1. Hi sir….. my name is Poorna, i m studyng B.Tech. 3rd yr and i am from Tirupati, Andhra Pradesh
   i am Loving a girl and she also loves me a lot but now in my family my mother accepted but my lovers mother was not accepting and she didn’t even allowing her to go out for college also, plz help us to get married sir!

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2. Sir,

   namaste, Dear sir, ham bahut badi musibat me hei, hamari love marriage ho chuki hei aur four month ho chuke hei aur hamre Ghar valo ko pata chal chuka hei aur ladaki ke Ghar vale ladaki pe tantar mantar karva rahe hei ki kadaki palati mare aur bolede ki ladke ne mere sath jabardasti shadi ki hei, aesa tantar mantar se karna chahte hei to please help me & my wife, ek bar ladki ka fone aya tha aur boki ki me aapko talakh de deti hu aur mar jana chahati hu, usake bad na fone aya na bat hue aur usako roj tantar mantar karvane roj le jate hei to please sir hum dono ko mila dijiye, hum aapke abhari honge aur wo Ghabhara Ghai he aur muje Talakh de bhi sakti aur muje talakh nahi chahiye, me usko bahut hi jyada khushi dena chahta hu jo usne Ghar valo ki maar aur Takalif Sahi he Usse kahin jyada me use khushi dena chahta hu. Hum Hindi He sir. Please please please si help me…

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3. Sir, my name is Karan and I am pursuing my final year of engineering and the girl i love studies along with me
   I am from an Sikh family while she is from an Jain family
   Our both families are almost similar in financial terms
   But a few months back her father got call details of her phone number and contacted me, when he came to knew about everything he became very angry
   From that day onwards he is constantly troubling me and my family
   He abused me and threatens to kill me
   And calls my parents threatening them that he will forge some wrong case on me troubling my degree
   When girl tried to take my side she was beaten with a belt and later was admitted to hospital
   This time too he framed it on me that her daughter did suicide and if she dies he will kill me, later we came to knew from hospital sources that she was beaten
   Now we are no longer in contact as her phone is under surveillance and her friends constantly betrayed her when she tried contacting me through them after all this mishappening
   I want to get married to that girl only, her family is a well known rich family of Jaipur while mine is of another state
   Can you please help and tell what can be done in this case
   And i want to join hands with your organisation for this noble cause, kindly tell me the procedure for that too.

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4. hiiii sir.. mera nam hai Teena.. main ek Bengali girl hu and avi only 19 ki hu. nd meri family meri shadi fix kar chuki hai. but main ek ladke se pyaar karti hu jo Bihari family se belong karta hai. next month meri shadi hai but mujje usise shadi karni hai. plzzzzz help me. avi agar humlog bhag jate hai to dono ki family nahi manenge. uske family ne bola hai ki kam se kam 1 sal ka time lagega. but mere pas utna time nahi hai, plzzzzz help kijiye, mukhe kaise bhi 1 saal tak shadi rokne me. plzzzz aplogo k pas koi job de dijiye mujhe jisse ki mujhe time mil jaega.

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5. hello sir,
   i’m a Muslim boy and my girlfriend is a Muslim girl, we both love each other a lot and can’t live without each other :'(
   we want to marry each other and spend our life together so we asked our parents for the same but they don’t agree due to 2 reasons first is we both are from different castes and second is there’s a huge financial difference between our families… pls pls pls help us out as soon as possible… we can’t live without each other… :'( ##########

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6. I am Rajiv Singh, aged 33yrs, a Hindu staying in Mumbai. I used to teach this girl Edwina Nomulu aged 22yrs (Catholic) in 2008 when she was in SSC and now she is doing her MCA from Sinhgad University Pune. She had a crush on me which I was not aware. I use to like her but the age gap and she being minor I didn’t asked her and We never knew each others feeling till I got married in 7th May 2009.

   I never tried to contact her after my marriage. But suddenly me and my wife started fighting with each other and there was hardly any compatibility between us. My wife use to doubt me even if I didn’t had any affairs. I caught her three times with three different boys she was trying to start affair or already started. I never fought with her but tried to understand her situation properly but she never trusted me. Finally she demanded Divorce and we filed a divorce with mutual consent. On 5th Jan 2015 judgement was passed and I am waiting for the decree. This is my side of story.

   In 2011 when my relation was going through bad phase i met Edwina again and we started chatting sharing each others personal things. We were comfortable sharing everything with each other. She told me about what happened to her in this 2 years. She even had failed attempt of suicide by drinking poison.

