Engineer inter-caste Love Couple from a Haryana district nearing Delhi were saved from the gallows of Honour Killing yesterday. They got married and have been given shelter at one of the shelters of Love Commandos.

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  1. Hello sir, me ek ladki se bahut pyaar karta hu aur vo ladki bhi mujhse bahut pyaar karti hai, sir vo UP ki rahne vali hai aur me delhi ka, uske ghar valo ko mere barre me pata chal chuka hai aur mere ghar me bhi sabko pata hai par dono side se negative repsonse hai, koi hume nhi samaj rha kyunki ladki pandit hai aur me nhi, humari caste alag alag hai, ladki ke bhai mujhe pareshan karte hai usse. Hum ek dusre ko bahut pyaar karte hai aur shaddi bhi karna chahte hai but gharvale kahte hai tu humari bezadi karwayega, sir me kya karu, help us

  2. plz sir help me???
    sir mai apni girlfriend se bahut pyar karta hu, or wo bhi mujhse bahut pyar karti hai.
    problem yeh hai ki ghar walo ki sahmti se hamari marriage nahi ho sakti. kyoki hamari or unki caste ek hi hai. Or unke Uncle ki tabiyat bhi kharab rahti hai jis karan se Unke papa ji jalddi kar rahe hai.
    sir ab aap hi batye ki mai kya karu?? or us k papa bahut sare ladka dekh reh h, bol rhe h ki isi sal hi sadi kar denge .. hum dono Ek dusre se bahut jada pyara karte h, ek dusre k bina mar jayenge, sir hum dono bhagne ka v plan banaya h, so plz hum dono ko solutions bataiye kaise dono Ek ho….

  3. Hie sir / mam
    I am a 24 year old girl and the boy I luv is Muslim. We are in a relationship of 8 yrs. I am the only child of my parents and they love me a lot. Maine unko bataya ki mai ek muslim ladke k sath relationship mein hu n shaadi krna chahti hu, ye sun k b unhon mujhe mentally ya physical harass nai kia.. sirf kaha ki tm shadi kr logi toh hm tmse kabhi nai milenge aur meri ma mar jane ki dhamki deti hai.. mere boyfriend k ghr b same scene hai.. bt uske aur b bhai behen hai islie wo mere lie sbko chodhne ko taiyaar hai.. problem ye hai ki mai apne parents ko mana k shadi krna chahti hu .. plz give me some solution.. 1 saal se har tarah se koshish kr li.. plzz bataiye ki ab kya kru

  4. Mera nam < Muslim boy> h or m ek ldki se pichle 6 sal se pyr krta hu or wo b muje bhut pyar krti h, uska nam < Hindu girl> h.​ ​hm dono shadi krna chahte h.​ ​pr sir hmare parents ni man rhe qki wo hindu h or​ m muslim.​ bhut bdi problm h sir.​ ​uske grwalo ne use bhut draya mara. wo logo k dhr se hmari shadi ni kra rhe qki une dhr h ki log une bykat kr denge. sir mera pyar scha h, m uske bina ni ji skta, uske grwalo ne uski mujse bat krna b band krwa di or uska rishta kahin or krwa diya. Bht din hmari bat nhi hui fir ek din uski cal ai or bolti ki muje bhul jao.. sir aj wo mere sath ni h, mujse koi contact ni h uska, week ho gya h, roj uski call ka wait krta hu. sir kya pyar reliogn dekh k hota h .. ye to do dilo ka mel h kisi se b ho skta h. fir q muje usse alg kr diya gya. Sir pta ni m thek hu ya glt pr m aj b use bhut pyr krta hu, bahut rota hu uski yad m. Pta ni kis dar se usne mujse bat krna chhod di, maine kabi uski or uske perents ki bejti k bare m ni socha pr kisi ne hmare pyr ko ni smja bs dharm ko importance di. Sir bs m yhi janna chahta tha ki mera gunah kya tha, muje usse alg kr diya. Shadi karke ghr bsana chahta tha uske sath khushi se pr kisi ne ni suni. Ab lgta h jaise hmne pyar karke bahut bda crime kr diya ho jiski sja aj mil rahi h… pta ni wo kis haal m hogi…. lgta h ab tk to bhula diya hoga muje usne, bahut mushkil h uske bina jina.. smaj ne hme alg kr diya.. plz ye sb khtm kro taki kbi koi hmare jaise pyar krne wale alg na ho.
    Sorry agr kisi ko bura lga ho to.

