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Love Commandos is a voluntary organization in India dedicated to helping India’s lovebirds who want to marry for love. We provide assistance in protecting couples, helping them fight harassment and giving them shelter so they can marry freely.

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  1. Hi sir mera naam Md Imran hai, mai ek ladki se pyar kartha hu or woh ladki bhi mujse pyar karthi hai, humlog ghar walo ko bolke shaadi karna chahthe the or per unlog nai manre, humlog socide bhi attempt bhi kiya fir bhi nahi manre humlog ke ghar wale, or ladki ka naam m Swetha hai, meri age 24 hai or ladki ki age 26 hai, humlog ko shaadi karna hai, plzz help me sir plzz

  2. Dear sir
    Namastey sir, mera naam Kapil Kumar Sharma hai, meri Date of birth 04/10/1991 hai, or sir me jisko pyar karta hu uska naam Pinki Bansal hai, unki Date of birth 05/07/1995 hai, sir jab Pinki ne aapne gharwalo se mujhse shaadi karne ki baat ki to unhone usko bahut mara or mujhe or mere gharwalo ko bhi marne ki dhamki di, jiske karan ab mere gharwale bhi shaadi ke liye taiyar nahi h. tabse hi uske gharwalo ne uska phone tod diya hai aur usko uski mama ke ghar bhej diya. please help me sir

  3. Sir m Distt. Bikaner, Rajasthan ka hu, mene bhi love kiya or shaadi krli but ghar walo ne hume bhut torcher kiya bt hum nhi mane or hamene jse tese vha se nikale liye. but sir present me hamari halat bhut kharab hai, khi se koi bhi help nhi mile rhi hai. muje bahrosa hai ki aap etne lovers ki help ki hai to meri bhi krege, so please contact us. ########## I am stll Waiting

  4. Sir i cant reveal my name here but im a girl from Tamil Nadu…. iam in love and im studying final year. my family came to know about us …. they are not allowing me to continue my education and not allowing me to pursue my job. please help me, im 21 years old

  5. Sir mera naam Rakesh hai, me jis ladki se pyaar karta hu us ladki or mera sarname same hai, hame koi shaadi nhi karne de rhe hai, family wale hame sab kuch bataya unko … ham kya kar skte hai bataao

  6. Hello sir
    Sir i belong to a village where there is a rule that i can’t marry to any boy whose mother is of my place/village. But we don’t have same gotras. His mother’s family and our family don’t have any relation. Neither we attend each other’s family function nor we generally go to each other. We are just neighbours. But when we asked our families abt our marriage they said hum kya muh dikhaege, hum ghr se nhe nikal paenge. Ur relationship is of brother sister
    My father said i used to say jija to his father. His mother never comes to our house. She even never saw me. His mother never tied rakhi to my papa and there is nothing which i could say any bond b/w each other..
    His mother asked her brothers so one said yes it can happen but wt wud outsiders say. Other denied that this kind of marriage can’t happen. Sir we are not native to our present living place. Our 3 generations are living here. They even don’t know the actual reason of these things but still they are following it blindly. According to me these rules were applicable when people don’t know abt their gotras, so for simplication they made a rule that all the people living in one village or to adjoining ones are sibling, so marriages can’t take place. But now everyone knows their gotras and surnames. Sir my father is a well educated man. I m preparing for civil service. But despite all this he gave me lame excuses of society. He know the boy very well and before this incidence my father use to give him huge respect and love. He used to take most of the advices from him.
    Sir is there any way through which we can get any NOC from court that our relation is not prohibited according to the laws of india.
    Kindly help me out.

