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Love Commandos is a voluntary organization in India dedicated to helping India’s lovebirds who want to marry for love. We provide assistance in protecting couples, helping them fight harassment and giving them shelter so they can marry freely.

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967 thoughts on “Helpline

  1. deepak chaudhary says:

    sir, mera ek ladki se peechle 8 sail she affair chal rha h, wo 8 saal pehle Ghar chodkar a gyi thi, Maine use bahut samjha kar wapas bheja taki hum bhaag kar shadi na kare, gharwalo ko mana kar shadi kare, lekin 8 saal se uske gharwale use bahar akele nikalne nhi dete, hum 8 saal se letter se baat karte hain, meri govt. job lgi thi Maine use chhod diya kyunki agar mein training mein chala jata to letter se bhi communication khatm ho jata, uske gharwale manne ke liye ready nhi h, or ab who bhi Ghar chhodkar shadi karne ke liye ready nhi h, sir kuch Dino se mera letter se bhi contact nhi ho rha, sir mera bahut Bura haal ha, plz sir help me I want to marry her. thx

  2. Alok Kumar Suraj says:

    dear sir,

    Sir my name is Alok Kumar Suraj. Sir me ek ladki se pyar karta hu or wo bhi mujshe, or hum dono ek dusre se shadi karna chahte the lekin us ladki ke parents agree ni hai. Hum dono ek hi caste ke hai or us ghar se humara pahle se bhi rista hai. Hum dono ko is riste ko leke aaj kariban 12 saal lagbhg ho gaye hai, hum dono ke beech me sexual relation bhi hai. Lekin kuch mahino se us ladki ke parents ne usko dhamkana suru kar diya jiski wajah se dabaw me aake wo ladki mujhe chhudane ki kosis karne m lagi h, lekin wo mujhe bhut pyare krti h, shayd mujhse bhie jada, wo mujhe nhi chhodna chahti but uske 3 parents h – 2 mummy aur papa – uski dono mumy ko hmare barme m phle se pata tha but wo khud pr hi sb khtm kr dena chahti h, uske papa s nhi batna chahti h, mere ghar m sbko pat h aur sb ko koi problem n h, ek bar meri mummy aur uski dono mummy s hmari baat hui thi, unko hi problm h bs aur wo sb uske papa ko nhi batna chahti h. ham dono ka ghar aas-pas m h. mujhe ye nhi pata ki uske ghar walo ne use kya kha. use meine bhut kha chalo hm shadi kar lete h but wo khati h hm krge sbki khushi s jisse sb khush rhe. aur hm dono ek dusre ko bhut achi tarh s jante h.

    help me plz my no. is ########## and my email id is ############@#####.###

    sir plz help me quick, I kindly request to u sir help me, what do I do?

    Thank u dear sir.

  3. mange ram says:

    Respected sir i want to join this great activity. pls contact me 0##########

  4. Shyam says:

    Sir mai 24 saal ka hun or mai ek ladki se pyaar karta hun wo bhe mujhe pyaar karti hai hum shaadi karna chate hai par uske ghar waale is baat se khush nahi hai kyuonki wo ameer hai or hum utne ameer nahi mai ldki ko bhag kar shaadi ke liye bolta hoon par wo iske liye raaze nahi hai plz help me

  5. Sandeep Singh says:

    Respected Mr. Sachdev

    I want to join your organization. So plz take me . I want to provide job for all other person who don’t have family support after love marriage.
    So contact me by mail
    Thanks

    • Harsh Malhotra, Chief Co-ordinator, Love Commandos says:

      Please tell us the details of jobs as stated and also give us your contact number. We have already mailed you in response but there is no reply.
      If you really want to help help lovers like that please be specific and tell us how you intend to give them employment, whether directly or otherwise.

  6. Afroz says:

    Just heard abt this org. I am Muslim guy in love with Rajput girl. Relationship from last 4 yrs. My parents are agreed for marriage but my gf can’t talk to her parents, in fear of loosing me .. If she gonaa talk abt me. She is 26 now on verge of getting married & the prob is she can’t talk to her parents and will take some extreme step becoz of marriage. I am worried don’t know what to do. Thinking to run away or court marriage. If you can help.