    *Names have been hidden to protect their identities.

    • Thank u sir. Sir ap btao ab kya kru m, apna pyar kaise wapis lau. is dunia se kaise khud ko or apne pyar k sath sath hmare garwalo ko kaise bchau. sir hmare desh m Muslim ldka agr Hindu se pyar kre to use glat mtlb nikal lete h chahe wo bechare us bare m sochte hi na ho. fir b unhe alg kr diya jata hai.

  5. Hi sir,
    Main ek ladke se bhut pyr krti hu or bhi mujhse bhut krta h, uske ghar pr bhi sab ready h. hum dono different caste and religion se belongs krte or mere parents kabhi b humri shadi k liye ready nh hoge, kya ap koi suggestions de skte jisse main unhe mana saku iss bat k liye.

  6. I am a 24 year old patel boy . I love a girl from my next village, she is 25 years old and she also patel. i am study in CA and she leave study after college for our love. We both are love since 6 year and i have not permission to call her but after her missed call i have permission to call her that is our policy . i tried to convince my parents. My parents agreed after few discussions. But she afraid to talk her parents for our love. And her parents forced to sagai with other boy . She loves me so much and I love her too. We can’t even dream of living without each other. She wants to marry me, but because of her parents constant force and emotional blackmailing she doesn’t find courage to fight against them or to marry me without their permission. But she is ready for run but i not ready for that because her and my parents, we both know that sir if we don’t marry we will be destroyed. I will die without her. and also my CA final exam in May-2015, pls help, without her i don’t like any thing and all day i crying, what i do………….. pls help me, you are my god, please

    With so many hopes I have written this mail to you. Please please please Do something to help us. We both will be indebted to you for whole life. Reply me soon sir.

  7. Hello sir,

    I am Hitesh from Indore (MP). I have completed my MBA (e-com) and working in IT sector. And plan to do P.Hd., here I would like to discuss my issue. I am in relationship with a girl since last 2 year & 4 months. She also loves me a lot. We love each other and we are very loyal for each other. In fact I can do anything just for her smile.

    But we both are from different castes and want to marry each other but our family are not agree with that and not supporting to both of us.
    But We want to spend whole life together.
    We need your support. Please support us and help us please.

  8. I am also going through a difficult situation. Can you help me??? I am Srijita from West Bengal.

    main jisse pyar karti hu usko uske papa zor zabardasti shaadi kara rhe hain n aise fasa diya hain k use ye karna hi padh rha hai. can you plz help me?

  9. hi..sir. Hum dono ek dusare se bahot pyar karte h But hum jab pakda gaye to use bahot mara tha to vo bhag k mere gar aa gai thi, uske bad uske uncle aaye or samjake chale gaye, abhi mere gar ki halat or sari jimmedariya mere par h or me abhi 20 sal ka hu or vo 19. me usse 2 sal bad shadi karna chahta hu But uske family walo ne use Emotionaaly blackmail kiya or vo palt gai thi, phir jab hum mile to mene use bahot samjaya to man gai h But aaj bhi use muj par Trust nahii h, use uske friend ne bola ki me bahot khrab hu or me uske liye Achha nahi hu, bt i really love her & vo bhi karti h par shyad na jane kis se darti h? uske papa ko Baypas surgury karvai to mera nam leti h or kehti h ki mere karan ye sab hua. uske familywalo ko me Marathi & Middle class hu isliye pasand nahii hu.. so plz help me.. i was try to suicide 2 time. so plz help me. i can’t living without her. plz help me sir. ##########