  7. Sir mera name Prathvi h, m BHARATPUR, Rajasthan se hu, meri age 17 sal h aur m ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu, vo Agra ki rahane vali h, vo bhi mujhse bahut pyar karti lekin ham dono ki uske bhai ko pta chal gyi aur vo sab log use bahut marte h, uska bhai muje marne ki dhamki deta h, sir ladki marna manjoor karti h par muje chhod nhi sakti, sir hamare ghar vale hme marne ki bolte h par hme ek nhi hone denge, kya sir true love karna galat h ya uska matalv marna h, sir hmare pass koi option nhi kuchh bhi karne ko, kya hme marna hi padega, sir please request you help me, sir please help me, ladki mar gyi to sir m jinda nhi rah sakta, kya duniya m true love ke liye koi jagah nhi, kyo do sachhe dilo ko ek nhi hone diya jata, sir i request you please help me please sir

    • Dear Prathvi

      1. आपकी ईमेल आई•डी• गलत है।

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      2. हम आपकी प्रेम की भावना की कद्र करते हैं। आपको समझना होगा कि अभी आपकी उम्र केवल 17 वर्ष है, आप नाबालिग़ हो और विवाह योग्य उम्र नहीं है। क़ानून के मुताबिक शादी के लिए लड़की की उम्र 18 या उस से अधिक और लड़के की उम्र 21 या उस से अधिक होनी चाहिए।

      We appreciate the feelings of love. You should understand that your age is only 17, you are a minor and as per law you are not of marriageable age. As per the law, to be of marriageable age the girl should be 18 or more years of age and the boy should be 21 or more years of age.

      Please visit the FAQ page at http://www.lovecommandos.org/faq/ and ensure that you fulfill all requirements for marriage.

      Team Love Commandos

  8. नमस्ते सर, मे यूपी से हुँ, मे अपने मामा की लड़की से 2009 से प्यार करता हु और ओ भी हमसे प्यार करती है, उसके घर वाले पैसो के मामले हमसे बड़े और उसकी सादी दुसरी जगह करना चाहते और उस पर बार_ बार प्रेसर डालते है, और हमे जान से मारने की धमकी देते है, हम दोनो आज मिले 4 वर्ष हो गये है, बस चोरी चोरी थोड़ा बात होती है। सर न उसके और न ही मेरे घर वाले मान रहे, हम दोनेा की उम्र 23 ’24 के पार है, सर कुछ एसा करिए की हमारा सपना पुरा है क्यो कि आप ही एक साहारा है, दो बार हमारे घर पर भी आ चूके है, सर हमे आप से बहोत उमीद है, मे सर सिपाही बनने के लिए तेयारी करता हूँ, अगर मे लेके भाग गया तो मेरा सब कुछ खराब हो जायेगा, मेरी लाईफ बरबाद हो जायेगी, हमको आप की मदद चाहिए सर

  9. Sir hum dono ghr se bhag chuke h or Allahabad m h, ek dusre ko bahut chahte h. humare ghrwale humse btt tk ni krna chahte. humaare financial condition bahut kharab h, rahne or khane tk ko ni h. koi job bi ni mil rhi. ni pata kya kre. We really need help. Plzzzz sir.

  10. Sir mera name Arvind Singh h, m Barmer, Rajsthan se hu, m ek ladki se pyar karta hu, ladki ke gar walu ne uski egengment kara di h kisi or se, plz help me, mery dob 20/2/2000, uski 30/6/96, shaadi do tin sal bad karni h, m study karta hu, plz help us

  11. Sir mera name Chanchal Kumar Das hai
    hum ek ladki se pyaar karta hu jo mera village ki hai, uska age school ke shirtuficate se 16 year hai par real me 19 year hai, addhar me 19 year tha to kam karwana para but birth shirtuficate me 19 year hai…
    but sabse badi porablum yah hai ki ladki ke maa papa hum dono ki shaadi kabhi nhi hone denge or us ladki ka shaadi agle year hone wali hai par ladki bolti hai humko kahi bhaga ke le chalo nhi to mere maa papa mera shaadi kahi or karwa denge …. ager uske ghar walo uski sadi jabrdasti karwayenge to o apni jaan de degi, ager use kuchh hua to hum bhi nhi jee payenge, sir please meri madad kijiye