   We were in constant touch till all this years and now when I am divorced I am planning to marry her but when her parents knew about me, they went to the police station and taken a declaration from her that whatever happens to her is not there parents responsibility but mine and taken my address in that same letter stamped by Goregaon police station. They left us in the police station and went away. We went to her home to take the college ID so that she can go to the hostel but her brother didn’t let her in. She gave the jewelry and mobile to him and took the ID. I boarded her in the Pune train and gave her one of my Mobile.

   She was depressed that her family done this to her. This went on for 20 days. I collected her convocation degree on her behalf and she had to transfer the name from her original Sim card which was actually in the name of her friend. So she put a night out request in hostel by changing the guardian number to mine. I helped her get the night out because we already knew that one of her fellow student and one of her roommate were already spying on her on her moms instructions. When she left from there her parents thought that she will come to there place but instead she came to my place to collect her convocation and left immediately for CST to catch an early morning train. I didn’t went with her because it was a Friday and she was aware that my fast will start after 12 am. So I left her and was sitting with one of my friend at his place, when I got a call from my parents who just left for the native place that her parents called him and told that her daughter ran away with me. I told my dad that she is not with me but in CST. Immediately after that I called her mom and asked her why they called my dad. She didn’t spoke to me properly. After sometime she called and told to open the door. I said I am not at my place and she and her dad started abusing and threatening me. I watsapped the girl in Pune who was spying on Edwina stating she is in CST and I am going to take her as her battery is already exhausted. She told her mom about my msgs and also I told them to be in Police Station so that everything will be sorted. When I reached in police station her dad hit me on face, i didn’t hit back but went inside and told them to be calm. They had filed a complaint of kidnap of her daughter but when her daughter clarified that she was not kidnapped the police was convinced. They threatened me in the police station premises to kill me. Her dad has already been in jail for a murder and now he proudly shows it as a certificate to us. Her mom motivates her dad to kill me and she will take care of everything. They took her daughter with them that day and told her that they lived like dead in these 20 days and they will be ready for the marriage with me but they need time to investigate about me. Edwina was convinced and told me about all this but i was still confused. On 11th Feb 2015 evening her phone was switched off till the next day. It was shocking for me so I directly went to her place. She saw me and we started chatting about what is happening. She told that they will not get ready it was all lie. Suddenly her Mom came, saw me and called her dads mobile angrily. I told Edwina that she will create a scene so she went inside and I left from there. But I thought I should call them and when I called her mom her dad took the call and told me to come home for 5 mins. I sensed something fishy so I directly went to police station and called her dad again. He asked me where am I, He was shocked to listen that I am at Police station and started asking why did I came at his doorstep. I explained him that I came to see Edwina as she was not well. He threatened to kill my Dad and brother if i meet her again. I told that I want to listen this from Edwina herself. Her mom put knife to her own neck and threatened to kill herself. So she told that she won’t call me again and I should not come there. I told its OK I won’t come.

   But this never ended here. My dad called her dad because he was asking my brother his number daily. Her dad told my dad that i came to his place and after that abused and threatened to strip my mom and all the worst things which i can’t mention here. Her mom, dad and brother have beaten her whole night just because she loved somebody who is a divorcee and elder by 11yrs.

   Edwina and I want to marry and we want to marry without her parents knowing about us. They can kill anybody and their own daughter also for honor. Please help us and my family to get out of this mess. Please help me with any suggestions or solutions.

   Thanks and regards
   Rajiv M Singh

   Cell: ########## / ##########

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7. Hi
   I wanna marry a Hindu girl. First tell me is this is a crime to marry a Hindu girl?
   I love her n she love me a lot too n my mummy said that bahu to yehi hogi hamari but her parents think that ye paap hai 🙁
   I can’t live without her n wo bhi nai reh paayegi
   Plz help us, plz!

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8. Hello sir, I am Parul.. I am in love .. and the name of my lover is Nirmal Singh, we both belong to same caste, clan and village. sir we want to get married.. But the problem is this that our parents will not accept this relationship at any cost… my brother and my grandfather knows very well about my relationship.. but they are not in favour of this relationship.. I can’t share this matter with my father.. because he is a kidney failure patience.. my problem is very complicated.. sir plss suggest me what should I do in this situation.. rather than this.., my lover is well settled.. he is in merchant navy… sir we are in a relationship from the last 7 years.. sir I am very upset I can’t deceive my lover.. sir is it legal to get married in same gotra.. but sir we don’t have any family relations, we are just a neighbours… after 4 year i want to get married after completing my study.. but marriage proposal are coming to my home.. i am really in a big trouble sir… nobody is there who will help me rather than you.. reply me soon.. sir..

