1. Dear commandos,
   I am from a Kayasth family, Bihar and in love with an OBC boy. He is preparing for IAS. That’s why i want to marry after one year. We even can’t live without each other but also we can’t hurt our parents. So we can’t take any wrong step which makes them feel ashamed. my parents are completely against us. even they have seen a boy for me from my caste in Patna and they want me to get married with him as soon as possible. They are not forcing me but emotionally creating pressure. i have two younger sisters. they are saying that because of me, my sisters will suffer, don’t be so selfish…
   What can we do so that we can marry happily with our parents wishes. Plz tell me what should i do. I can’t select any1 of them. Please help me.

   Thanks.

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2. hello commandos, I saw your episode on YouTube. I feel proud that, couples like us need some kind of a support, when we start up our marriage life, you guys are doing that. GOD BLESS U .
   sir, I am from Karnataka, I am in love with a girl of some higher caste, so usually we are not getting any support. Then I came to know about your organisation sir, but you guys are way far from here. sir, I just need legal guidance for marriage sir. Do you have any branches in Karnataka? or provide me any Legal persons number sir, so that i can fulfill my desire….. please do reply sir

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3. we want to get married.

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4. hi. i am frm a jaat family. My boyfriend is also jaat, we are in a relationship from 4yrs. my family is nt ready cz boy is nt frm a rich family. my chacha has strtd threatening me and my boyfrnd to kill and he has high lvl cntcts. plz help. wht to do.

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5. Hi.. I am a Tamil Latin Christian girl who is in a relationship with a Malayali Marthoma guy. I am even older to him by eight months. We are on a relationship past five years and now the scene is at its climax . Things are going okay with my parents but not for his – they are telling him that just coz of our this relationship, his siblings will be affected and I shall never be accepted in his family. .. it would be a curse if we continue things. .. we both are strong. .. but family matters. . age and caste.. these two things were decided by God before I was born – what shall I do now??? please advise

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6. Dear Sir,

   I m in a relationship from last 7 years now we both are 22 yrs old. we both are from West Bengal. my girlfriends family is not agree with our relationship due to community issues and fame of their family. firstly my parents were agree with our relationship but now due to mind wash or something i don’t know they are asking me to marry a girl with their own choice. i want to marry her urgently bcoz whenever she suffers from illness or whenever she is in bad condition her family doesn’t support her and they are saying that they will kill her if she doesn’t stop talking to me. we both love each other and don’t wanna get separated bcoz of community or family fame… the girl will live with me and i know how much care and love i can provide her for keeping her happy for her whole life… please suggest urgently regarding this matter…

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7. Kya ek ladka 17 years ka or ladki 16 years ki hai us dono ki shaadi cort me ho sakti hai help reply me

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   • No, the boy has to be above 21 and girl above 18. Further, marriages do not take place in the court. It is either a registration of marriage in the court after a marriage at a lawfully valid place or permission to marry as per SMA (Special Marriage Act), however Section 4 has also to be complied with.

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8. I am in a relationship with a girl from 6 years. We both are eligible for marriage.
   We want to get married but girl’s family is against this as girl is from different Caste.
   I already had a discussion with girl’s father twice but he didn’t agree and now her parents have engaged her with some other person, the girl is not happy with this engagement, but her family is not listening anything, they are saying that it is a matter of respect for both the families, they are torturing her a lot.
   They are saying that if she will not marry to the person engaged with, they will harm Me….
   right now we are not finding any way out to overcome this situation… We are in a very tense situation and don’t know what to do now…. If we Get married now then this will make the situation worse…
   My parents are old and her father can actually harm my parents….
   Please guide us…..

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9. Dear commandos,
   I am from Jaat family and in love with a Rajput girl. We are together by heart from 7 yrs. We even can’t live without each other but also we can’t hurt our parents. So we can’t take any wrong step which makes them feel ashamed. Both our parents are completely against us. What can we do so that we can marry happily with our parents wishes. Plz tell me as I am dying slowly and slowly each day. I can’t select any1 of them. Please help me.
   Thanks.

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10. please i want your help please, i love a boy of my cast and he also loves me a lot but his parents are torturing us..
    please help me sir!!

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11. Hi,

    Am in a relationship with a boy from 3 years, both our parents are against our marriage but we want to convince them and get married we dont want to go against them please tell us what to do.

    we are trying to convince them but there is no reply from our parents.

    Please help us.

