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Love Commandos is a voluntary organization in India dedicated to helping India’s lovebirds who want to marry for love. We provide assistance in protecting couples, helping them fight harassment and giving them shelter so they can marry freely.

Mr. Sanjoy Sachdev
Mr. Harsh Malhotra
Chief Co-Ordinator

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Helpline — 2,599 Comments

  1. Hello team,
    Just to say how astonished I am that such a glorious organisation like yours exists.
    Thank you for being here, thank you for all the hard work, thank you for restoring my faith in humanity.

  2. Hello.. good morning sir…
    mi eak laki say behad pyar krta hu or o v mujhsay bahut payar krti hi. mera familaly raji hi us say shaadi karne kay liye but uska famimaly except nhi krta h mujhy. o mere pass apna ghar chor kr aa gai hi.. ab mi kya kru. mujhy kuch samjh may nhi aaraha hi. agar hum dono ko kuch huaa to hum log suside kr lege. so isliye mujhy aapka help chahiye.. plz sir aap mera help krege naaa.. bus aap pr hi bharosa hi..

    • Dear friend,

      आपकी ईमेल आई•डी• गलत है.

      कृपया अपने दोंनो की उम्र तथा एड्रेस प्रूफ की स्कैन की हुई कॉपियाँ और अपना फोन नम्बर हमें पर ईमेल करें.

      ✆ आप हैल्पलाइन नम्बर 09313550006 / 09313784375 पर हम से बात भी कर सकते हैं.

      Your email ID is wrong.

      Please email us the scanned copies of age & address proof of both to:

      ✆ Please discuss on Helpline: 09313550006 / 09313784375

      Please visit the FAQ page at and ensure that you fulfill all requirements for marriage.

      Team Love Commandos

  3. Helo,
    I am a Gujrati guy, well settled, belong from reputed family. i love a Marwari girl, we are deeply in love with each other but her parents are not agrreeing to us n forcing them to marry somewher else. They are torturing her n emotionally blackmailing her to marry somewere else. We want to marry wid evryone’s consent. Soon we need a solution or her parents will fix her mariage smwer else.

  4. Sir
    I am 20 years old and my girl frnd is 22 year old. We want to get married. My home is urge Ready. But her family is not ready.
    And can not wait until the completion of 21 years what can we do

  5. Main ek Rajput hu.. aur mera bf v Rajput h.. hm dono shaadi k liye sbko ghr p bolna chahte h par darr lagta h ki jb wo ye janenge ki gotra same h to ky wo manenge.. agar nahi mane to hm dono ky kre
    Plzz help

  6. sir
    I am Vijay (26), my girl friend age 25, we both are in love since 5 years, we belongs to same caste, i have good job, now girl parents are not accepting my love, the reason told by them is i am unkown person to them, they harnessing the girl to do other marriage and black mailing as “if you want to do love marriage, we all are die”, they took phone and stop contact between us, she is in home arrest, she don’t have chance to call me, no one is there to express her problem for helping she.
    I am unable to do anything because am fearing with there parents black mail. I am waiting for my girl friend phone call, please sir what may i do. help me sir.

  7. Hi Team,

    If any couple named Picasso and Akshitha, came to you please send back home to Hyderabad, as Picasso mother’s health is so bad and if they have any doubt, ask them to come after marriage, both the side parents have accepted for marriage, please send them as soon as possible. (ask them to come tomorrow).
    At least ask them to contact us now – Every one accepted

  8. Plz help me, i love someone but his father is not give permission for marrage and we not do the marrage without them parmission, plz solve my problem, i am from Gujarat

    • Dear friend,

      आपकी ईमेल आई•डी• गलत है.

      कृपया अपनी सही ईमेल आई•डी• हमें पर ईमेल करें.

      ✆ आप हैल्पलाइन नम्बर 09313550006 / 09313784375 पर हम से बात भी कर सकते हैं.

      Your email ID is wrong.

      Please email your correct email ID to .

