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Love Commandos is a voluntary organization in India dedicated to helping India’s lovebirds who want to marry for love. We provide assistance in protecting couples, helping them fight harassment and giving them shelter so they can marry freely.

Mr. Sanjoy Sachdev
Chairman
Mr. Harsh Malhotra
Chief Co-Ordinator

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  1. Hello sir
    I am 22 years old and my girlfriend is 19 year old, we both love each other, we are from different caste, sir hum shaadi krna chahte hai lekin hum btaa nhi skte ghr pe kyuki vo log uski zabardasti shaadi krna chahte hai uski marzi ke bina, lekin vo mujhse shaadi krna chahte hai, sir we both are major and rights to choose our life partner, sir plz suggest what can I do

  2. Sir mera name Chandan Chaudhary hai, main Siwan District, Bihar se hu, main ek Muslim ladki jiska name Tabassum Praween hai, ham dono 7 year se ekdusre se pyar karte hai, ye bat jab apne ghar walo ko bataya to hamare ghar wale ham dono ko alag kar ke us ladki ka shaadi dusre se kra raha hai, to sir meri Tabassum mar jaygi, ushke ghar wale usko bahut dukh de raha hai, to sir plz help me, GOD ho aap, aap hamari madad kare sir

  3. Dear sir,

    Im 24 years, she is also 24 years. But we both are from different states. Last week she went to home, her parents arranged immediate marriage and not allowing her back. I’m fearing to go to her home since I’m from different state. She is ready to come, since she got house arrested she is not able to come. Please help me.. I tried to call the helpline number but i couldn’t get. Please help us.

    Reach me @ ##########

    Thanks

  4. Good Day Sir,
    I am 26 yr old, my boyfriend is 27 yr old. We love each other from 5 yrs. Since 2017 I am working in a software company and he is doing PhD in NIT. We are of different caste so my parents are not willing to accept our relationship. After fighting for around an year his parents agreed, but my parents are still not accepting. My parents told me to stay unmarried rather than marrying him. He is ready to do court marriage but i want my parents also to accept our relationship. Please help me sir please help me. I am dying inside daily. I am tired to making my parents understand that he loves me and will always keep me happy. Please sir help me to convince my parents.

  5. mujhe nahi pata bhagwan kaha hai lekin bhagwan hai bhagwan ke roop mein Love Commandos aaye……
    tnx …
    agar ye kanun pahle se hota to yu pyar karne vale marte nhi ……..

    pr koi baat nhi …
    kam se kam kanun bana to ab pyar karne vale kabhi alag nhi rahege………….

    tnx Love Commandos…..
    me duaa karta hu ki aap or aapka parivar mahesa khus rahe ….

    dhanyavad

  6. Sir mai ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hoon, wo bhi mujhse bahut pyar karti hai sir, lekin uske ghar wale nahi man rahe hain, jabarjasti uski shaadi karwana chahte hain, please sir help me plesae sir, but o hamre ganv ke pass hi ki hai, koi salution ho to bataiye sir please

  7. sir i am 24 years old, and the girl about 22 years ., we both love each other
    my family is agree for marriage .. but this time that girl facing problem that her mother and father is no more in this world.. and all the property and money are forcefully ceased .. and from last 4 years we love each other and she also facing mentally and physically harassment.. please help for us for getting married ,, and we both are are well educated.. and even that girl is note have couple dress to wear it.. but this time i am working in pvt company, and i am fulfilling all the need of things that she need.. please help us or suggest us what we will do.

  8. Sir mai ek ladki se pyaar krta hu, wo bhi mujhse bahut pyaar krti hai or hum inter caste h. uske ghar walo ne uski shaadi uske marji ke khilaf kahi or fixed kr di h, to usne mujhe kaha ki mai maar jaaungi, tb hmne ghar walo se chhup kr shaadi kr li h lekin mai force ki taiyari krta hu or mere ghar wale kahte hai ki select ho ja phir tu chahe jisse shaadi kr le. isliye wo apne ghar pr hai, uske ghar wale jan chuke h ki hmne shaadi kr li hai or use bahut marte h, usse meri baat bhi nhi ho pa rhi h. agle month se mera exam h, sir hum kya kre, plzz sir hamari jindgi ka sawal hai, mujhe dr hai ki kahi wo kuch kr na le. hum ek dusre ke bina nhi rh skte hai. Sir ji please kuch solution bataye nhi to hm dono mr jayenge. Sir plzz