  7. sarita says:

    i am a rajput girl and i want to marry a brahmin boy but my father has threatened me if i ran away or marry with that boy then either they would honour kill or file a lot of cases against us. what should i do please help

  8. P says:

    Hi,

    I’m a 24 year old girl from Bangalore, in love with a guy my age from Pune.

    His parents are ok with us marrying, but my parents and brother are opposing staunchly. I have tried to convince them in multiple ways, but they have only put me under house arrest and restricted me from time to time. Also, they’re using a lot of emotional blackmailing. My parents love me, and I love them, too, but I cannot move on without this guy. Mine is a Malayali family, and they believe in astrology. My parents and brother are speeding up the process of looking for a groom for me; they say my choice is not correct and that choosing a groom is their right.

    I was also raised in Pune, and my extended family still lives there. One of my relatives is also an influential local politician in Pune. My guy is a Buddhist while I am a Hindu, and he also belongs to a different ‘caste’. Right now, my family has taken my life decisions in their hands, asked me to quit my job and sit at home, do something independently.

    I feel like I need to leave my home soon, but I want to do it safely and without putting our lives in jeopardy. Please advise.

  9. Hi, can you provide love marriage procedure and expected charges?
    Is lawyer required for the process…??
    Please guide. This is a nice initiative.

  10. Asif Akbar says:

    Dear sir,

    Me and my gf is in relation since last 5 year i want to marry her but our families is against our relation, now a days I’m living in Delhi. Working in an MNC since last 1 year.

    If possible plz give me advice what to do, i can’t live without her, i’m 25 year old and she is turned 24 this month.

    Plz help us

  11. Punjabi Girl says:

    Hello Sir

    Please sir help me out. Please advice me what to do. I am a Punjabi girl from Haryana and I love a Jain boy from last 7 yrs bt ab humari family vale humare rishte to accept nahi kr rhe .. my family is not supporting. But ab hum ek dusre k bina nahi reh skte. Please humari help kijiye. Ab mere ghar vale mujhe emotionally blackmail kr k kahi r shaadi krne ko bol rhe hai but me agree nahi hu. They are forcing me to choose somebody else of their choice. Vo jo b ladka dikhate hai mna kr deti hu but aisa kb tk chal skta hai. Ladke ki family agreed hai but me apne gharvalo ka kya kru. Please suggest me somethng and help us.

    We both are employed and earn so well that we can live happily together.

  12. Nikki Pathak says:

    Dear Sir

    Sir my name is*******. Sir me ek ladki se pyar karta hu or wo bhi mujshe or hum dono ek dusre se shadi karna chahte the lekin us ladki ke parents agree ni hai. Hum dono ek hi cast ke hai or us ghar se humara pahle se bhi rista hai. Hum dono ko is riste ko leke aaj kariban 2 saal ho gaye hai hum dono ke beech me sexual relation bhi hai. Lekin kuch mahino se us ladki ke parents ne usko dhamkana suru kar diya jiski wajah se dabaw me aake us ladki ne mujse picha chudane ki kosis karne lagi lekin jab wo apni kosis me kamyab nhi ho payi to usne mere saath berahmi se paish aana suru kar diya taki me khud tang aakar use chhod du lekin wo fir bhi kamyab nhi hui or ab uske gharwalo ne saf mana kar diya or us ladki ko bhi dara dhamkake apni taraf kar liya, us ladki ke badal jane ke baad mere gharwale bhi ab is riste ke khilaf ho gaye hai or mujhe usse baat karne ko mana kar rahe hai or mujhe dhamka bhi rahe hai, us ladki ne bhi mere saath majburi me aake dhoka karne ka faisla kar liya or mere gharwale bhi mere khilaf ho gaye or kahte hai ki agar mene usse baat ki to mujhe ghar se bahar nikal dege, jaan se mar dege ya hum log mar jayege kyuki unko dar hai kahi wo log us ladki ko majbur karke kuch bhi galat bayan dilwa sakte hai or mere gharwalo ko fasa sakte hai, mere pass ab koi rasta ni bacha hai, wo ladki apne parivar ke liye majbur hoke mujhe chhodne ja rahi hai par me uske bina jeena nhi chahta, mera dil koi khilona nhi jo jab tak man bahlta raha khelte rahe or jab man bhar gaya tab todke feq Diya, plz help me, I kindly request to u dear sir, agar aap logo ne meri help nhi ki to mere pass sucide karne ke siva koi rasta nhi bachega, me police me bhi complain nhi kar sakta khud jake kyuki mere gharwale mujhe dara dhamkake kuch bhi karne se rok rahe hai isliye mere pass aapki help ke allawa koi rasta nhi bacha, help me plz my no. is ########## and my email id is ################@#####.##