  10. hello sir/mam.. my name is Abhishek Chourasia . i am an ordinary boy from an ordinary city. i am presently studying in engineering college in final year. in my college there is a girl who had already passed out and presently living at her home in bihar. we both love each other. as i am in final year last semester, but simultaneously her dad fix her marriage at somewhere else. i talked to her to tell her dad about our relation but she said she can’t bcoz she fears about her dad reaction and she just want to accept her dad decision about her marriage and want to sacrifice our love. i just want some help from you about agreeing her parents not to marry her at any other but instead wait until one and half year so that i have a nice job and i can marry her and she can also marry me

  11. Hi sir, maine sabki prblms padi, n m also feeling the same, sir pls hamari madad kijiye. We can’t live without our love, sir koi to solution hoga, my love story is very complicated m in love with my.. i can’t live without him n can’t see him with anyone else… What to do sir… pls help us…. guys we do understand each other’s feeling… We have to do n take harsh decision, not take a wrong step but to understand our parents, y we scarifice our love for dis fake culture where nobody will be happy… Pls i need ur help…. For us n as well as our generation. Pls if u really want to do something for ur love n for the change… pls contact me on my watsAp no.##########

  12. Hello sir,
    My name is Rohit, i am of 21 yrs, i belong to rajput caste and i work in army, i am relationship with a girl name bhawna. She is also 21 yrs old she belongs to brahmin caste. my parents are agree but girl patent are not ready. They emotionally blackmail the girl regularly. They have broke her mobile phone and also stop her to go anywhere. There is no way for me to contact her, i really love her so much. Around a year ago i had a word with her mother about the relationship she said we believe in caste and her daughter is manglik. i don’t know what to do, plsz help me plsz

  13. Please help me… my bf and my parents are not agreeing for marriage as i m brahmin and he is baniya. he is a govt officer and me a bank officer in same city. my father is emotionally blackmailing me.

  14. Respected sir ,
    i am Vinay, 25 years old from dharuhera, rewari.
    i am a software engineer at Gurgaon signature tower in a MNC company. i am relationship with a girl name sanjna, she is rajpoot girl and i belong to yadav cast, but we are intercast for marrige, my parents are agree but girl mother and mama is not ready. they beat the girl regularly and his mama vicky from gurgaon given me threats me of killing if i contact the girl. His mama has a political approach and a good Background because of large property. the girl father serving indian navy. we are relationship with 6 years. After to see this we got marry in arya samaj mandir delhi six months ago. but we cannot tell this thing to our home. so plz given advise what to do.

  15. Respected Sir
    I am 27 and i m in a relation with a girl of 24. My parents fixed my engagement with someone else and the families of both of us are against inter caste marriage. Please guide me a way how i reject this proposal without insult of my parents in the society. We can’t live without each other but we also don’t want to hurt our parents.

  16. I m extremely happy to hear that there is someone like you people who works and helping lovers. when heard of problems and Khap and honor killings, you guys are like god for all these people. i am happy to know that we still have wonderful people like you and keep doing this beautiful work. you guys make real world and real community. you guys are the best… best in the world.

    (USA)

  17. Dear sir
    I am Capt. Sanjeev, I am in love with my cousin sister. We both like each other…. we r in relationship since from 10 years….. She is my mom’s uncle’s 2nd daughter’s daughter… We both want to marry but we r unable to tell our parents…. Also I am 25 and she is just 18 but she loves me a lot…. Initially I tried to ignore her but later I felt I can’t live without her….. Also I don’t want to hurt my parents…. Plz give me suggestions, we want arrange marriage….. I am totally committed and having sense of responsibility too…. As I am alone son of my parent….. thanking u, kindly mail me