  9. Hello sir/mam
    I’m in a serious relationship for 9 years, she is a doctor and I am a entrepreneur in aviation sector
    We r from the same caste. she tried to talk to her dad once but because of emotions she couldn’t make it.
    Her dad searched for a guy last week who is a doctor as well and it all will be very soon, neither my family is weak nor her’s, I am in extreme serious need of help because I couldn’t find a way. we are in love each other so deeply that in any circumstances we cannot forget each other till our sole are dead.
    Please in any case u can help us I will be very glad and thankful to you and your organisation till the end of my life.
    Thank you
    Sam

  10. Sir ladki ka age kitna laga ga or ladka ka kitna age mere ko malum nahi hai. or hum jo ladki ko pyaar kar rahe uska age hai 16 sal, mera 18 sal, hum dono ek dusre se pyaar karrahe, a thik hai yaa galat hai, sir plz sir answer me, SMS is number ##########

    • Dear Ekbar Hossain

      hum aapki prem ki bhavna ki kadar karte hain. aapk umar 18 varsh hai aur ladki ki umar 16 varsh hai to is hisaab se ladki nabalig hai aur aap dono hi shaadi nahi kar sakte ho. kanoon ke mutabik shaadi ke liye ladki ki umar 18 ya us se adhik hon chahiye aur ladke ki umar 21 ua us se adhik honi chahiye. aap dono ko aapke 21 ki umar hone tak pratiksha karni hogi. is dauraan agar aap dono mein se kisi ke bhi gharwale jabran shaadi karvana chahein to aap hamein suchit kar sakte hein. us samay un ke khilaaf kanuni karyavahikarne ki avashaykta hogi. tab tak ke liye aap dono ke prem ke liye shubhkamnayen.

      हम आपकी प्रेम की भावना की कद्र करते हैं। आपकी उम्र 18 बर्ष है और लड़की की उम्र 16 वर्ष है तो इस हिसाब से लड़की नाबालिग़ है और आप दोनों अभी शादी नहीं कर सकते हो। क़ानून के मुताबिक शादी के लिए लड़की की उम्र 18 या उस से अधिक और लड़के की उम्र 21 या उस से अधिक होनी चाहिए। आप दोनों को आपके 21 वर्ष की उम्र होने तक प्रतीक्षा करनी होगी। इस दौरान अगर आप दोंनो के घरवाले आप दोंनो में से किसी के भी जबरन शादी करवाना चाहें तो आप हमें सूचित कर सकते हैं। उस समय उन के खिलाफ कानूनी कार्यवाही करने की आवश्यकता होगी। तब तक के लिए आप दोंनो के प्रेम के लिए शुभकामनाएँ।

      We appreciate the feelings of love. You are 18 years old and the girl is 16 years old, it means she is a minor. and not of marriageable age. As per the law, to be of marriageable age the girl should be 18 or more years of age and the boy should be 21 or more years of age. Both of you need to wait until you are over 21 years old. In the meanwhile if parents of anyone attempt to forcibly marry the boy or girl, please feel free to contact us. A legal action would need to be taken at that time. Best wishes for your committed love till that time.

      Please visit the FAQ page at http://www.lovecommandos.org/faq/ and ensure that you fulfill all requirements for marriage.

      Team Love Commandos

  11. Sir mera name Suneel Kumar h, age 23 or me jisse pyar karta hu uski age 20 h, hm intercaste lover h, hm shaadi karna chahte h lekin dono family support ni kar rhi h or ladki ko roj marte pitte h, ghar me band rakhte h, sir hm dono padhe likhe h, sir hmari madad kijiye aapki ati kripya hogi, plzzzzz sir my contact number ##########

  12. Dear Sir or madam,

    I just heard about your organization on NPR Radio in the USA. I am of a Scottish background, born and raised in the USA. I was so saddened by the story as ND by honor killings in India, I just made a donation. God bless you and I hope some day there is no longer a need for organizations like yours! – Don

  13. Sir.. mai 27 year ki hun.. mai ek ladke se 8 saal se pyar karti hun, wo ladka bhi karta hai.. lekin uski family hm dono k shaadi nahi hone dena chahti.. hmari caste bhi same hai.. ladke ki himmat nahi ho rahi k family ko chhod k shaadi kare.

  14. Thanks a lot Sir,

    Hindu Muslim shaadi kr skte h ky?
    vo bhi legally trike se
    kya other religion me shaadi krna legal h?
    aur ye religion ko lekr shaadi nhi krwana kabtak khtm ho jayega?

