisse hum dono ko future mai Koi problem na ho. Please help us sir.

  6. Sir am Abhinav of 20 yes and I love someone. unki v age 20 saal h… sir mjhe itna janna h ki mai avi shaadi kr skta hu ya ni… sir uski shaadi forcefully fix kr di gyi h…. sir mai kru

  7. Hello Commandos,

    Please let me know how much it cost to marry someone under your guidance. I would like to share my details personally. I hope I get your team help.

  8. Dear friends,
    You all are doing a fabulous job by helping lovers to get along n marry each other.

    I want to know how can I volunteer and help, i want to involve myself n help other lovers to get there love because of same caste and status issue i never got my love 🙁 and i don’t this thing to be happen with any girl/boy.

    Please mail me about joining policy on. r*******


  9. I am a doc residing in Delhi and my love is studying in a medical college in Delhi. We need ASAP marriage because our families are not agreeing. It’s kind of emergency. So I want to know full cost and process so that parents don’t have choice to interfere . None of us are minors and I am working

  10. Hello Sir,
    I am 25 Years old Muslim Boy and my lover is Hindu 23 years old, We want to marriage. But we can’t know how can we do this because my family is agree but her family doesn’t agree. Please give us solution, and suggest any good way for marriage as soon as possible.

  11. hello sir, I am living in Gujarat.
    I want some information from you regarding our Indian Law.
    Yesterday, I was sitting one of male friend of mine. It was a totally public place. Being a got girl my parents are not allow me to make male friends. Me and my friend was just talking and suddenly police came and ask us for our name and address. They forced me to call my parents otherwise they will take us to the police station. I just wanted to know what is our right in this situation.

  12. Sir pls help, me 21 age ka hu aur meri lover ko 18 abhi chalu he aur hame kaise bhi kr k jldi se mrg karna he, Kyonki girl ke perents uska mrg kisi aur se karvana chahte he to pls help me sir ki me kya kru pls

  13. Dear Sir.

    sir mene Jain samaj ki ek ladki se bahot sal se love krta hu.. Meri or uski umar me 5 sal ka frk h. Ham dono ka 2 din pehle bahot achhese chal raha tha pr usko achanak kya hua to vo bol ri h me mere papa k against shaadi ni karungi, vo samaj me hi karaenge or vo ek dm se chhodne ka bol ri h. Muje use shaadi krni h. Mene abi tk koi kami ni rakhi h. Vo esa kyu kr rahi h.. Pls meri koi help kro pls

  14. dear sir, court should to put section for love marriage. Because it is not a crime. it is the right of every person to choose his life partner. love marriage is not a crime.

  15. Hello Sir,

    I want to ask you what does actually love commando do???
    Does they help in convincing the parents who feel caste is more than any thing???
    Please sir if such help is provided please do the needful

  16. Hello LC’s team… first i want to praise u for d goodwill u r people r doing for the love couples… i salute u people.. u people r d ray of hope for d couples who r facing distress conditions bcoz of their own parents… and d way u help them is eventually gr8 in itself.. kudos to LC’s team..

    And Here cums our story.. its about me and my love Jyoti Yadav… we both belong to diff castes and diff religion.. so u can very well imagine that what kind of situation we r in.. after reading the story of Pratibha Gujjar case.. my mind is in terrified state.

    I want u ppl to just guide me thru the process of court marriage and legal protection things… i just don’t want to make any mistake which cud harm us in any way… so i request u to plz guide us thru d whole process of court marriage and how safe it is for both of us.

    My name is Manjot Singh, Age: 23, Working in Bank Of India as a clerical cadre, From Jalandhar, Punjab
    & her name is Jyoti Yadav, Age: 23, Working as an assistant teacher in local school, From Alwar, Rajasthan

  17. sir i am a Muslim boy and m gf is Hindu.. n we want to marry.. plz help us, we can come to ur office in Delhi, can we sir, plz do the need full..

  18. Myself Anjana, a Hindu girl and i’m in love with Christian boy. We are in love since 1 yr nd our parents are nt aware of it nd i don’t knw how to convince them. Is it possible for us to get married in both the way Hindu ritual as wel as Christian without converting.. And wt religion vl our kids take over?

  19. I am Arvind Kumar from Varanasi. Sarita is the name of the girl with whom I wanna married. We both are teachers and independent. We both belong to different castes that’s why our parents will not approve our marriage. I wanna marry her with her parents’ decision. Sir, I don’t know what to do or how to do, however, I hope you shall talk to her parents on my behalf. My contact no is ##########. Please contact with me.

  20. I want to get married to a guy from Bengali family… he earns well n I m in my final year of graduation… I want to get married. My parents are against it so I have to elope … how can I make sure that I’m not harrased after marriage

  21. I have seen yet website is good for lovers. But there is a problem. how to help the lovers and protect them. Give the details. Thankyu.