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9. Hello sir,

   Mera nam Ram h. Me apne girl friend se bahot pyar karta hu, or wo bhi mujse utna hi pyar karti h. Pr uske mummy papa or mere mummy papa humare relation se na-pasand h, unhe kaise manau.

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10. बहुत ख़ुशी हो रही है लव करने वाले को एक मुकाम तक पहुचाने के लिए कोई तो आगे आया।
    यदि हम को आर्थिक रूप से मदद करना चाहें तो कसे करें।

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11. Going through intense pressure right now. The girl i love is from a Hindu caste and i am a Muslim. We have been in a relationship since 2009 and were planning to get married in next 2 years. Hence as a step towards marriage we thought of sharing our emotion with parents mutually.

    My girlfriend shared this thought with her mom and dad a few days back, and then all the torture started, they are strictly against our love. They have also taken away all the contact means and have emotionally blackmailed her a lot. She is kind of breaking within due to all this torture. I met her mom a couple of times and tried to convince them but it was a waste. They keep blackmailing her that if she continues to be in touch with me they will commit suicide and she would be responsible for it.

    I have taken help from my friends and contacted her. It seems that she has broken completely.

    Also when i tried to visit her home and talk to everyone, her parents did not allow me to see her and i have started to receive threatening calls from her dad’s police friends.

    I stay in Pune and her dad works at a printing press in Yerawada jail, Pune. I have started receiving calls that they will come for me when i am on my way to office or back home.

    Please help me on this situation.

    On the last call that i made to my girlfriend, she said that she has broken completely and it would be good if we broke up as her parents will really commit suicide or harm me.

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12. hello sir.. .. mujhko n meri girlfriend ko hum dono ki families ne band kar lia hai. Hum dono 25 years k hain. Main Muslim and woh Hindu. Humne District Court mein shadi k liye bhi apply kia tha 19th Feb ki date hai but ab hum dono k ghar wale humko jaan se maarne ki dhamki de rahe hain.. Hum dono ko band kar lia hai and religion k naam par dange karane ki baat kar rahe hain. Dono families aapas mein mili hui hain. Ladki mujhe poora support kar rahi hai. Police bhi mili hui hai hum dono ki families se. hum dono ko media ki help chahiye.. Hum dono 25 ke hain n humari jaan ko khatra hai. Hum dono shadi karna chahte hain. Plz help.. humari families ne witnesses jo they unko bhi dara ke divert kar diya hai.. humko bohot daraya ja raha hai k maar denge agar shaadi ka socha bhi, band kar rakha hai ghar pe.. phone bhi nahi hai mere paas k kisi ko contact kar sakun.. pz help.. Kuch ho sakta hai is case mein. Police k paas direct ja nahi sakte kyuki police ko humari families paisa khila degi. Media k sath jana chahte hain hum police mein. Hum logo k documents bhi chupa liye hain gharwalo ne n band kar rakha h ghar pe.. Uske bhai ne mera tenth ka original certificate bhi faad dia h.. Mere papa uske papa ko dhamki dete hain k marwa dunga tumhari beti ko n uske papa mere papa ko bolte hai k main marwa dunga Sahil ko.. Love jihad k naam pe dange karwa dunga.. Hum dono 4 Feb se band hain apne apne gharo mein.. humko kuch telecast nahi karwana bas media k sath police k paas jake help leni hai n apni families ko msg dena h k humko jeene do chain se, hum apni marzi se sath rehna chahte hain.. mere dad k sach mein police mein acchi baat h, media kuch kar paegi is case mein.. Plz help .. mere paas koi phone nahi hai, cheen lia ghar walo ne.. Sahil Khan. Noida.

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13. Dear Love Commandos,

    I just read an article about your organization in a Canadian newspaper. As a lawyer dedicated to women’s rights, I would like to congratulate you for everything you are doing in order to fight for women’s emancipation, integrity and autonomy. As we all know in Canada, there is nothing as nice as a relationship based on love. I wish I could go to India and help you continue your great work. Bravo!!!