  12. Dear sir,
    my self Jayshri, kindly i need your suggestion, mujhey aapki help chahiye please, me and my boy frnd love each other, but due to inter religion there was problem with me, even though my parents accepted over love, but only thing they are asking for both marriages (Hindu & Christ marriages), so i convince my boy frnd to ask his parents at least ofr both religion marriage, but his parents not accepting for both marriages, his mother asking for Christian mrg, but it is happening since one and half year sir, they are talking everything on call not even they only my boy frnd is in contact with me, they did not cum to my home to talk my parents, even my boy frnd not doing dare to come my home and talk to my parents. he is asking me to come out of home will go out n get married, but i don’t want that kind of marriage sir, when my parents are supporting y shud i go with him. sir, i want him to come my home sir, please make him to come my home sir…. please…

  13. Sir mai aap se milna chahta hu

    mai bhi aapke sath kam karna chah raha hu.
    Please Sir aap apne company me mujhe job dede.

    mai bhi aap sab ki help kar ke aapne aap ko Lucky samjhunga.

    My contact number – ##########

  14. I am so proud of u. A country like India has some real man (mard) who supports love. Great grand salute to Love Commandos. currently I am a students of Delhi University, when I start earning i will support u with all of my (in hindi we say – tan man dhan se), I want this organisation at national level with full power and great potential, i want to become an IAS officer, i will support u with everything i have got at that time, till than i will do according to my potential for the love, for the Love Commandos, thank you. kabhi har mt maanna, iss desh ka youth apke sath hai

  15. Sir mera naam Suraj hai, mai ek Pooja naam ki ladki se love karta hu, ladki bhi mujhse hi shaadi karna chahti hai lekin ghar wale nahi maan rahe hai, aise me hum log kya kare kuch samajh me nahi aa raha, aise me kya kare, bhagkar shaadi kare ya fir nahi kare, nahi kar paunga n to ladki mar jayegi aur mai bhi uske bina nahi rah sakta

  16. Hello sir,
    My name is Tuhin Pal and I am 23 yrs old. I love a girl (Pallabi Ghosh), age 21+.
    Her family does not allow her to contact with me after knowing about our relationship. Her father has a strong political support and has enough power to keep us away from each other. They kept her in their house for long time and torchered her several times. Now it is going out of control. And I want to pick her out from the hell. Please help us.

  17. Hi sir, meri age 21 he or mer gf ki 23 lekin humare ghr me se koi shaadi ke liye man nhi rhe, hum ek duje ke bger nhi rah skte, kya kre hum koi upay btao aap

  18. Hlo
    Sir,
    Please my help,
    ma ek ladki sa love krta hu
    ma auska sath shaadi krna chata hu
    ladki ki massi ka ladka muja marna ke damkie deta ha
    to plzz Sir mere help ki
    muja shaadi krna ma koi problem nhi aaye
    (Jai hind)

  19. Hello sir, mera naam Sneha hai. mai 5 saal se ek Muslim ladke ke sath relationship me hu. aaj maine ghar me uske baare me baat ki, bohot convince bhi kiya par mere papa bol rahe hai ki agar maine us ladke se shaadi ki to vo jaan dey denge. gharwale kya bolenge, mai kisi ko muh dikhane ke layak nahi rahunga. aisi baate kar rahe hai. aap kuch kar sakte ho kya?

  20. sir, mai ek ladki ko pyar karta hun, wo ladki bhi mujhe pyar karti hai lekin hum dono intercaste hai isiliye hum dono ka family hamara pyar ko accept nahi kartr hai.. mera umar 26 or ladki ka umar 22 saal hai.. abhi ladki ki gharwale ne ladki ko dhamkia dekar usse Brahmakumaris mai add karwa dia… abhi wo ladki bh darke mujhe shaadi karne kellie inkaar karti hai.. lekin uski chehere mai mere lie pyar abhi bh kam nahi hua.. mai khud is baat mai ladki ka bhai or pitaji se bhi baat ki lekin koi bh mera baat ko sunnne keliye raaji nahi hai.. wo ladki ki dimag ka undar jo dar hai usse dur karne kelie bh mujhe mouka nahi milta hai.. kyuki Brahmakumaris mai mujhe allowed nahi karte hai.. So plz mujhe kuchh suggestions dijie.. mai abhi helpless hun..