  22. hi
    this is Krishna, i am 28 years, girl 25 years old, we both are working in MNC combines but both side parents don’t like love marriage because of we are from of different castes, pls give me support please

  23. Dear Sir,

    This is Vara Prasad. I am loving one girl & she is also loving me. we decided to get marriage but our parents are not agree. She got engaged with other guy & they fixed marriage date on 5th-May-15. she doesn’t like this marriage & she wants to stay with me forever. I need her, I don’t want miss her, we both are loving each other. Please help me out to get marriage her & stop her marriage with that guy.
    I am waiting for your reply.

  24. sir i love a girl but her parents are not agree. i have good job but still they are not agree and forcefully doing her marriage with other person. sir help me please.

  25. sir/madam
    Hey… I m Ritika ….21 yrs old… Hindu Afgani…. on eve of completing my graduation, I love a guy who is 26 yrs old… independent…. mechanical engineer… earning well… has a family business of his own… who is a Jaat…. we both love each other a lot…. n wanna stay together forever… Bt my family is not ready for all dis… they think I won’t be able 2 adjust in a Jaat family… he even had a wrd Abt me to his family… not every1 Bt yes his brother is ready 2 support us…. so I nd help…. whether I should go against my family 2 stay with him or should leave him
    Bt I seriously wanna stay with him
    Plssss help me ….

  26. hello sir,
    i want to do a inter-caste marriage. hum dono hi 25 year old h aur dono hi kamate h. m ek computer professionl hu. kya aap bata sakte h plz ki kitna khrach aayega shadi aur sari legal activite me aur hum aapki orgnization ko contribute b krna chahate h plzz rply..

  27. Hi Love Commandos,

    I just searched for some help for my problem and I found Love Commandos just now. I am basically from Tamil Nadu (Chennai). I am in love with my team mate in office. We both love each other very much. His family is ready to proceed our marriage if my parents are fine with it. But my father is not accepting at any cost because we both are from various castes. So, his family also not ready to accept us without my family’s permission as they think they might get into trouble. My parents are so adamant not even to hear what I say also. Please someone help to tackle this situation. We both are in great stress… His parents are trying to arrange marriage for him now…

  28. Respected Sir, Sanjay Suchdev
    My English is very poor so i write my heart feeling to you in hindi..
    main Milap R. Barot, Gujarat ke Mehsana jile se hu, meri umar 34 years hai, main 2000 ki saal se advertising business main hu, mere organisation ka naam Radhe Communication hai, main aap se bahut prabhavit hu, main bhi aap ki tarah yaha Gujarat main sacche premi aur sacche pyar ko madad karna chahta hu aur main chahta hu ki is kaam me aap muje help kare aur ye kaam main aapke under me kaam karna chahta hu… ek business company ki franchise jaise main aap ki Love Commandos company ki franchise leke sacche premio ki sacche dil se seva karke apne aap ko dhanya karna chahta hu aur ye zindgi me kuch seva karya karna chahta hu.. maine aap ke satyamev jayte per episodes dekhe hai.. so reply me
    jay hind
    jay bharat
    Milap R. Barot

    • Sorry, we don’t do business. We are a voluntary mission. If you agree to work voluntarily, you are welcome.

  29. if the family members of a guy are ready to accept the girl but just because of some threatnings and slow legal process, it will be late. in that case is Love Commandos are helping?

    the girls family are not ready but the guys family members are ready to accept.

  30. Hello Sir,
    Though I’m from Bangladesh, I want to work for your organization. Right Now I m doing my L.L.B. from a reputed university of Bangladesh. I’ve Completed my 3rd Years of L.L.B. I wanted to work for a good cause and when i found out about this organization, I was overwhelmed. You people are helping the couples in Love and I think its a very good cause. Please reply me how I can join yours organization and what I have to do for that.
    Thank You 🙂

  31. hello sir

    I am hindu girl and I want to marry a muslim boy. his parents have agreed to our marriage but my parents are creating a lot many problems. they have beaten me. my parents & brother, uncles, everyone are against my marriage.

    my father, mother & even brothers are threatening me like if i got married to him they will not let us live.

    we both are adults and we are in a relationship from last 9 years & independent enough. we thought of going for court marriage but got scared of their threats…

    please help us sir

  32. Sir,

    Glad to hear about Love Commandos.

    I am 25 year old working in MRF LIMITED, i have a lover from degree classmate

    The problem is am Christian and she is a Hindu, my parents have no issue for this relationship but her parents not willing, also her parents calling me and telling abusing languages and i will not alive saying when we married

    Kindly help


  33. Hi There,

    This side Raj (nick name), I have been loving a girl for last 6 years now, we lived together for 4 years, due to some misunderstandings we had a fight. Few of her friends informed her parents, we could have fixed the issue at our end, however as her dad came to know about it, he took that matter to police and put pressure on her (Niti – daughter) to file a case against me. Incident happened in 2012. After then I went into depression, she sent me an email which I didn’t check for couple of months, I decided to leave India, as I was not able to live happily. I thought if I will move abroad, I will be able to live properly and will forget her, now I am in another country, for last an year.