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12. Dear sir/madam,
    I am Pankaj Shrivastava & l love my GF so much, she also loves me lot, we are in relation from 7 yrs, we decide to marry but the problem is caste, her parents not to agree for this relation because I am not belong from their caste. Please help me.

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13. Mera problem ye h ki main jis larki se pyar karta hun usi se maine 2009 me shaadi kar li hai, ham dono ka caste same nahi hai. iske chalte meri wife ke ghar wale usko bhejne ke liye ready nahi ho rahe hain. aaj ham dono ek dusre ke bina nahi ji sakte. main suicide kar lunga agar wo nahi mili to. agar aap log uske ghar walon ko samjha sake to wo log maan jayenge, please help me
    Please Please Please .

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14. sir me ek ladke se bahut pyar krti hu, hm dono thakur h but prob ye h k wo meri bhabhi k cousion h, hm log ne apne apne ghar baat bi ki but sbne ye bol diya k rista ulta h or unki shadi bi tay ho gayi, plz ap kuch bi kar k hm dono ki shadii kara dijiye plzzzz

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15. http://www.anti-caste.org/inter-caste-couples/

    Go through this link and people will know the statistics of honour killings/suicides in India. It’s shame on the part of parents to kill their children for the sake of relatives. No relative will come to our place every day. It’s just you meet them in some function.

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16. mera nam Uttam Kumar h or mera problem ye h ki mera or ham jis larki se pyar karte h, ham dono ka caste same nahi h. eske chalte larki ke ghar vale shadi ke liye ready nahi ho rahe h. ham dono ek dusre ko 5 salo se jante h or aaj ke condition ke anusar ham dono ek dusre ke bina nahi ji sakte. bahut bar dil me khayal aaya ki suicide kar le lekin wo bhi nahi ho paya. hamare samajh se agar koi accha se samjhane wala mil jae to uske papa ko ye bat samajh me aa sakti h. ham dono apne papa ko koi dukh dekar shadi nahi karna chahte h. so please tell me hame kya karna chachiye.

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17. I and my GF are in relationship from more than 5 years my n her parents also knows about our relationship but her parents are opposing and telling not get marry with me… as they also did love marriage… me n my parents had gone to meet her father but they didn’t replied anything to us … we had gone twice – 1st time on Nov and 2nd time on Feb but they are answering anything… now from last week there parents are forcing her to forget the boy you love (means me). Actually I’m doing MCA last year n currently doing industrial training .. so I thought after I start earning I’ll marry but now they are forcing her angrily that we will not accept it n all… now what should we do …? if I apply for court marriage but during the process if something happens then will you guide us …

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18. Me 20 ka or WO 17 ki he us ke papa us ki shadi karwana chahtehe us ke khilaf me kya kru plz…. btao

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19. Dear sir/madam,

    Mainey inter religion marriage ke hai in court marriage special marriage act 1955 but prob ye hai ke mere wife kai maykai walay usko dhokay say wapas laker chalay gaye hai apnay sath bolker ke uski sis ke shadi karaker tumhare sath bej dengay ishko per aab ish baat ko 15 mahinay ho gaye hai, wo na tho mere biwi ko bej rahay hai aur na mujhey Kuch reply ker rahay hai, main bahut pareshan rehta ho ish wazah say aur aab mere family bhi mera koi support nahi ker rahay hai, bool rahay hai divorce dey do usko aur ladki ke family bhi same bool rahi hai, mainey bahut kosis ker li sub ko samjhany ke per koi maanney ko raji nahi hai, sir agar aap mere help ker dey to mere life safal ho jayegi, I know that India law with me per main sochta ho samjah ker kaam nikal jaye tho accha hai, she belong to hindu family and I belong to Muslim, I don’t know what is the prob with both families, some time I fell very disappointed and want to do suicide but I know that my wife love me a lot and she don’t have any fault, why I should punish her.

    tell me sir what can I have so she come back to me, plz help, I really thank full to you lot

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20. plz sir help me???
    sir mai apni girlfriend se bahut pyar karta hu, or wo bhi mujhse bahut pyar karti hai.
    problem yeh hai ki ghar walo ki sahmti se hamari marrieg nahi ho sakti. kyoki hamari or unki caste ek hi hai. Or unke Uncel ki tabiyat bhi kharab rahti hai jis karan se Unke papa ji jalddi kar rahe hai.
    sir ab aap hi batye ki mai kya karu??????????????????

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