    sir plz help me quick, I kindly request to u sir help me, what do I do?

    Thank u dear sir.

    a lover
    *****

  13. Shailendra Kumar Singh says:

    Dear sir

    sir mai ##### ###### ghaziabad ## ## ### me rehta hun or sir mai ek ladki se behad pyar karta hun or wo ladki bhi mujhe behad pyar karti hai. hamare beech ye 2009 se chal raha hai. par us ladki ne mujhe or maine us ladki ko 1 saal pehle hi is baat ke baare me bataya usse pehle hum sirf ek doosre ko dekhte the par keh nahi paye the. lekin sir 1 saal pehle hum dono ne ek doosre ko sub bata diya aaj 1 saal ho gaya sir hum dono ke beech ek sexual relation ban gaya hai. ladki ke gharwale uski shadi karna chahte hain par ladki mujhse shadi karna chahti hai or mai us ladki se shadi karna chahta hun. par hamare gharwale is baat se raji nahi hain. ladki ke gharwale ladki se kehte hain k wo use jaan se maar denge or mujhe jail bhijwane ki dhamki dete hain. ladki ke gharwale use emotoinaly blackmail karte hain jiski wajah se wo ladki bohot dari hui hai, use dar hai k kahin uske gharwale use jaan se na maar de, please sir hamari kuch help kijiye, please sir aap mujhe meri email id par apna address bhej dijiye, please sir tell me what can I do.

  14. Ashwani Kumar Sinha says:

    Hi Sir,

    I am simple living and earning boy. I live in Delhi and working for a MNC but belong to Bihar, she is also from Bihar, and I think I can keep her happy for lifetime and she also wants to marry me and she also wants the same but scared of the society and her parents. She think it will never allow by her parents because of our caste are different. We are good friends and love each-other since 2007-08. She and her parents have a bad mania or phobia of caste and major problem is that, they think if they allow, all the society and their relatives will abuse and they will loose their respect in front of society and relatives.

    I never care these cheap minded society and relatives, irrespective of them I said her to be with me, she is saying, I am with you but don’t want to hurt her parents.

    In other words, out parents, society and relatives are the obstacle in our true love, we both want to get married. We have decided to ask out parents and if they don’t allow. We will go against them.

    Please sir, make them understand. We will be happy with each-other only. I am 26 and she is 22. Please make our parents understand, I believe they will understand and allow our marriage. We both want to get married with blessing of our parents.

    Thank you

    My no.: ##########

  15. Om says:

    i m in very bad n crises situation

    i love a girl n after many crises i made both parents agree for our marriage

    but our parents torture us Mentally n make us fights, In Sep our family fix weding but they break very badly in last week, n all matters come on both of us, by all this girl got depreesed becoz she don’t want that my parents hurt me or her after marriage

    I told many times to make distance but nw aftr seeing all bad situation n nw we broke badly n sit back in our bad life n being depression n lonily ness we got nothing can u pls help us out……

  16. Nandini Kaushik says:

    I don’t know what replies will I get but I do need help really bad. I am a Brahmin girl aged 20 and my love is my best friend with whom I fell in love about 2 years ago. His family came to know about our relation and has no problem with it but the moment I told my family about him the way they reacted I just can’t tell. I got beaten up by my parents, they even threatened to kill us. Only because he is from an another caste and I am the only girl in my family after four generations my family has refused to accept our relationship but the fact is that neither can we live without each other nor do we want to elope or marry without our parent’s approval. so please help and give suggestions as to how to make my parents understand us and approve this marriage. Please.