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14. Sir (specialy for Chairman)

    Aap Gandhi ji se bade Mahapurush hai. Yakinan unke jamane me bhi aise kand hote rahe hai. lekin aisi koi kahani padhne ko nahi milti jishme unhone aap jaisa kam kiya ho. APKE IN PRAYASO SE YAKINAN RAMRAJYA AYEGA LEKIN KISI SEETA KO DHARTI MA KI GOD ME SONA NAHI PADEGA. Azadi toh kahne ke liye mili hai. samaj to hame mar dalna chahta hai.

    Apne bare me…..

    main Hindu hu aur ek Muslim ladki se pyaar karta hu. hamara relation 6 saal purana hai. pichle 1 mahine se hamare saathi ke dil me yeh dar ghar kar gaya hai ki agar hum ghar ke khilaf kadam uthate hain to mummy papa mar jayege. bahut samjhane par bhi ushke kadam nahi uthte. wo mujhe selfish kah deti hai lekin pyaar ab bhi mujhe wo itna karti hai ki main bayan nahi kar sakta. uska no. ##########, hai ishpe raat 8.00 baje baat ho sakti hai. Sir, please koi rashta nikaliye. mera no. ########## hai. filhal main ghar se bahar hu aur berojgaar hu.

    -Thank you sir

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15. Hello sir, Mari age 22 he, Mara name Jay he, mane 10 month pahale ek ladki as shadhi ki he par Mari wife ke gharewala uski dusri shadhi karva rahe he jabarjasti or ose marne ki dhamki di hui he, m Kya kru, Mare paas sirf one month he uski shadhi rokne ka liya, Kya kru

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    • Dear Jay

      Please provide your correct and valid Email ID because emails sent to you are bouncing. Please login to your email account and send us a direct email at and provide the following:

      (1) Email copies of marriage documents.
      (2) write age and address of both.
      (3) Tell your phone number.

      You may also discuss at our Helpline: 09313784375 / 09313550006

      Please visit the FAQ page at http://www.lovecommandos.org/faq/.

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16. hello sir, i am Chavi Surana from Bangalore, India, i love a guy, his name is Imran Khan, we are in a relationship from 5 years, i am a Marwadi Jain and he is a Muslim, and also we have 6 yrs difference he is 23yrs and i am 15 yrs.. he is ready to wait for me for more than 5 years to get married only to me. his family has also accepted me but only his mom is refusing because of my family as my family has a lot of money.. his mom also loves me a lot but she is scared of my family and tells me to end the relationship with Imran, we both can’t live without each other and the problem is that my family knows about this but i have told them that i have stopped talking to Imran.. when my father got to know that i use to talk to Imran he use to beat, hit me. i have just told my family that i don’t talk to Imran but i do talk to him and we are still in a relationship. my mom taunts me that if it would be a Marwadi guy also we could accept it but he is a Muslim and my parents tell me that after people get to know that u love a Muslim our reputation will go down and they also lie on Imran that he just loves me for my money but i believe him because whenever i had problems my family didn’t help me but Imran helped me, he is too possessive about me.. i just want to marry him and he also wants to marry me, we love each other a lot, he is not done anything wrong to me.. my family also tells that their reputation is more than me.. so please help me and my love so that we can get married after at least 3-4 years.. help us so that we can tell our parents and explain them about our love and we also want to get married in our families presence, give us ideas, please help us.. thank you

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17. sir mai bihar ki ek ladki se pyar karta hu, wo bhi mujhse pyar krti hai, ham dono 3 sal se jude h aur ham dono sadi karna chahte h par uske father sadi k khilaf hai aur uski sadi kahi aur kr rhe h, 15 fabruary ko sadi tay h, plse help me sir. mai u.p. ka rahne wala hu. mera mob no. ########## h

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18. Sir I am Prashant from Ghaziabad, sir m registered marriage kar chuka hu unse bt sir hum ek nayi life start karna chahte h, sir koi aisa kariye ki mere gharwalo p koi fir na ho aur m apke shelter m bhi reh saku unke saath, plz suggest me

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19. Sir, meri girlfriend ki family bahot he strict hai aur meri girlfriend bahot he kamjor dill ki hai, wo apne gharwalo se bahot darte hai, mai aisa kya karu ki wo apne gharwalose hamare baare me baat kar sake, plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz koi aisa solution batao ki mai unhhe achhe se samjha saku

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20. Hi,
    I m in love with a girl and want to marry her but her parents use to torture her.
    She is working in a company, but they are forcing her to leave job. Kindly give me some suggestions.

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