  18. sir/madam
    good evening….
    sir jo apne ye website banya hai….
    uske liye thanks…
    maine kabhi ni socha tha ki koi aise b kaam karta hai, kitna achha kaam hai, bhagwan kare aap jo b hai aap humesa khush rahe…..
    mera naam Jitu hai or me Ritu naam ki ladki se bht pyar karta hu or vo b bht pyr karti hai, hum dono pichle 6 years se ek dusre se bht pyr karte hai, hum dono ek dusre se marriage karna chate hai….

    or hum dono ek dusre k bina ji ni sakte hai, hum dono k bare me ghar me shakk hone par uski shaadi jabardasti karne ki kosis kar re hai or use marne ki b dhamki de re hai….
    ladki k papa bht powerful hai kyu ki vo ek badi political party me hai….
    unhone mujhe or uski chachi ne badi approach se police se maar khilwayi…..
    or bolte hai kitna b paisa lag jaye ye rishta ni hone dunga, dono ko maar dunga….
    maine police walo se b bola ki, hum dono balik hai, graduate hai, age ek dusre se pyr krte shaadi krna chaate hai mgr bht maara, dra dhamka ke mere maa baap ko or bola ki jinda chhod re hai sirf is liye ki akela hai ye ladka aap ka…
    yahan to police b unki, govt. b unki… kya karu kuch samjh ni aata hai…
    koi b samne help k liye ni aaya, sab tamasha dekhte rahe, mere maa baap ki jo mujhe mere ghar se jabardasti police wale police station le kar sab dar gye te, bht hungama kiya bht izzat khrab huyi…
    fir na to koi media nazar aayi na koi insaan jo thodi help kar deta…

    police wale bolte ki tere maa baap ko b band kar denge….
    mere maa baap ka akela ladka hu, vo mujhe bht pyr krte hai….
    vo police station me rote rahe…
    kamjor logo ko or kamjor kar dete hai strong log ……
    ye sab kuch hota raha or us ladki ko bulwane k liye bola, na use aane diya or uska ghar se aana jana mobile cheen liya …..
    har waqt marne ki dhamki dete rahete hai usko or mjhe aaj b kuch b ho skta hai, bht dar lgta hai kya karu kya ni kuch samjhni aa ra hai…..
    aap meri help kar do aap ka puri life jiveen bhar upakar rahega ….
    kabhi b ye ehsaan ni bhulunga jb tak jiyunga aap ka naam lunga….
    please please help
    me
    contact Jitu
    ##########

  19. Hello..
    M in relationship with a guy from last three years. N when our parents came to know about us it was a really worst time we faced a lot, my parents tortured me so much that I even can’t tell, they tried to kill me many times, use to taunt me every time, use to beat me with whatever they got in their hand. N at the same time both of us tried to convince our families but since we are from different castes his parents are not getting ready n trying to marry him with someone else. So plz help us, we love each other so much.

    • Dear Child,

      Thanks for your mail.

      Please visit the FAQ page at http://www.lovecommandos.orgfaq/ and ensure that you fulfill all requirements for marriage.

      As a matter of policy we do not interact with parents of anyone because the Parliament had on 01-Oct-1978 omitted the provision of guardianship from marriages. We believe in creating a society of lovers so that coming the future generation does not require such counselling.

      Please email age and address proofs of both to .
      You may also discuss at our helpline: 09313784375 / 09313550006

      We would like to help you both. You need not worry about society or village or parents. We shall ensure to save you.

      Team Love Commandos

      PS: Megha, please provide your correct and valid email ID.

      • Hello sir, this is megha

        Sir, the guy m in love with is trying to talk to his parents but they don’t want to talk about the matter, they even don’t let him put on his point. Now they are looking for a girl to marry him. Sir, I request you to plz suggest something. I can’t live without him.

        And I can’t talk about this with my parents, I have manage this by my own because they are not in support of me. But once his parents get ready then mine will not have any problem, they have told me.
        So sir, plz help me, plz suggest something so that I can save my love.