    • We tried to contact you but the email ID provided by you is invalid.

      If your parents disapprove, you need not bother. Use your constitutional rights, get support from standing directions of The Hon’ble Supreme Court of India and follow the resolutions of the Parliament.

      The word elope is not a good word. Rather you should feel that you both are leaving parental homes for achieving success of your committed love, vision, thinking and for a better career.

      We would like to help you both.

      Please call our helpline 09313784375 / 09313550006 and discuss.

  17. Gaurav says:

    Respected sir, i am in trouble because i get court married with a different caste girl and her parents didn’t agree at any cost. my wife is in her father home. How could i got wife because her father is in Delhi Police and they threat to kill me if i make any contact to her.

    • Dear Gaurav,

      The email ID provided by you is not correct. Please write from your email ID to

      There is no marriage in any court. Please email us the related documents, to understand the matter.
      You need not worry even if he is in Delhi Police. We would like to help lawfully and get your wife restored to you.

      Please visit FAQ page at this site and call our helpline 09313784375 / 09313550006 and discuss.
      While sending the mail please mention your phone number also.

  18. Kapil says:

    sir, hum dono ak dusr ko bht pyr krte h or us ki family mn nhi rhe h, hum n apne-apne ghar bt ki h, vo maan nhi rhe h or vo mer ko mna kr rhe h ki us k pass aaj k bd ph mt krna nhi to hum ter ko mr d ge, mr ko ph p dmki d rhe h, sir plz help me jldi

  19. Yogesh Dawande says:

    Sir/Madam
    Main ek ladki se pyar karta hoon. pichale 18 mahine se, hum bhagkar shadi bhi kar rahe the.. par humne socha ki pahale apne mummy-paapa se puch lete hain, hume vishwas tha humare dono ke gharwale maan jayenge… mere gharwale raji huwe par usake ghar wale raji nahi huwe shadi ke liye.. wo haryana se hain… aur wo pandit hain aur main OBC se hoon.. maine hath jodke unase vintti ki par wo nahi mane.. bulki unone us ladki ko padhai band kar ke apne mama ke pass bhej diya haryana me.. pahale wo aurangabad maharashtra me rahati thi… usako bahot emotionally blackmail kiya… mera aur us ladki ki baat nahi ho paa rahi… pichale 7 mahine se…. main use harayana dhoondane bhi gaya tha par hamari baat nahi ho paa rahi…. muje to usise hi shadi karni he… main kya karu plz muje batao… wo usaki shadi karwa rahe hain…

  20. Preeti Kumari says:

    Dear commandos,
    I am from a Kayasth family, Bihar and in love with an OBC boy. He is preparing for IAS. That’s why i want to marry after one year. We even can’t live without each other but also we can’t hurt our parents. So we can’t take any wrong step which makes them feel ashamed. my parents are completely against us. even they have seen a boy for me from my caste in Patna and they want me to get married with him as soon as possible. They are not forcing me but emotionally creating pressure. i have two younger sisters. they are saying that because of me, my sisters will suffer, don’t be so selfish…
    What can we do so that we can marry happily with our parents wishes. Plz tell me what should i do. I can’t select any1 of them. Please help me.

    Thanks.

