1. Dear Harsh Sir,

   My name is Kamla, age 24. I am in love with a boy, age 27. Our parents know that we want to marry. Only issue of MY parents is the “Caste”. My parents like the Boy. Even they have met.
   I am from ########## caste & because of strict orthodoxy rules of our caste, my parents are helpless.

   According to the Rule, if child do inter-caste marriage then parents are just removed out of the community or if parents want to live in community they have to pay fine of Rs 1 lakh and child will be cremated by parents. Even after this there is no guarantee that my parents can live in society with honor & my brothers will get married in society only.

   Because of these rules my parents are concerned that how to marry. I want my parents to live in society with honor.

   What i should do sir, please give me direction.

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2. hello…sir
   mera naam shahid hai aur mai ek ladki se bahut pyar krta hu… hum ek dusre ko 3 saalo se like krte hai aur hum dono B.Tech kr rkhi hai… ab shadi krna chahte hai, problem ye hai ki ladki meri cast ki ni hai, wo jaat hai. aur uske ghr wale uski shadi kahi aur krna chahte hai… but wo ni krna chahti, wo muj se shadi krna chahati hai aur mai b us se shadi krne k liye tyaar hu.. hum dono ki shadi me na mere family wale shamil honge aur na hi uske family wale.. ab hm log bhag kr shadi krna chahate hai.. sir sirf aap hi humari help kr skte hai…. maine aap ke bare me Satyamev Jayate me dekha… sir aap se bahut umeed hai hume….. plz help us..

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3. i want to marry a girl. she want too. but our family is against us due to different caste. they use to beat her regularly. and they are forcing her to merry within 2-3 days. and she told me that if they merry her other then me then she will die before marriage. i need your urgent help. please help us for that i will thankfull to u for whole of my life.

   hope you will answer…….my contact no is: ##########

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4. Hello sir/ mam
   Am Vibhor.
   Am 23 old and so does my partner.
   We are from Delhi.
   The trobule is me and my girl can’t live at our homes.. as her parents are strict and wouldn’t be allowing us to marry and so does mine.. And many other complications.
   Am an engg graduate and she is an medical intern..
   We want to leave our places and want to start our life all over again together.. Can you help us ??

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5. Sir mera name Praveen he, me apni gf se bahut pyer krta hu or wo v mujhse bahut pyer krti h pr hum dono ke beech jat-pat ka diwar aa gaya he, mere gf muslim h or me hindu pr fir v hum dono ek dusre se sadi krna chate h pr hum dono ke famly wale esha nahi hone dena chate he, plz sir hum dono ke help karo, plz sir

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6. Dear sir
   Mein ek job karne wala larka hun.. ek larki se bht jayda pyar karta hu. Humdono ek dusre ko phicle 10 saal se pasand karte h.. par mere mummy papa maan nahi rahe h. Emotinally mujhse usse chorne ko kah rahe h.. plz humari help kare.. mera no. H ##########. Plz humdono ne bht intajar kiya h.. plz hamari madad kare

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   • Hi sir,
     Mein ek larki se pyar karta hun.. larki same caste ki hai. Par alag sub-caste ki hai. Is wajah se mere maa aur papa maan nahu rahe hai. Unko apne pasand ke bare me bataye huye teen saal ho gaye hai. Par wo maan nahi rahe haim, emotionally treat karte hai to main unse jeet nahi pata. Par mein usi larki se shaadi karna chahata hun. Uske alwa kisi aur se main shaadi nahi kar sakta. Humdono job karte hai aur chahte hai k hamare ghar wale raji ho jaye. Apse help ki ummid hai. Bahut sunna aur padha hai love cammandos ke bare me. Akhir me apse help mang rahe hai.. plz plz plz hamari madad kar dijiye..

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7. sir, my name is imran, i am 22 yrs and i love a girl vry badly, even she does. she is 6 yrs younger to me, we are in a relationship bt she is a jain marwadi whereas i am a muslim, her family knws n they have warned that she shuldn’t talk to me or meet me, we can’t stay away frm each other, she is in tenth nw. we are serious about this relationship, we wanna get married… sir plzz help… and her family is torturing her a lot. plzz Sanjay sir help.

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8. Hr kone me casteism ghr Kr chuki h.. koi awaz uthana chahe to ghr wale emotionally daba dete h… aisa hi chlta rha to kb insaaf hga… kisi KO to apne ghr walo ko chhodna hga… kisi KO bdlav k liye burayi lni hgi… q saant Ho jate h hm un maa baap k aansuo k saamne Jo Ki jhuti izzat k Nam pe h nikle… q dab jate h hm. q hmesa hum hi unhe samjhe, vo din kb aayega jb Vo Hume samjhenge… sr hum jhukate h or burayi b hum pate h.

   Hr Kisi ka sr yun hi jhukta rha to bdlaav kaise as skta h.. kisi KO to ma baap k aansu nakarne honge.. pr q hmesa Vo aansu itna majbur Kr dete h Ki sahi galat Ki parakh hote huye b hum saant Ho jate hain.. kb tk hoga ye… kb tk?????