  21. i need your help, plz help me, i am a girl, name Samreen, 19 yr old, belongs to Muslim community. i love a guy, he is too, we both love to each other and want to get marry but we both belongs to different caste, i belong to (Qureshi) and he belongs to (Ansari) his name i Anas
    his family is rich and powerfull than me, his father has a strong connection to the police or rowdy on the basis of money and his father has a proud for those contacts and because of it he always threaten to my family for false cases that if you don’t stop your daughter so i wiil harm her by someone and you will not be able to do anything. he always comes at my home threat to kill me or get somthing wrong with me. recently yesterday night Anas argue with his father or mother to convince them for our marry but they gave a negative reaction that if we get a marry so he can get very bad thing with me or my family, he can also get me harm by throwing acid or something else and he also said that “you don’t know me what can i do if you try to do this so i will distroy her and her entire family in such false case from which they can never get rid”. plz help us, we are in trouble because we do not want to loose each other, plz do somthing for us.

    thank you
    Samreen

  22. Sir mera name Ritam Singh hai. or mera age 21+ hai. or main jis ladki se pyar karta hu unka age 16 hai. or hum dono ek dusre se 3 year se pyar karte hai. or mere ghar walo ko pta chal gya. or humdono ko ek dusre se alag kar diya. or humlogo ka yhi problem hai ki caste match nhi karta. mera caste Singh hai. or wo Sharma hai. Plz help me. ydi unki shaadi khi or ho jayegi to main mar jaunga

    • Dear Ritam Singh

      हम आपकी प्रेम की भावना की कद्र करते हैं। हांलाकि आपकी उम्र 21 वर्ष है परन्तु वह लडकी अभी नाबालिग है क्योंकि उसकी उम्र 18 से कम है। आपको उस के 18 की उम्र होने तक प्रतीक्षा करनी होगी। क़ानून के मुताबिक शादी के लिए लड़की की उम्र 18 या उस से अधिक और लड़के की उम्र 21 या उस से अधिक होनी चाहिए। इस दौरान अगर आप दोंनो के घरवाले आप दोंनो में से किसी के भी जबरन शादी करवाना चाहें तो आप हमें सूचित कर सकते हैं। उस समय उन के खिलाफ कानूनी कार्यवाही करने की आवश्यकता होगी। तब तक के लिए आप दोंनो के प्रेम के लिए शुभकामनाएँ।

      We appreciate the feelings of love. You should understand that she is a minor and not of marriageable age. Although you are 21 years old but you need to wait till she is 18 plus. As per the law, to be of marriageable age the girl should be 18 or more years of age and the boy should be 21 or more years of age. In the meanwhile if parents of anyone attempt to forcibly marry the boy or girl, please feel free to contact us. A legal action would need to be taken at that time. Best wishes for your committed love till that time.

      Please visit the FAQ page at http://www.lovecommandos.org/faq/ and ensure that you fulfill all requirements for marriage.