    So I would like to request you all, if anyone of you can help me getting her back, then please do, talk to me, email me, wassapp me, I will tell you the way, somebody needs to talk to her father on my behalf, you just need to convince him to give me one chance in order to prove myself, just one chance to put my words in front of him. I love her, I simply love her.

    I am not one of those fake lovers, while writing this letter, finding it weird, but I don’t have any other option left. Please get in touch with me, I will provide you all the required information.

    I don’t say that I will die without her, but trust me will not be able to live without her……………. PLEASE HELP………

  34. Dear sir

    Mai ek ladki se bhut pyar karta hu aur wo bhi mujhse bhut pyar karti hai. apne ghar mai usne marrige ke liye bola to uske parents ne usko pita. uski family nhi chati ki mere se shadi kare. jabki hamari cast bhi same hai. uske piche reason hai ki mai Anupshahr mai rahta hu aur yahi par unki relationship hai. to iski maa ko lagta hai unki bezzati hogi. but hum dono ek dusre ko bhut pyar karte hai. sir meri age 24 hai iski 27 hai. sir please help me. wo Delhi se hai.

    my contact numbers: ##########, ##########

  35. Sir I’m Ajay from Odisha. I’m in love with a girl who belongs to a other cast. My family don’t approve this marriage. If I get marry her, then I can’t stay in my home for which I’ll lose my earning. So what can I do?

  36. if the family members of a guy is ready to accept the girl but just because of some threatnings and slow legal process, it will be late. in that case is Love Commandos are helping?

    the girls family are not ready but the guys family members are ready to accept but the guy is unemployed. in this case?

  37. Respected Sir

    Kudos to you for such noble thought & great work..Sir pls let me know r u operating in Gujrat Also…If yes pls upadte how to approch as i m in Love with a girl & need ur guidance..

  38. Dear Sir/Madam,

    My friend named Shweta Gharjare loves me alot and even I love her a lot. I stay in Kalyan, Thane, Maharashtra and she stays at Titwala, Thane, Maharashtra. Now her daddy working in government office has got transferred to Nagpur, her native place. Shweta belongs to a lower caste known as Kunbhi in Maharashtra and I belong traditional U.P caste Brahmin. This caste difference is not bearable by her family and my family also. Now for shifting their house, Shweta, her mom and her brother is here.

    Her brother is constantly calling me and abusing me on my caste and religion. And now they are asking her to get married to their caste person forcefully. They have even taken her phone and now they are not even allowing her to contact me.

    I don’t know what her situation is there. But when last spoken with her she was really worried and was uncomfortable while speaking.

    Dear Sir, I would really need your help to rescue her as soon as possible before any untoward incident happens. I am an engineer and I am working currently located in Mumbai.

    • Dear Cool guy

      You should know that minors (below 18 years of age) can’t marry. Specifically, girls should be above 18 and boys should be above 21 to marry.

      Also, how would a ‘non-earning’ or an ‘unemployed’ person feed himself/herself as well as the spouse? You should know प्यार से पेट नहीं भरता है.

      There are actual expenses involved in getting married. And there are increased responsibilities after marriage. Who is going to take care of these necessities?

      As I understand, Love Commandos are here to help and not to adopt every lover.

      • The above posted comment is very much valid. You should be earning to lead a life. Of course it should not be a blind game. Its a marriage and its for life. So you should be earning for very practical and obvious reasons. But problem with our country is something else. In my case we both are earning really good. Both are working and can lead a above average life but issue is caste. And about compatibility which again is a major part, we have grown together starting from school. So its more like a problem with our social structure.

  39. sir, 


    sir love commandos to all over india ke liye hai na, so ye baat kyun hai marriage karne ke liye couple ko delhi ya ncr aana padega?

    aur sir yadi couple shadi karna chahte hain to aap unki marriage and protection mein help karein. ager suppose couple unemployed hai to iska mutlub ye to nahin ki wo sahdi nahi kar sakte hain? kya unko shadi karne ka adhikar nahin hai? ager wo unemployed hai to kya wo khushi khuhi legal marriege nahi kar sakte.

    plz reply sir ##########

    • Amit, how would an unemployed person feed himself/herself as well as the spouse? You should know प्यार से पेट नहीं भरता है.

      There are actual expenses involved in getting married. And there are increased responsibilities after marriage. Who is going to take care of these necessities?

      As I understand, Love Commandos are here to help and not to adopt every lover.

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