      • Hello sir, Happy New Year, sir.
        This is megha, sir plz help me. Sir I am loosing my love, plz help me, I can’t tolerate this. I really can’t live without him. Plz tel me how can I convince his father. plz

        • Dear Child,

          Please provide your correct and valid Email ID. You can also login to your email account and send us a direct email mentioning age and address proofs of both to .
          You may also discuss at our Helpline: 09313784375 / 09313550006

          As a matter of policy we do not interact with parents of anyone because the Parliament had on 01-Oct-1978 omitted the provision of guardianship from marriages. We believe in creating a society of lovers so that coming the future generation does not require such counselling.

          Please visit the FAQ page at http://www.lovecommandos.org/faq/ and ensure that you fulfill all requirements for marriage.

          We would like to help you both. You need not worry about society or village or parents. We shall ensure to save you.

          Team Love Commandos

  20. hello..

    i am in a problem.. i love a girl who is muslim, since 6 years she also loves me same.. we were ready to run away and get married. we once did an application for a special marriage act. i am hindu by my religion. till last month she was ready to come with me. mene uske dad ko 2 saal phele manane ki koshis b ki ti.. lekin he rejected, uske baad uska clg jaana bhend or gar k bahar nikal na b bhend. any how me managed to continue our relationship.. but now the problem is uski mom ne usko bohot dara kr rakha h k agar tu gai to tuje dusre din mera mara muh mileaa n all. n her father says.. tune ulta kuch kia to mein teri mom ko mar dalungaa..

    they are muslim so they think that hindu are not elegible to merry muslim and giving their daughter to hindu is a social crime..

    humne alag kr ne ki kosis b ki khud ko but we failed.. ladki ko aaj b mere sath rehna h.. per she wants that mein uske parents ko manau..

    and i know her dad will demand for a conversion from me..

    what should i do now…???

    please help me..

    ya mein marunga ya wo… coz nai reh pahenge hum…

    please help..

  21. plz help me anybody, i am a fear of honour killing……. mai usse bht pyar krta hu, hm 6 mahinai pehlai ghr se bhag gye the lekin 10 dinn baad ghr walo ko pta chl gya mere or woh hme yah bol kar waps lai aaye ki hm tumary shaady kra dengge but ab mna kr rhe hai or mera pichlai 6 mahinai se usse koi contct bhi nahi ho paya hai….. usse uskai ghr walo nai bandhak bna kai rkha hua hai or kahi jaane bhi nai dete, mujhe daar hai kahi usse maar na de ……….. plz help me or give me some suggestion…….
    koi toh h jo help krdo, plz plz

  22. Dear Sir,

    I am an Officer posted in Gujarat in a reputed bank (Age 24) and the girl (23) I love is also working with the same bank but posted at Mumbai. She is from Bhiwani, Haryana and I am from Saharanpur, UP. We both are in love since 15 months. This October we informed our parents about our relationship and told them that we want to marry. My parents agreed but her parents feel that intercaste marriage is a social crime.

    They emotionally blackmailed her that their (girl’s) family will be thrown out of the village. Society will boycott them. But actually its not the case. These reasons were only to blackmail her. Her father spoke to me in another tone that they are superior in caste to us, and its not acceptable to them.

    Marriage in same GOTRA is considered to be social crime, (According to the so called panchayats) but ours is not that case.

    We both really want to marry each other but her parents behaviour is making her weak. She fears to contact me because she was told that they will not allow her to work and marry her off. Her phone is also hacked by her brother to keep a check on her Contacts, Watsapp, GPS location etc etc. She doesn’t have courage to go against their will because of this emotional blackmailing. Its not easy for most of the girls.

    This is injustice to us. We have a strong emotional bond and marrying some other person will ruin our lives as well as the person with whom we will be marrying.

    Please guide us about what can be done. I have written to Love Commandos with great hope.