      Team Love Commandos

  23. Sir agar ladki ghar ke andar kaid karke rakhi gai ho aur use kahin jane n de uske ghar wale toh aise me woh kaise shaadi karegi, agar wo wo ghar se n bhag paye aur uske pass mobile bhi n ho. toh aise me uska kaise madad ho sakta hai. aur uska bf kaise madad kar sakta hai

  24. Hello sir, m Mukesh Kumari, village #######, Tehsil and District ##########, sir meri shaadi ghr wale jabardasti kar rhe h, m shaadi ni karana chahti, plzz kese bi karke help karo, m chupkr k phone karti hu, m chahti hu mere address par direct team bheji jaye kyonki yhaa ki police khuch ni kar rhi h, mama SP h, unhone bol rakha h ki koi complain naa li jaye, mere sath bhot jada bura ho rhaa h, sir meri age 22 saal h, muje marna parega … m 15 dino se bhot jada dukhi hu… plzz mere paremi ne aapko mail bi ki thi, ##########@gmail.com, plzz sir help me, mera no. ########## h bt ispe call mat karna, sir meri maa uthayegi, plzz sir team sidha ghr bhejo, address h village #######, ##### #####, Teh. and District ########## ######

  25. sir mera naam Shakti hai, mene ek Muslim ladki ke sath shaadi kri h usee bhagaker kyoki ghr wale mante nhi. ladki ki umar 19 saal hai or meri 22. hmne maszid me shaadi krli hai or mene Muslim dharm dil se apna liya h pr ladki ke ghr wale hme abhi bhi nhi apna rhe hai or dhamkiya de rhe h ki milte he mar denge jbki hmne pure kanooni tor pr yeh shaadi ki h, plz help us

  26. sir mai ek ladki se 8 saal se pyar karta hu, meri abhi tak job nahi lagne k karan uska shaadi kahi or fix ho gayi thi, maine ush se baat kiya to boli parents nahi maan rahe hai, uske family wale k ye sb janne k baad uspr pressure de rahae hai, torcher kar rahe hai ush pr, ush se baat hona v band ho gaya hai, uska phone chin liya gaya hai, uska shaadi to tut gaya, ladka ko pata chal gaya meri wajah se to wo bahut naraj hai, magar mai ush se bahut pyar karta hu, wo v karti hai magar torcher se pareshan ho kar hame bhul jane ko bol rahi hai, mai ush se mil k usko manana chahta hu, lakin dar raha hu kahi uske ghar gaya or wo log marne marne pr aa gaye to kya hoga. kyu ki wo bahar to nikalti nahi, padhai exam sb kuch band karwa diya gaya hai uska. mai kya karu.

  27. Namaste Sir mera naam Pushpendra hai, me Gwalior se belong krta hu, meri age 26 years h, me 1 ladki ko psnd krta hu, vo Bhopal se h, uski age 23 h, hum dono shaadi krna chahte h lekin dono k parents ko objection h, hum dono same caste ke h, lekin fir v parents nhi naam rhe, bolte h hmari izzat mitti me mil jayegi tu ne is ladki se shaadi ki to, kya kre hum, please help kijiye sir please

  28. Sir mera name Avinash Bhoi he aur mera age 23 sal he, me ek dusre caste ki ladki ko love karti hu aur unka age 18 saal he, wo v mujhe bahut pyar karti hai, mane ghar bale nahi man rahe he, kehte ki alag caste ki ladki ko shaadi karega to hum nahi accept karenge, hamara gaon me izaat chala jaega, hum sucied kar denge bolte he, to me bhag k shaadi karna chahta ho aur bahar hi rahe jana chahta hu, sir plzz hamari madat karo, sir me unke bina nahi jina chahata hu

  29. Dear Sir,

    I am in love with a Gupta Family Girl and want to marry but her parents are not ready for the same. I tried to convince them but all time they denied. As i told her for the court marriage but she is not ready without her parents permission. My parents are with me and supporting me in every situation but her parents are orthodox type. We both are above 21 and we both in love deeply. Please suggest what to do..?

  30. Dear Sir…
    We are glad to inform u that me and my lover birth in 1995.
    So now please tell me that can we marriage to each other..?
    sir we both have very tenson for our caste… both’s family against of intercaste marriage…
    Plz tell me about some rules of government…

  31. Hello sir
    My name is Kishor Regar. Sir meri age 20 year complete ho gyi or 21th chal rahi h. meri GF ki age 18 complete h. hum dono ek dusre se shaadi karna chahte h. par uske ghar wale shaadi nahi karne de rahe hai. par wo mujhse shaadi karna chahti h. mujhe aapki help ki jarurat h sir. Please help me sir.