  15. Sir aap bhot acha kaaam karr rahe hai aap sabb, mera naam Bhavik h, mene youtube pr apke baare m dekha, mene to socha nahi thii duniya maii pyaar karne walo ke liye bhii madat karne ke liye koii haii, thankyou so much ki aapp ye sabb karr rahe ho pyaar karne waalo ke liye, agar koii mera ye mesg padh raha haii to sabb pehle apne apne pero p khade ho kabil bano, m bhii kisi s pyaar karta hu, vo bhii mujhse itna pyaar kerti h, abhii humm chote h to m uski family k saamne kuch kehh saku is kabil banne k liye mehnat karr raha hu, m 20 saal ka hu or vo 18 ki, humm ye nahi chahte ki uski family ya meri family ko koii pareshaani ho, derr se maane ya jaldi manayenge or sabb k liye ek umeed ki kiran hoti h jese humare sirr jo humm pyaar karne waalo k liye h, bhagwaanji apko bhot duaa de, thanku sirr thanku so much

  16. mera naam Sujit Yadav hai, mee bhi ek ladki se pyar krta hu aur woo bhi mujhse bhot pyar krti hai, woo mere liye kuch bhi kr sakti hai prr abhi mee aur 18 year kaa aaur wo 17 ki hai, sir aage aagar mujhe koi problem hogi to sir help krenge, sir plz aabhi hmm dono paadhai kr rhe college mee, wo Marathi hai aaur me Bhaiya, sir in future please sir help ok thanks sir

    • Dear Sujit Yadav

      हम आपकी प्रेम की भावना की कद्र करते हैं। आपकी उम्र 18 वर्ष है और लड़की की उम्र 17 वर्ष है तो इस हिसाब से लड़की नाबालिग़ है और आप दोनों ही अभी शादी नहीं कर सकते हो। क़ानून के मुताबिक शादी के लिए लड़की की उम्र 18 या उस से अधिक और लड़के की उम्र 21 या उस से अधिक होनी चाहिए। हालाँकि लड़की की उम्र कुछ समय बाद 18 की हो जाएगी विवाह योग्य परन्तु आपको अपनी उम्र 21 की होने तक प्रतीक्षा करनी होगी। इस दौरान अगर आप दोंनो के घरवाले आप दोंनो में से किसी की भी जबरन शादी करवाना चाहें तो आप हमें सूचित कर सकते हैं। उस समय उन के खिलाफ कानूनी कार्यवाही करने की आवश्यकता होगी। तब तक के लिए आप दोंनो के प्रेम के लिए शुभकामनाएँ।

      We appreciate the feelings of love. You are 18 years old and the girl is 17 years old, it means she is a minor and both of you are not of marriageable age. As per the law, to be of marriageable age the girl should be 18 or more years of age and the boy should be 21 or more years of age. Although the girl will be 18 in some time and of marriageable age but you will have to wait until you are 21 or more years of age. In the meanwhile if parents of anyone attempt to forcibly marry the boy or girl, please feel free to contact us. A legal action would need to be taken at that time. Best wishes for your committed love till that time.

      Please visit the FAQ page at http://www.lovecommandos.org/faq/ and ensure that you fulfill all requirements for marriage.

      Team Love Commandos

  17. Sir mara name Pankaj hy or may ekk ladki sy bhot pyar krta hu or vo bhi mujhy bhot pyar krti hy, uska name Preeti hy, prr hmmy ekk problem hy, ladki ky ghr valy nhi mann rhy prr merey ghr valy tyar hy hmari marriage ky ley, hmm dono kii age 18+ hy, abhi abhi hmy 19 year lga hy, hmm dono ekk dusry ky bina nhi jeena chahty, plz hmari caste ko lykrr eyy shaadi nhi ho rhi hy or ladki ky ghr valy uss prr preshiour daal rhy hy kii vo shaadi kisi hor ky sath krr ly, ladki kii caste Khatri Suniaary hy or mari Nai caste hy, sir plz help me plz sir, may Punjab ######### sy hu, ladki merey sath 7th class sy study krr rhi hy, hmari dono ki baat 8th class may hue thi jbb mayny usy propose kiya tha, abb hmmy 3 sall honey valy hy, hmm ekk dury ko smzty hy prr ladki ky ghr valy nhi mann rhy, plz sir hmari bhi shaadi krva do nhi ton hmm bhi mrr jay gy ekk dusry ky bina, plz sir plz bhgvan app ka bhla ky, hmari jodi bna do sir ##########