    Thanks and Regards

    Sudarshan Singh

  23. I love a guy before 8 years & he also love me a lot but our parents is not going to be accepted, and we can’t forget each other, my only wish is that my father allow me to go with them & he accept my love, please help me

  24. Sir mai bahut problem me hu, mai meri g.f. se bahut pyar Karta hu, aur Wo bhi mujse bahut pyar karti hai, hamare gharwale caste k Karan ek nhi hone de rahe hai, uski shadi kahi aur fix Ki hai, aur usse ghar se gayab kar diye hai, aur muje yaha gaon me leke AA Gaye hai.
    hum ek dusre Ko contact bhi nhi kar pa rahe hai

  25. I entered into an arranged marriage process and we exchanged rings and only marriage was left, but just before a month left to our marriage, my family suddenly got calls from some stranger that my fiancee had an intense affair with him and it is still going on. So deeper inquiries were done by my family and relatives about the girl and this stranger man.

    And that stranger was just a normal friend with my Fiancee. That stranger gave calls in our business circle too also spreads the same information. Now obviously my parents were not happy to hear that and they confronted girl’s family and called off the wedding and ended this relation. But the problem is that we both have developed immense love for each other and even after 5 months of forcefully being separated we are trying to get everything sorted out as she never had any affair with that guy. That stranger has been already punished by girl’s family due to his one sided attraction for my fiancee which led him to do such stupid activities by breaking my marriage. But me and my fiancee have complete trust on each other and are seriously in love with each other.

    Now my (boy’s) family is not ready to listen anything, neither to me nor girl’s side. As I gave them some facts which can prove that it was all false information given to us by all outsiders.

    Even I have my own perspective that if she had something in past it doesn’t matter to me at all as I hardly care about the society, but still my parents are not agreeing to that also and they are demanding that I should forget her and move on, as according to them their image and prestige will be ruined among our society, business circle and other relatives. To this I told them – if by marrying her will lead you to lose respect in society I won’t do that but with that I won’t be marrying to some one else too as my mind and soul can never leave her.

    They are not able to understand that the feelings and emotions that I have generated for her I won’t be able to generate for any one else in my life. On this my parents say that everything will be alright once I go through a new marriage process. They are sure that I will be happy again; as to them a bond for 4 months with some girl cannot be so rich and deep that I am going nuts for her.

    They also tell me that I won’t be happy in my life as this girl won’t be a good partner to me, as they are still doubting on her character. And if I cannot move on from her then my parents left me an option of getting separated with them and stay with that girl. Means they are ready to disown me otherwise I have to follow them and if I refuse to do so then they again threat me that they both will leave from house. I am being pressurized unnecessarily.

    Now pls guide me how to overcome through such painful situation, it is true that my parents have done over-extremely things for me but I don’t want to leave my love, as seriously I cannot even imagine living without her.

  26. Respected Sir,

    I am a 25 year old boy. I love a girl from my college, she is 23 years old. We both are engineers. We tried to convince our parents. My parents agreed after few discussions. But her parents are not agreeing at any cost. They have forced their daughter to forget me. She loves me so much and I love her too. We can’t even dream of living without each other. She wants to marry me, but because of her parents constant force and emotional blackmailing she doesn’t find courage to fight against them or to marry me without their permission. But we both know that sir if we don’t marry we will be destroyed. I will die without her.

    With so many hopes I have written this mail to you. Please please please Do something to help us. We both will be indebted to you for whole life. Reply me soon sir.

    Narendra Chavda
    ##########

  27. Ladki pyar karti hai pr uske ghar valo ko shak ho gaya ki ladki bag ke shadi karne vali thi to ghar valo ne ladki ko ghar se bahar niklne ni dere, sab Kuch band kar diya, ladki bahar kaise jaay?

  28. sir.. mai ek ladi se bhut pyar krta hu ar woh v mughse bhut pyar krti h. bt hum dono ke caste same ni hone ke karan family against me h.. aur uske family wale uski shadi jabardasti kisi dusre se karwa rahe h… hum dono ek dusre se contact v ni kr pa rhe h.. because usko dara dhamkaya ja rha h… plz suggest me sir.. what i do…. plz help me sir….

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