      ✆ Please discuss on Helpline 09313550006 / 09313784375.

      Please visit the FAQ page at:

      Team Love Commandos

  9. You are doing great job by protecting couples who want to be with each other and have caste as problem.

    Dr. Ambedkar in his ‘Annihilation of Caste’ Book has said that intercaste marriages are the only option for the problem of caste to be solved in a country like India. 

    Reformers like Mahatma-Savitribai Phule, Shahu Maharaj, Ambedkar worked until last breath for caste to end from this society.

    Heartfelt thanks to every volunteer of your’s. We are really proud of all of you.

    Thank you 🙂

  10. Hello sir, m Haryana se hu, sir meri umar 20 saal h or meri gf ki umar bhi 20 saal sir. Hum ek dusre se bahut pyaar krte h sir but hmari intercaste h or humari shaadi krna jruri h, sir kya hamari shaadi ho skti h, sir plzz bataiye.

    • Hello sir, mne aapko 1 saal phle bataya tha shaadi krne k baare me but uss time prr meri age 20 saal thi or ab m 21 saal kaa ho jaaunga March me orr mujhe shaadi krni h orr meri intercaste h to aap kuch help kijiye ki hum kse shaadi kr skte h, aap plzz help kriye hamari, hme shaadi krni h orr ghrwaale usko shaadi k liye ldke dekh rhe h to plzz mujhe kuch bataiye ki hum kse shaadi kr skte h, meri aapse 1 saal phle baat hui thi, aap bole ki phle 1 saal kaa wait kro kyoki tab m 21 saal kaa nhi tha to plz help usss … sir mera contact no. h – ##########

  11. sir mai Ritesh Nagpur se hu, mai ek ladki se bhot pyar karta hu aur wo bhi mujhse bhot pyar karti h, 1 sal pahele usk ghar per pata chala to usk ghar walo ne mere hat per dhaga banwa diya aur bhai bahen bana diya but we tried going forward qki humne bhai bahen wala rishta accept nahi kiya aur abhi fir se usk ghar per pata chala hia to ladki ko ladki k ghar walo ne mara h aur usper bhot dabav dalre hai aur mujhse bhi writting me likhwa liya hai ki agar iske aage maine usse contact kiya to hum dono ko wo mar dalenge, sir we both are in love truely, meri job lagte hi mai ussse shaadi karne wala hu but dono k ghar wale suune k liye tyar nahi hai. ab meri uss ladki se bat nahi hori h. sir mujhe bus itni help chaiyeah apse ki ladki ka koi nuksan na ho qki padhne me aachi hai aur abhi 3rd year me h, plz help me sir.

  12. Hello, sir mera name Ramprakash hai aur mein ek ladki se bahut pyar krta hu, wo bhi mujhse boht pyar krti hai. Hum dono shaadi krna chahte the pr ek codition pr agr hum dono me se kisi ek ki govt. job lag jati lekin ab tk humari koi bhi govt. job nhi lgi. Aur aaj uski shaadi kisi aur se tah ho gyi hai, uski shaadi 4 April 2017 ko hone jaa rhi hai. Hum dono ish shaadi se bilkul bhi khush nhi hai, hum dono roz pal pal ghut rhe hai sir. her roz sochte hai ki kya kre kya kre ki humari shaadi ho jaye aur jo papa mami jo shaadi kr rhe hai woh ruk jaye. Sir hum dono ek dusre se bahut pyar krte hai sir. Hum ek dusre ke bina jee nhi paa rhe hai. Mein jis ladki se pyar krta hu woh bhi (OBC Jaga) se belong krti hai aur mein bhi (OBC Saini) se belong krta hu. Hum dono Rajasthan ke niwasi hai. Meri age 22years aur uski bhi itni hi hai lekin uske document mein uski age jayda hai (26)years. Sir hum dono apni apni family ko humare relation ke baare mein btane ki himmt nhi ho paa rhi hai. Hum dono andr andr hi ghute jaa rhe hai, sir mein uske bina kabhi nhi jee paaunga sir. Woh bhi mere bina nahi jee paayegi sir. Hum dono well educated hai, sir hum chah kr bhi ek nhi ho paa rhe hai, sir hum kya kre, sir please help me sir. Mein kya kru sir mujhe bataye

