1. me ek ladki se bohut pyar karta hu aur wo ladki v mujhse pyar karti hai… hamare relatn ko 1 sal hone wala hai. maine apne ghar me parents ko hmare relatn k bare me bola.. jab yeh baat maine mere gf ko bataya toh wo gussa ho gayi aur dukhi ho gayi thi… wo ladki bolne lag gayi ki abhi kya zarorat tha ghar me bolne ka??.. maine bola aur kitna chup chup ke pyar karenge, ghar me to pata chalna hi hai par usne mera yeh baat nhi samjh rhi hai.. par aisa nhi hai ki wo luv nhi karti. luv karti hai.. par wo darti hai aur mujhe yeh v pata hai ki wo future ke bare me jyda nhi sochti hai.. wose jab bolta hu ki itna darne ka baat nhi hai… tmhe sirf hamare relatn ke bare me apne parents ko bolna hai.. me woske sth rehke yeh pata chala ki wo parents k upar depnd karti hai. parents jo blta hai wo karti hai.. abhi tak usne apne parents ko nhi bataya apne relatn ke bare me. par me chahta hu ki wo bataye apne ghar me.. aur me yeh v sochta hu ki agar uski ghar walo ne agar hamare relatn ko accept nhi kiya toh kya hoga? aur wo ladki ko v pata hai ki uski mmy papa accept nhi karega.. aur wo yeh v bolti hai ki wo kabhi apne mmy papa ko dukhi nhi dekhna chahti hai, matlb agar uski parents accept nhi kiya toh wo kabhi apne mmy papa ko nhi chodhegi, kabhi v bhag k mere pass nhi ayegi.. yeh sab mujhe janne k baad usse pyar karne ka mann nhi hota.. bas use bohut ignore karne ka mann hota hai.. mujhe lagta hai ki mujhe woske sth pyar nhi karna chahiye tha. kyu ki wo decision maker nhi hai taker hai.. bt i don wanna dis type of relatnshp.. ab mujhe kya karna chahiye.. help me

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2. Sir plzzz help me …. plzzzzzzz help me to convince my parents… I belong to jaat family and my bf belongs to braman family.. we have four year long relationship aand now want to marry with each other but my family is totally against to it and his parents r ready… sir can u help me in convencing my parentss….. plzzzzz HELP ME.. ITS SOOO URGENT… PLZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZZ

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3. Dear sir,

   I love a girl and she loves me too.
   We both want to marry but we know that none of our family will be ready for this marriage because we both belong to the same village, separated by 1/2 kilometer.
   Now we both decide to do court marriage.

   Sir i know that if we do court marriage the girls family will file a case of kidnapping against me. Sir i am ready to fight the case and i m sure i m going to win this case because the girl age is 20 years and she is major by law.

   Sir i want to ask that i m going to fight the case filed against me but i know that i m alone and i want a person who stood behind me as a guardian help me to clear the case filed against me then after i can take care of myself and my girlfriend…..

   CAN U HELP ME IN THIS CASE ?

   With regards

   Vivek Singh

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   • dear sir
     I mean to say civil marriage i.e. Registered marriage when we fulfill all the condition

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4. They taught us to love and now they say don’t love.

   They said treat everyone equally and now they say you can’t marry him because he is of a different caste.

   They say we can do anything for you but go against us when we need them the most.

   They say don’t bother about what people say and now they are taking-away our happiness just for the sake of people saying “Log kya bolege.”

   They called us their pride and now they say “Tuney to hamari naak kat di” ….. “Hum kisi ko muh dikhane k layak nahi rahe.”

   They are our parents who love us but don’t let us love the one we want ???????????

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5. Sir mera naam Nitesh h, aur mai delhi se hu, mai ek muslim ladki se pyar karta hu, aur vo bhi mujhe bahut chahti h; aur hum shaadi bhi karna chahta h,
   Problem ye ladki Bangladesh ki h, aur uske ghar waale aur mere ghar waalo ko hum dono k relegation k baare me kuch bhi nhi pata h, ab hum sir kya kare plzzzz help karo,
   hum dono jaldi hi shaadi karna chahte h.

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6. Sir,

   i belong to a sikh punjabi family and i am in love with a guy who is also a sikh but from a different caste. we both love each other n want to get married. but the problem is my parents will never agree to this proposal as the guy they want for me as a life partner should be NRI well settled there.. with a gud income. whereas the guy i love is still in college with me n their financial status is just fine but not upto my parents wish.

   this is not the only problem… even if he was as much rich as we are, my parents still wud nvr agree to love marriage.. never ever !! i kniw.. if once i told them anything about us they will ground me n force me to marry asap. i love my parents n can’t go against them but i cant leave him also… i knw i can nvr b happy wid any other guy.. we have been so much in love with each other for the past 4 years… n now its like my parents are all the time looking for eligible NRI guys. plz sir.. i can’t see any option ahead.. he won’t b able to live without me.. he will die or get insane… plz help us

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7. Dear sir/madam
   i am guna i am a tamil guna swetha . We are lover past 2 years it love is inter caste love so you help me..

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8. i called on your helpline no . i told everything i knew about my
   problem and i asked them for help.they told me to give total details
   of the girl and asked me for money about 17750 INR to be transferd in the accounts
   given on the sites and told me to scan the recipt and to send it by
   mail. do you take this much of amount to help people?

   i m not hiding anything just want to know is this a active
   organisation or faking the people .?
   because i need help .

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9. what is this having an fd in the name of lover of 50 thousand. hows this possible those who are poors.ot those who havent met each other coz of this circumstances what they will do . i was not expecting this from this group.

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   • Dear Akash

     The Allahabad High Court has passed this order.

     How can you blame Love Commandos for it?