  21. sachinvk says:

    hello commandos, I saw your episode on YouTube. I feel proud that, couples like us need some kind of a support, when we start up our marriage life, you guys are doing that. GOD BLESS U .
    sir, I am from Karnataka, I am in love with a girl of some higher caste, so usually we are not getting any support. Then I came to know about your organisation sir, but you guys are way far from here. sir, I just need legal guidance for marriage sir. Do you have any branches in Karnataka? or provide me any Legal persons number sir, so that i can fulfill my desire….. please do reply sir

  22. Ramesh Kurmi says:

    we want to get married.

  23. Kanika says:

    hi. i am frm a jaat family. My boyfriend is also jaat, we are in a relationship from 4yrs. my family is nt ready cz boy is nt frm a rich family. my chacha has strtd threatening me and my boyfrnd to kill and he has high lvl cntcts. plz help. wht to do.

  24. mary says:

    Hi.. I am a Tamil Latin Christian girl who is in a relationship with a Malayali Marthoma guy. I am even older to him by eight months. We are on a relationship past five years and now the scene is at its climax . Things are going okay with my parents but not for his – they are telling him that just coz of our this relationship, his siblings will be affected and I shall never be accepted in his family. .. it would be a curse if we continue things. .. we both are strong. .. but family matters. . age and caste.. these two things were decided by God before I was born – what shall I do now??? please advise

  25. Vivek Kumar Sharma says:

    Dear Sir,

    I m in a relationship from last 7 years now we both are 22 yrs old. we both are from West Bengal. my girlfriends family is not agree with our relationship due to community issues and fame of their family. firstly my parents were agree with our relationship but now due to mind wash or something i don’t know they are asking me to marry a girl with their own choice. i want to marry her urgently bcoz whenever she suffers from illness or whenever she is in bad condition her family doesn’t support her and they are saying that they will kill her if she doesn’t stop talking to me. we both love each other and don’t wanna get separated bcoz of community or family fame… the girl will live with me and i know how much care and love i can provide her for keeping her happy for her whole life… please suggest urgently regarding this matter…

  26. Md says:

    Kya ek ladka 17 years ka or ladki 16 years ki hai us dono ki shaadi cort me ho sakti hai help reply me

    • No, the boy has to be above 21 and girl above 18. Further, marriages do not take place in the court. It is either a registration of marriage in the court after a marriage at a lawfully valid place or permission to marry as per SMA (Special Marriage Act), however Section 4 has also to be complied with.

      Please visit FAQ page to know more.

  27. Sanjay says:

    I am in a relationship with a girl from 6 years. We both are eligible for marriage.
    We want to get married but girl’s family is against this as girl is from different Caste.
    I already had a discussion with girl’s father twice but he didn’t agree and now her parents have engaged her with some other person, the girl is not happy with this engagement, but her family is not listening anything, they are saying that it is a matter of respect for both the families, they are torturing her a lot.
    They are saying that if she will not marry to the person engaged with, they will harm Me….
    right now we are not finding any way out to overcome this situation… We are in a very tense situation and don’t know what to do now…. If we Get married now then this will make the situation worse…
    My parents are old and her father can actually harm my parents….
    Please guide us…..

  28. Varun says:

    Dear commandos,
    I am from Jaat family and in love with a Rajput girl. We are together by heart from 7 yrs. We even can’t live without each other but also we can’t hurt our parents. So we can’t take any wrong step which makes them feel ashamed. Both our parents are completely against us. What can we do so that we can marry happily with our parents wishes. Plz tell me as I am dying slowly and slowly each day. I can’t select any1 of them. Please help me.
    Thanks.

  29. Pooja says:

    please i want your help please, i love a boy of my cast and he also loves me a lot but his parents are torturing us..
    please help me sir!!

  30. Chaya says:

    Hi,

    Am in a relationship with a boy from 3 years, both our parents are against our marriage but we want to convince them and get married we dont want to go against them please tell us what to do.

    we are trying to convince them but there is no reply from our parents.

    Please help us.

  31. Pankaj Shrivastava says:

    Dear sir/madam,
    I am Pankaj Shrivastava & l love my GF so much, she also loves me lot, we are in relation from 7 yrs, we decide to marry but the problem is caste, her parents not to agree for this relation because I am not belong from their caste. Please help me.