  13. Hi, my name is Kunal and I’m from Siliguri, Darjeeling.
    Sir I love a girl and she’s also love me.
    We’re friends from our school life. We met 15 years later and both fall in love for each other.
    I’m working in private sector with good salary and having my own business. But problem is that her parents doesn’t want to see us in a happy married life. And trying to force her to marry with other boy.
    Really I don’t understand what is the issue, what is problem of her parents.
    Plz suggest me what to do sir.
    There is no problem with caste.

  14. Hi everyone, i love someone and he also loves me a lot. unka naam Deepu h. hm dono ek dusre k bina rhne ki soch v nhi skte. pr unke jija ne hm dono ko dra dhmkakr unki shaadi khi or krwa di. or to or Deepu ji k ghr unki sis or bhabhi k samne mujhe characterless btaya. Unki shaadi ko one month ho gae h, wo uske sath ni rh pa rhe na rh payeinge, ab jb unhone apne ghr me kha to dhire dhire samne aaya k Deepu ji k ghr or koi ni janta k unke jija ne hmein itna torchr kiya h. wo ab kya krein, ni rh payeinge wo kisi or k sath, please suggest us.

  15. Hello sir….
    Me Haryana se hu or meri age 19 saal h or meri gf ki age 20 saal h or hum ek dusre se bhut pyaar krte h….
    Sir humari intercaste hai, me Jaat family se belonged hu or meri gf SC category se belong h… sir humari shaadi krna bhut jruryi hai… Sir maine kisi se baat ki thi or usne bola ki humari shaadi ho jaayegi legally…
    Kya sir possibility h k humari legally shaadi ho jaayegi….
    Plz reply sir.. its very important sir

  16. hlw sir,
    mai ek ldki se pyr karta hun aur wo v mujse bhot pyr karti hai pr wo Hindu h aur mai Momdun…hm dono shaadi krna chahte h pr ldki k ghr walon ko btane ki v himmt ni hori kyuki wo kav ni manenge, wo kuch alg h.. unhe apni izzat bhot pyari, unhone ldki se phle hi kha h ki agr usne kav aisa kiya to wo use maarne k sth sth khud ko v maar denge… hm kya kren kuch smj ni aara… hm ek dusre k bina ni rh sakte..

  17. Hiiiiii Sir, me Mumbai se hu, mera naam Raj he. mera age abhi tk 21 nhi hua he. mera date of birth 27/07/1996. ladki ke ghar se ladki ko bohot problem he or o mere sath shaadi krna chahti, mere ghar se ldko accept bt ladki ke ghar wale not accepted. kya me court marraige kr skta hu kya. sir pls mere ko kuch suggest do plssssss………….

    pls sir support me pls help me

  18. Hii, I’m Pari. me jisse pyar krti hu wo mere caste se niche he isliye mere ghr wale marriage k liye maan nhi rhe he. me mere bf k alawa kisi aur se shaadi nhi kr sakti, me kya karu.

  19. Hay Sir, me jis ladki se pyar karta hu uski our meri caste alag hai, mai us ladki ke saath marrage karna chahta hu, vo ladaki Chaudhary hai aur mai Rajput hu… but i know mere marrage ho bhi jaaye… agar koi problam hui to plz appse halp mang sakta hu……

  20. I m a Hindu girl and I love a Muslim boy.. My parents hate him a lot. They don’t want to see his face bt he loves m a lot and i also love him a lot .. and I can’t live without him.. What to do?