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9. Main ek ladki se pyar krta hun or v mere se. agle 31 january 2015 ko uski sadhi hai. hm dono ek dusre ke bina nai rha skte hain. uske faimly kv v hmdono realation ko accept nai kren ge, ab main kya krun, plz plz plz plz help me …plz help me

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10. hello sir,
    my name is Gursewak Singh
    am from Punjab
    and am B.A final student my d.o.b 19 august 1994
    and my gf name Diksha Garg
    her age 1 december 1996
    and tell me what i do…..
    our family against our love story
    hum kya kare plzz batao, unho ne meri gf ko clg se niklwa lia he, use apne saath ghr le gye he
    ab mujhe kya karna chayie

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11. hum dono medical internee hai. mbbs se. unko unke gharwale ghar le gaye hai. hume koi job nahi abhi aur filhal income source bhi nahi. everything is going on the govt. stipend. hume unki shadi se pehale ghar chodna emergency hai. unke ghar strong political background hai. can u plz fix problem

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12. Sir mein ek ladke se bahut pyar krti hun aur wo bhi mujhse bahut pyar krta h, hum dono ne decide kiya h ki hum dono shadi kr lenge, help kardo na, my 22 yer old and he 21 yer old, help me sir

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13. Respected sir, I am in a relationship with a boy since 9 years. we love each other like more than anything. we are emotionally connected with each other very much. we can’t live without each other. our parents are not accepting our relation because we are of different caste. I’m Bhumihar and he is Rajput. we can’t also run away from them becoz he is only son in his home, his mother passed away 1 year ago. he has too much pressure on him. please help us. we want a team of yours to convince our parents. Pleeeeeeeez help us. Main aaplogo ki puri life karzdar rhungi. hmesa help krungi lovers ka aaplogo k sath mil kar, please heip us. I’M BEGGING YOU.

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14. Mery gf k ghr pr hum dono k relation k baare m pta chl gya h . mery gf sharma h pandit & m. Dhanak hu .. Mjhe nhi pta k uske family m ab kya chl rha h.. sirf itna pta h k usko bht maara h belto se … M apne ghr pr sab bta dunga or WO maan b jaaenge lekin uske parents kbhi tyaar nh hoenge … Kal aa rhe h uska hostal se smaan wapis le jaana or mjhe warn krne.. koi contact nh ho paa rha mera usse … M sab ko convince krna chahta hu but koi elder aakr unko ye sab btaega toh WO maan jaaenge kyunki bdi age hone k baad jyaada log ye sochte h k hum bde hum shi decision lenge … plsss I need some group to talk about this face to face with them . m feeling alone .. help meeeeeeee. … I can’t live without her & she is in danger at her home .

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    • Ho gai problem solve mery. Ab aap involve mat hona .. Plsssss … Sab kuch solve ho gya, WO wapis CLG aa rhi h … Thanx..

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15. i’m Kishore, i’m loving a girl, she is doing her medicine and i completed engineering and waiting for job. we both loving sincerly more then one and half years. she get caught in her home recently, so they r not allowing her out even to college, i don’t know what step should i take next, they r refusing especially becz of caste problem, she is BC and i’m SC. i’m 21 and she is 20.. so plz kindly i request u to help us.. i got fear that they’ll arrange some forced marriage for her.. but we both r strong in love….. plz reply

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16. i hav just attained 21 years and my girlfriend is 19+
    and we would like to marry is there any problem with my age ..and please do mail me the full procedure to marry as usual her parents will never accept to we just wanaa marry

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17. Hello sir,
    I am into relation with a girl from a long time, we both are serious about this relation. She is a muslim and i am a hindu. Current scenario is that her parents are forcing her to marry someone they want. We want to marry each other but i am afraid of any violent repercussions, that might result. My parents have no issues, they will accept whoever i marry. I am unsure what step to take. Please advice.

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18. Hi

    I want to join your organization i really appreciate your work and i personally believe that everybody have a right to choose their life partner. Any relationship are not based religion,caste,class. I have done my graduation in social work and as a social worker or as a human being this is my or our responsibility that their will be no discrimination on the bases of religion,caste,class. we have to takecare of all this, every individual should understand this. as if my family is open minded is everything but on the topic of muslim hindu they become so orthodox or negative i mean most of the time i tried to explain them that this is not right we have no right to blame any or particular community. i have so many muslim friend or sc st friend but i never feel discriminate i always feel good and happy. its not all about hindu muslim its about that we all are human being and become being human are not too difficult please first become human and please treat everyone as a human because humanity is the biggest religion.

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19. hi Sir..

    i am 27 year old and i love a girl whose age is 24. both belong to same caste. we date each other since last 4 year. we love each other and want to marry each other. I have a private job in a core sector. and i do not have a too much property..

    we meet each other in my cousin sister marrige and she came her cousin brother marraige. so both family belong to close relation.

    Sir the problem is that my love when ask to her parents to marry me her family just ask one think only he do not have a property..

    sir we belong to a village area..
    and we want to marry each other sir please help me how could i marry my love..

    sir please help me her family start searching a another boy to her and my love told me if you will not marry with me i suicide. due to this i am in very depress and i don’t understand what i do..

    sir please help me.. please

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20. i m a Priynk
    i m love a one girl since 4 years
    she is also love me
    we want a marry with each other
    cause we really in love
    our caste is same but our family do not accept our relationship
    because of family matter
    we try to convince them but they are not agree
    my girlfriend is 18 up &
    my age is 21 running
    we hv no more time to wait
    our parents know & they fully force to marry with another guy
    if i do love marriage…..
    if an issue with my age 21 running??
    whts document required for marriage??
    so i want help

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