  32. Vipin Kumar Srivastava says:

    Mera problem ye h ki main jis larki se pyar karta hun usi se maine 2009 me shaadi kar li hai, ham dono ka caste same nahi hai. iske chalte meri wife ke ghar wale usko bhejne ke liye ready nahi ho rahe hain. aaj ham dono ek dusre ke bina nahi ji sakte. main suicide kar lunga agar wo nahi mili to. agar aap log uske ghar walon ko samjha sake to wo log maan jayenge, please help me
    Please Please Please .

  33. Shalini says:

    sir me ek ladke se bahut pyar krti hu, hm dono thakur h but prob ye h k wo meri bhabhi k cousion h, hm log ne apne apne ghar baat bi ki but sbne ye bol diya k rista ulta h or unki shadi bi tay ho gayi, plz ap kuch bi kar k hm dono ki shadii kara dijiye plzzzz

  34. Sravani says:

    http://www.anti-caste.org/inter-caste-couples/

    Go through this link and people will know the statistics of honour killings/suicides in India. It’s shame on the part of parents to kill their children for the sake of relatives. No relative will come to our place every day. It’s just you meet them in some function.

  35. Uttam Kumar says:

    mera nam Uttam Kumar h or mera problem ye h ki mera or ham jis larki se pyar karte h, ham dono ka caste same nahi h. eske chalte larki ke ghar vale shadi ke liye ready nahi ho rahe h. ham dono ek dusre ko 5 salo se jante h or aaj ke condition ke anusar ham dono ek dusre ke bina nahi ji sakte. bahut bar dil me khayal aaya ki suicide kar le lekin wo bhi nahi ho paya. hamare samajh se agar koi accha se samjhane wala mil jae to uske papa ko ye bat samajh me aa sakti h. ham dono apne papa ko koi dukh dekar shadi nahi karna chahte h. so please tell me hame kya karna chachiye.

  36. Karan says:

    I and my GF are in relationship from more than 5 years my n her parents also knows about our relationship but her parents are opposing and telling not get marry with me… as they also did love marriage… me n my parents had gone to meet her father but they didn’t replied anything to us … we had gone twice – 1st time on Nov and 2nd time on Feb but they are answering anything… now from last week there parents are forcing her to forget the boy you love (means me). Actually I’m doing MCA last year n currently doing industrial training .. so I thought after I start earning I’ll marry but now they are forcing her angrily that we will not accept it n all… now what should we do …? if I apply for court marriage but during the process if something happens then will you guide us …

  37. gangesh jha says:

    Me 20 ka or WO 17 ki he us ke papa us ki shadi karwana chahtehe us ke khilaf me kya kru plz…. btao

  38. Rauf Mohammad says:

    Dear sir/madam,

    Mainey inter religion marriage ke hai in court marriage special marriage act 1955 but prob ye hai ke mere wife kai maykai walay usko dhokay say wapas laker chalay gaye hai apnay sath bolker ke uski sis ke shadi karaker tumhare sath bej dengay ishko per aab ish baat ko 15 mahinay ho gaye hai, wo na tho mere biwi ko bej rahay hai aur na mujhey Kuch reply ker rahay hai, main bahut pareshan rehta ho ish wazah say aur aab mere family bhi mera koi support nahi ker rahay hai, bool rahay hai divorce dey do usko aur ladki ke family bhi same bool rahi hai, mainey bahut kosis ker li sub ko samjhany ke per koi maanney ko raji nahi hai, sir agar aap mere help ker dey to mere life safal ho jayegi, I know that India law with me per main sochta ho samjah ker kaam nikal jaye tho accha hai, she belong to hindu family and I belong to Muslim, I don’t know what is the prob with both families, some time I fell very disappointed and want to do suicide but I know that my wife love me a lot and she don’t have any fault, why I should punish her.

    tell me sir what can I have so she come back to me, plz help, I really thank full to you lot

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