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  22. sir mera name raj hai, meri age 21 hai aur mai jis ladki se love krta hu wo abhi 17 ki hai. hum ek dusre se bhut pyar krte hai. shaadi bhi krna chahte hai but hmara caste alg hai to family allow ni krti and hum court marriage bhi ni kr skte qki uski age km hai, plzzzz koi suggestions dijiye hum kya kare

  23. sir..
    me ek ladki se pyar karta hun aur wo bhi muje pyar karti hai par thode din pehle uske ghar walo ko pata chal gaya
    ham dono ki caste ek hi hai lekin uske ghar wale man nahi rahe aur thode dino se uske sath koi contect bhi nahi hui hai, ab kuch samaj me nahi aata me kya karu. pls help me

  24. hello sir

    sir meri age 28 years old he or meri lover ki 20, ham dono bahot pyar karte he but hamari caste alag he, wo Rajshthan se he or me Gujarat se
    ham court merrege karna chahte he, to please hamari help kijiae na
    uske femly wale khush nahi he, uski dusri jagah shaadi tay kar di he
    ham jald se jald shaadi karna chahte he .
    please help mi

  25. Sir. Mera naam Basant hai
    main ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hon aur wo bhi mujhse bahut pyar karti hai, hum dono ki same hi caste hai magar family wale agry nahi kar rahe hai, meri family man bhi jaye magar ladki ki family nahi maan rahi hai. So plz sir hamari madad karo nahi hum dono mar jayenge sir.

  26. Sir mera name Alok Kumar hai. mai NIT ka 11 batch ka student hu .. mai ek ladki se bhut pyar karta hu, uska name Jyoti hai. mai 8 year se pyar karta hu, hm dono ek dusre ko bhut chate hai .. bt wo meri dur ki relation me bhan lagte hai. hm dono court marrige shaadi karne ka proses bhi kuch key the .. bt kise trh se faimly ko pta chal gya or wo Jyoti ko bhut mare or bhut torcher kar rhi hai or sir uska jabrdsti shaadi bhi kar rhi hai, or usko mere bare me ulta sidha bol kar dhmki dey hai .. to sir wo bhut dir gye hai or bhut presan hai .. mai usko rakhna chata hu, mai kbhi bhi kise chig ka dikat nhi hone dunga or uska dream hai MBA karna, mai pura krunga. plz help me sir plz …

  27. Hello sir
    I am Yogi from Indore.
    I and my friend we know each other from last 11 years.
    She is from SC caste and elder than me.
    In my family no one is supporting us.
    We tried our best to make tham agree but all went waste. Her family is agree but only for arrange marriage.
    Kindly help us sir.

  28. sir mai apne college k ldke se bht pyar krti hun and vo bhi hme bht pyar krta h but mere ghar vale razi hi ni ho re shaadi k liye and roz roz nya emotional atyachar hota samaj or khandan k naam pe, plz plz help me.

  29. Hai, this is Sangeetha from Chennai, i love an man who is other caste, he is Hindu but lower caste, so my family did not want accept him, i have been love with him for past 10 years, we love each other a lot, we also have future plans for us, his family accepted me, but my family is not, i have been house arrested for past 3 month, they not letting me out of my house, and they planning to get married to another person in our caste, so they already have an groom for me. they also blackmailing me. if i am not forget my love all my family members will die. so please help me to get out of my house and get married to my love.

  30. I m a Hindu girl and I love a Muslim boy.. My parents hate him a lot. They don’t want to see his face bt he loves m a lot and he will die if he can’t get me.. What to do?

  31. Hello sir. .. mera naam Ujjwal Rawat hai aur main ek ladki Glorya se bhot zada pyar krta hu aur vo b mujhse bhot zada pyar krti hai… sir maine àap logo k bare mei suna hai ki aap log help krte hai… please do help us sir…. uske parents mana kre hai… aur main usse shaadi krna chahta hu aur vo b mujhse but uske gharwale uske sath zabardasti kr rahe h…. m ek teacher hu aur main uski puri zimmedari uthane k liye tayar hu … mere gharwale b ready h…