    • Dear Kishor Regar

      हम आपकी प्रेम की भावना की कद्र करते हैं। आपको समझना होगा कि अभी आपकी उम्र केवल 20 वर्ष है और विवाह योग्य उम्र नहीं है। क़ानून के मुताबिक शादी के लिए लड़की की उम्र 18 या उस से अधिक और लड़के की उम्र 21 या उस से अधिक होनी चाहिए। हाँलाकि लडकी की उम्र 18 वर्ष है परन्तु क़ानून आपको अभी इजाज़त नही देता है शादी के लिए। आपको 21 की उम्र का होने तक प्रतीक्षा करनी होगी। इस दौरान अगर आप दोंनो के घरवाले आप दोंनो में से किसी के भी जबरन शादी करवाना चाहें तो आप हमें सूचित कर सकते हैं। उस समय उन के खिलाफ कानूनी कार्यवाही करने की आवश्यकता होगी। तब तक के लिए आप दोंनो के प्रेम के लिए शुभकामनाएँ।

      We appreciate the feelings of love. You should understand that your age is only 20 and as per law you are not of marriageable age. As per the law, to be of marriageable age the girl should be 18 or more years of age and the boy should be 21 or more years of age. Although she is 18 years old but you need to wait till you are 21 plus. In the meanwhile if parents of anyone attempt to forcibly marry the boy or girl, please feel free to contact us. A legal action would need to be taken at that time. Best wishes for your committed love till that time.

      Please visit the FAQ page at http://www.lovecommandos.org/faq/ and ensure that you fulfill all requirements for marriage.

      Team Love Commandos

  32. Sir meri age 19 years hai or meri girlfriend ki age 16 years h, hamare ghar mai hamari reletionship ke bare m kareeb 1 saal phle ptaa chl gyaa thaa, ab hum dobra mile too ghr m ptaa chl gyaa, vo 12th class m pdti h, too uske ghrwalo ne uska school chhutwa diya hai, meri usse koi contact nhi ho pa rha h, sir preshani m hu m, please u suggest me ki kyaa karu

    • Dear Manoj Kumar

      हम आपकी प्रेम की भावना की कद्र करते हैं। आपकी उम्र 19 बर्ष है और लड़की की उम्र 16 वर्ष है तो इस हिसाब से लड़की नाबालिग़ है और आप दोनों अभी शादी नहीं कर सकते हो। क़ानून के मुताबिक शादी के लिए लड़की की उम्र 18 या उस से अधिक और लड़के की उम्र 21 या उस से अधिक होनी चाहिए। आपको लड़की के 18 की उम्र और अपनी 21 की उम्र होने तक प्रतीक्षा करनी होगी। इस दौरान अगर आप दोंनो के घरवाले आप दोंनो में से किसी के भी जबरन शादी करवाना चाहें तो आप हमें सूचित कर सकते हैं। उस समय उन के खिलाफ कानूनी कार्यवाही करने की आवश्यकता होगी। तब तक के लिए आप दोंनो के प्रेम के लिए शुभकामनाएँ।

      We appreciate the feelings of love. You are 19 years old and the girl is 19 years old, it means she is a minor. and not of marriageable age. As per the law, to be of marriageable age the girl should be 18 or more years of age and the boy should be 21 or more years of age. You need to wait till the girl is 18 or more years of age and you are 21 or more years of age. In the meanwhile if parents of anyone attempt to forcibly marry the boy or girl, please feel free to contact us. A legal action would need to be taken at that time. Best wishes for your committed love till that time.

      Please visit the FAQ page at http://www.lovecommandos.org/faq/ and ensure that you fulfill all requirements for marriage.

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