    • Dear Pankaj Kumar

      हम आपकी प्रेम की भावना की कद्र करते हैं। आपको समझना होगा कि अभी आपकी उम्र केवल 19 वर्ष है और विवाह योग्य उम्र नहीं है। क़ानून के मुताबिक शादी के लिए लड़की की उम्र 18 या उस से अधिक और लड़के की उम्र 21 या उस से अधिक होनी चाहिए। हाँलाकि लडकी की उम्र 19 वर्ष है परन्तु क़ानून आपको अभी इजाज़त नही देता है शादी के लिए। आपको 21 की उम्र का होने तक प्रतीक्षा करनी होगी। इस दौरान अगर आप दोंनो के घरवाले आप दोंनो में से किसी के भी जबरन शादी करवाना चाहें तो आप हमें सूचित कर सकते हैं। उस समय उन के खिलाफ कानूनी कार्यवाही करने की आवश्यकता होगी। तब तक के लिए आप दोंनो के प्रेम के लिए शुभकामनाएँ।

      We appreciate the feelings of love. You should understand that your age is only 19 and as per law you are not of marriageable age. As per the law, to be of marriageable age the girl should be 18 or more years of age and the boy should be 21 or more years of age. Although she is 19 years old but you need to wait till you are 21 plus. In the meanwhile if parents of anyone attempt to forcibly marry the boy or girl, please feel free to contact us. A legal action would need to be taken at that time. Best wishes for your committed love till that time.

      Please visit the FAQ page at http://www.lovecommandos.org/faq/ and ensure that you fulfill all requirements for marriage.

      Team Love Commandos

  18. Sir mera naam Shivam Rajpoot he, me 20 years ka hu me, ek ladki se bahut pyar krta hu or wo bhi mujhse pyar krti he, par uske family Marathi he or me Rajpoot hu, to uski family mana kr rhi he hamari shaadi k liye, or me uske bina apni life nhi jee skta, or wo bhi nhi jeena chahti mere bina, uske ghr wale use marte he, gali bakte he, ab plzz aap mere help kiziye

  19. Hlo sir,
    mera name Gaurav Sharma hai, main UP ke Baghpat se hu.
    main ek Hindu family se belong krta hu, meri age 22 saal h.
    main ek ladki se pyr krta hu, wo bhi mujhe bhhut pyr karti hai,
    meri gf other caste se belong krti h, wo bhi meri he side ki h but alag village se.
    hum dono shaadi krna chate h ji, but wo ghr bata ni sakti shaadi krne se phle uski, uske ghr k mar dege.
    sir plzz meri help kr dijiye

  20. Dear Sir
    mera name Sonu or m Haryana se hu, meri partner bhe Haryana se h, hum ek dusre se bahut love karte h or meri patner ka papa Police m h, m meri partner ke bina nhi g skta, btao m kya kru, plz help me Sir plz

  21. Dear sir,
    I am 23 yrs old Boy. And my partner is also 23 years. We are from Pune. We love each other unconditionally. My current situation is very weak. Her parents doesn’t accept. We decide first to let our parents meet first. But now her parents and other relatives are forcing her to marry their own selected guy. But I am deeply concerned with my partner. My parents are ready to meet. But my parents denied because they got some false news regarding About me. But I decided to end up my life. Because i don’t want anyone to be suffer. I am mentally Dipression, I can’t live without her, I love u so much, Unlimited love, I want to marry her, Plz help me

  22. One of the best place to resolve the issue related to these love problem, if you really want to marry your love one, go ahead and these guys will make everything possible to make you both a single body. They are really hard working and dedicated towards love. I appreciate this work and love the way you guys are handling these matters. Really a great effort.

  23. Dear sir,
    I am 26 yrs old girl. And my partner is also 26 years. We are from 2 different states. We love each other unconditionally. My partner current situation is very weak. My parents doesn’t accept him as we have never ever met each other till now. We decide first to let our parents meet first. But now my parents and other relatives are forcing me to marry their own selected guy. But I am deeply concerned with my partner. My partner parents are ready to meet. But my parents denied because they got some false news regarding my lover. But I decided to end up my life. Because i don’t want anyone to be suffer. I am mentally blackmailed by my parents. My all original documents are with my parents. Now am totally broken up.