  32. hello friends, mere naam Avtar hai or mai ek ladki se bahot jada pyar karta ho or vo bi mujse pyar karti hai per mai Hindu ho or vo dusri caste se hai, so humari family allowed ni kar rahi hai. plz help us, hum kya kare

  33. me ek ladke s shaadi ki thi. court marraige nhi kar pai. ab mere gjar wale us ladke ko aur mjhe jaan se marne ki dhamki dekr meri forcefully kahin aur shaadi karwa rahe hain. plzz help me. mere paas zyada se zyada ek month ka tym h.

    plz help me. mere ghar wale mjhe aur jisse pyaa krti hu is ladke ko marne ki dhamki dere hain. Plzz help me. Ek mahine me meei shadi kkrwana chahte hain zabrdasti

  34. Hii sir, I am Girish from Surat (Gujarat), main or ek ladki hum dono ek dusre ko bhot pyar krte hai, hum dono marriage krna chahte hai lekin ladki ke ghr valo ne unki sgai dusre ladke che krva di hai or ladki ka family unke sath marriage krvana chahti hai, wohh ldka ye ladki ko pasand nahi hai, wohh ldka b aisa akkal mand hai kuchh samj nahi rha hai, ladki ka family usike sath force marriage krvana chahte hai, ladki nahi man rhi hai, unke family me hum dono ko koi samj nahi rha hai, ladki ke papa khte hai ki wohh ldka samne se mna krde to hi main ye sgai tod skta hu pr ldka kuchh smj nahi pa rha hai, plz sir help me, hum dono ki ek hi caste ke hai Ahir

  35. Hi sir, I am from Salem, Tamainadu. I love my Mani. He is truly loved me. Suddenly we planned to get married in our house and enjoyed our life for past 4 months. Suddenly my parents know about our relationship and seperate us. We can not live without each other. Pls help me

  36. Hallo sir
    Mera naam Hitesh Patel (Hindu) he, me ek Muslim ladki se pyar karta hu, wo bhi mujhe bohot pyar karti he lejin uske gharvale raji nahi he shaadi k liye or wo us ladki ki jabarjasti koi or Muslim ladke se shaadi karva rahe he, ladki ki age 17 sal ki he, plz kuch rasta dikhao ki hum dono ek ho jaye warna hum ek dusre k bina ji nahi payege, plz sir help me

  37. We are in relation since five years, thinking to get married, I’m pursuing BBA and working with good health care organization and her family needs rich person to marry her. She is locked in her home from 5 days, don’t know how she is. Need your help urgently. call me ASAP

  38. Hi sir my name is Janardhan, I’m native from Andhra Pradesh, my age is 23, I love 1 girl, her age 21, n pls sir help me, sir main problem is job and protection, actually we study pg, my story knows girls home, her parents forced her to marry, she attempts suicide, pls help me sir shelter n job, we both are graduates, help me sir

  39. Mere GF ki shaadi kahi taye ho gaya hai
    Agar mai shaadi ke 1 one month pahle us ladle se kah doo ki jise tumhaari shaadi ho rahi hai woh mujhse Shaadi karna chaahti hair Q ki mujhse payaar karti hai ye baat mai proof ke saath kahungaa to aap ye bataao ki aisa karne se kaya shaadi toot jaayega?
    Aur kay kaya ho sakta hai wageh?

  40. Deoghar dist, post ########## vill ########## ######, my name is Aman Mandal, years 26, me ek larki se shaadi karunga but my life parivate service monthly 16000 thousand, no mother, no father, only one boy and one sister for merrige, i am non mettric pass, hight 5 fit 4 inch

  41. Hello sir,
    Just saw your work here, it’s good to know that someone is helping people to get their loved ones. I am a resident of Ahmedabad,
    I am in a committed relationship from past three years,

    The family of the girl belongs to same religion but diiferent caste,

    As i am sincere and good looking, the mother of the girl first agreed but under the pressure of husband she refused.