  24. Hallo alle Zusammen
    eine sehr gute Sache! Mach weiter so! Ich bin selber auch betroffen. Ich melde mich per WhatsApp. Ich wünsche Euch Viel Erfolg!!!!!

    – – Google Translation – –

    Hello everyone
    A very good thing! Keep it up! I’m also affected myself. I will contact you via WhatsApp. I wish you much success!!!!!

  25. Sir main jise pyar karta hon uski shaadi hone wali hai lekin sir uski jabar dast shaadi ki ja rhi hai, uski abhi date 12/12/2018 ko shaadi hai, sir main to bahut pareshan hon, shaadi ke liye maine to apane mammi papa puri family ko bhi mana liya, sabhi logon ne bhi han bhi ka diya lekin sir ladki ke ghar wale nahin man rahe hain, bol rahe hain ki agar nahin mani to use mar denge or mujhe bhee mar denge, to sir kya is bat ka koi aapke pass samadhan hai

  26. Hi sir … mera name Praksh he. me ek ladki se bahoot pyar krta hu .. mare ghre me pata chalgya hamare bare me or kal us k ghre pe bhi pata chalgaya uske bhai … me jis se pyar krta hu wo mari jaan he, me nahi chahata ki hum dono alag ho, me chahata hu ki hum ek sath life gujare, pr kal us k ghre me bhai ko pata chala to usne cell bhi leliya, ab baat bhi nahi hoti or milna bhi possible nahi ne. me kya karu kuch samaj nahi aata, me akela ho chuka hu, me uske bina jina nahi chahta. me kya karu sir, mere paas koy rasta nahi he, ab me kya kru … Plz help me sir, koy rasta batao plz, me uske bina nahi jisakunga ……… Plz sir help mee….

  27. सर मेरी उम्र 23 साल है। मैं पोस्ट ग्रेजुएशन कर रहा हूँ और कोचिंग पढ़ा के अपना खर्च चलाता हूँ, उसी में से एक लड़की मुझसे प्यार करती है और मैं भी उससे प्यार करता हूँ, अभी वो 17 साल की है और हमने डिसाइड किया है कि जब मेरी जॉब लगेगी और उसकी पढ़ाई पूरी होगी तो हम मैरिज करेंगे। सर कुछ लड़कों को ये बात पता चल गई है और वो धमकी दे रहे हैं और लड़की को ब्लैकमेल कर रहे हैं और कहते हैं कि लड़की के घर मे बता देंगे। प्लीज बताइये मैं क्या करूँ। लड़की यादव है और मैं साहू हूँ।

  28. Sir mera name Sajid hai, meai 18 saal ka hu aur meri gf 18 sal ki hai, mai Krishnagar mai rehta ho aur mai Muslim aur woh ladki Hindu hai, ladki ki ghar mai sabko pata chal gaya, uss ladki ko suka ma baba bahut marte hai aur mujhi damki deti hai, woh meri bina mar jatuh aur mai bhi pls reply

  29. Sir meri ek dost hai jo ki Hindi Brahaman hai wo bhi U.P se, use ek Kashmir k ladake se love ho gaya hai, Anant Naag me, wo ladaka Mushlim hai, ladaka ladaki dono shaadi karana chahate hai, kya inki shaadi ho sakati hai. kya ladaki walo ko unke ghar Kashmir me jaak ladka ka haanth maanga ja sakata hai.

  30. I appreciate the efforts of your organization but please also provide support for single people who are forced for marriage. And also for people who are bullied and emotionally blackmailed by their parents for marriage.
    I’d love to join your organization and expand your network to create awareness in society so that such parents/families should feel scared when they force their children into marriage.

  31. Hello sir, i am 24 year old Hindu, my girlfriend also 24 year old Muslim, we want to marry with each other, my parents are ready but her parents are not ready and they forcing his daughter to marry with some one else, she left her job also, they are not ready to accept me as I am Hindu. What can I do now sir? they took her phone also, pls help me

  32. Hello sir i am 25 year old, my girlfriend also 23 year old, we want to marry with each other, my parents are ready but her parents are not ready and they forcing his daughter to marry with some one else, she left her job also, they took her phone also, she is so dipressed now days and her father cheat with us, they took all the documents from me and told me we will do court marriage with u and u come in our home, I went their home then they told us I will not allow our daughter to go with u and also not marry with, my family also shocked, they maked conspiracy towards us and they threaten also their daughter we will kill u both if u will marry with each other, her father is in police, he is in SI Post that’s why he taking all the advantage and now they emotionally blackmailing her daughter

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