    We have good family relations as well but the family of the girl is trying now to pressurize her and get married somewhere else,

    So i request u to please contact me and get some one from you in touch from Ahmedabad city

    Please do the needful at the earliest.

    Thanking you,
    Indian Citizen

  42. Hi sir, I am Ashwani kumar from Bareilly (UP) se hu, sir mai ek Komal Jaiswal nema ki ladki se apni jaan se zyada pyar krta hu, usse shaadi krna chahata hu pr sir Komal Jaiswal caste se hai aur mai Jatab caste se hai, isliye Komal ke femilly wale shaadi nhi krna chahate hai pr sir hum ek dusere se bhut pyar krte hai aur ek dusere ke bina zinda nhi rahe skte hai, sir mai dental hygieneist coruse kr chuka aur mujhe zaldi hi goverment job bhi mil jayegi, Komal bhi B. A. Kr chuki hai, Komal Distt. Sitapur ke Kaswa Sindhuli ki raheni wali hai, plz sir aap log hamari help kr dijiye, hamari shadhi kra digiye, plz sir help me, sir agar sir hamari shaadi nhi hui to hum dono mr jayege, so plz sir help me, sir mera phone no. ########## hai, plz help me. Sir hamari shaadi krwa dijiye plz sir

  43. Sir, i am just an age of 18 and my love n I are in love for 3 years. Both of us belong from totally different caste. M Baniya n he is OBC. I am rich and he is not. My dad n elder brother have beaten both of us till the bloodshed .. I am in a dilemma. We love each other truly but at the same time I don’t want to bring my father a disgrace.

  44. sir, my ek larki se pyar karta hu, oh v mujhe karta hai.. problem sirf etna hai ki oh mujhe se bari hai, our ghar wale nhi manege hamare riste se toh kya haa court shaadi kar sakte hai ki nhi … please sir bataye naa..

    • Sir, mera age 20 and mare Gf Pinky ka age 24 hai oh v mujhe bahut pyar karti hai our my v.. plz sir boliye kya my court shaadi kar sakta hu kya.

  45. Sir mera naam Minni h, mai by caste Kayastha hu or mai ek Brahim ladke se bht mohabat krti hu.. bt meri family against h or meri shaadi krwa rhe jaldbazi me.. maine fight kia bt koi fhyda ni hua.. plz suggest something. Plz help me sir

  46. Sir …
    Hm dono different caste se h .
    Family vale kbhi support nhi krenge or sayad maar bhi de hamko. Hm aaps m ptti-petni mante h…
    Ek hi clg m pedte h
    Bs mei age km h, m usi ka wait kr rha hu…..

    We very very very very very love each-other…
    Plz help me

  47. Sir mera naam Sonu hai, or main jis ladki se pyar karta hun wo meri door ke rishte ki mosi lagti h. hum dono ek dusre ko bahut chahte hain, or shaadi karna chahte hain, lekin humare gharwale kabhi nahi manenge humare relation ki vajeh se, sir plz help me. sir wo bhi bahut chahti h mujhe, agar uske gharwalo ne uski shaadi jabardasti ki to sir wo kuchh ulta-sidha kar legi, plz help me sir

  48. Sir m ek ladki ko bahut pyaar karta hu lekin uske gharwale or mere gharwale is shaadi ke liye nahi maan rahe. abhi m kisi job ke liye mahnat kar raha hu ki sayad koi job mil jaaye to m usko khush rakh saku, or usse bhaag ke court marrige kar lu. Sir mera ek result aane wala h 1 mahine baad, agar m usme paas nahi hua to fir m usse court marrige karunga gharwalo ke against lekin sir fir hume ghar me entry nahi milegi to sir kya mujhe koi aisa kaam mil payega kuch din ke liye jisse m or wo apna gujaara kar sake, or hamare rahne ka bhi problem hoga. mere kuch samajh nahi aa raha sir. mera pyaar mujhse alag ho jayega or wo kehti h agar hamari shaadi nahi hui to m jaan de dungi. plzzz sir reply me

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