     Please go through this link and read the news again: click here

     We would like to emphasize that this shocking order is in contempt of Supreme Court’s standing directions (order given in criminal appeal no 958 of 2011), resolutions of the Parliament and the great Constitution of India.

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10. Dear

    sir/madam

    mai ek larki ko bhaut chahata hu aur wo larki bhi mujhe chahti hai, us larki ne is bare me apni bari bhan ko bataya hai. Par uski bhan ne meri jaati k karan mana kar diya hai. Par wo larki apne mammi papa ko batane se darti hai aur kahti hai ki yadi usne apne mammi papa ko bataya to wo uski sadi jaldi kisi aur se karwa denge. Isi wajha se wo mera sath chorna chahati hai par wo ayesa karte huye bhaut roti hai aur mai bhi us k bina nahi rah sakta. Aap log meri help karo. Nahi to mai ji bhi nahi paunga.

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11. hatss off Dear >>>> hamari soch jese agar samaj ho jaye to yeh samaj swarg hi ban jayega … really frnd aaapki batey sunke .. dil se aapko salam … or pyar tha , hai or hamesha rahega >>>

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12. please i want your help please i love a girl of other cast and she also loves me a lot but her parents are torturing me just because of religion please help me sir!!

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13. Hello,

    Dear Sir/Madam,

    I have love issue, I am in love with a girl and we want to get married, she does not have her mom and dad. Her elder sister taking care of her and she is married too. I have talked to her sister for our marriage, her sister is not completely disagree but can not say yes because of their relatives and our relatives forcing us too.

    Our relation has disclosed in my family and relatives and in her relatives too, I do not know where from it was disclosed but so much pressure on us.

    My family want to be with me but can not help me directly because of the relatives.
    My family is in tension and she is also but we are not getting any solution.
    She lives in East UP and I live in Delhi.
    I guess you can understand what is love and truly we can not live without each other.
    We have to take any action as soon as fast, otherwise there would be so much problem.

    Please help please please, suggest something, we need help.

    Regards,

    Ravish Chand

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14. hello sir,
    my name is aakil ali and I love a girl but she is belong from hindu cast.. we are in relationship from last 5 yrs.. now we want to take our next step.. we want to get marry.. but none will accept us.. we cannot live without each other… and I also don’t want to take her far from her family… she is from gupta family… sir pls help me out from this.. what should i do now. so our family will ready for the marriage.. I can agree my family but her family will not be ready.. please help me… I m waiting for ur mail… bye

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    • sir, i m muslim boy and she is hindu… but I want to marry with the way of islam.. can we do nikah?

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15. mera name Ankur Nigam hai. mai bahut problem m hu, mera love relation 5 year s chal raha tha Nivadita Mishra naam ki ladki s jisme ham logo n without court marriage shaadi bhi ki thi lakin 15 din pahle unke ghar walo ko ek ladka pasand aa gaya aur usase uski shaadi taye kar di aur ladki pr pressure dalane lage tb ladki n us ladke s baat karna shuru kar diya jisame mere relation m gaping aa gayi to maine ladke k ghar walo ko sb bta diya jasae shaadi cancel ho gayi, fir saari baat ladki k ghar pr pta chali tb ghar walo n usase mobile lekar baat karna band karwa diya but problem y hai ki jis ladke s shaadi final hui thi wo unke relation ka hai aur unska ghar aana jaana hai, ladke aur ghar waalo n usko mere oposite kar diya hai jisase mera love relation jo kaafi aage tak tha wo khatam ho raha hai aur mai bahut pareshan hoon mai, suicide bhi kar sakta hoon b’coz really love u NIVI. mai rah nahi sakta usake bina… plz plz plz help me… serious matter..

    Ankur Nigam
    Alambagh, Lucknow
    Mobile Number = ##########

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16. Hi,

    I am Sumit from INDIA and belong to SC chambhar Caste Maharashtrin and my Girlfriend is OBC Bhandari cast Maharashtrin.

    Also, her Dad has recently recovered from his bad health as he was admitted in Hospital due to liquid in liver and it took one whole month for him to discharge and now cos of damage to his Liver he is now diabetic patient.

    My Parents are retired and at home and now in this month within two weeks my elder brothers marriage is there.

    Recently yesterday she had words about our relation to her mother only when her DAD was not at home but she has not revealed my name to her mom. After listening to it her mom got very much angry and said don’t reveal to your dad as he will get tensed and her mom don’t want any more tension. Her mom said her to stop all this nonsense outside and not entertain and took promise from her not to talk to me and said that her mom will commit suicide or die if she goes against their wishes and they are finding Good Guy for her.

    After this i had words with my elder brother and he said go to our Maharaj who checks the marriage match making and suggests on future of marriage. This Maharaj suggested me that She has to convince her Mom Dad and later i should inform my parents because if I or my parents go to talk to her parents then there will be lots of issue as per my kundli and if we want to talk to her parents then it should done by January 2014 end only as till that time there is issue in my kundli as I am manglik and its very strong. Maharaj told that her mom & dad will get convinced but she has to face a lot and not back down.
    After all this my bro said not to discuss now with my parents until she convinces her mom & dad and later discuss with my parents after this marriage only.

    Now i am in deep confusion what to do and how to get everything worked out.
    I want to get married to this girl any how and at any cost.
    Also, my parents will be ready as I know they knew little bit about our relation and had already said its Ok if I do love marriage.

    Now how should i wait for so many days almost 40 days and my GF is now in lots of tension and don’t know what to do.

    I am working GUY with 30K per month salary and She was working earlier but now left the Job when her dad was admitted recently.
    She has a younger sister and her dad is retired and no one works at their home now.
    Her family wants nice and a very-very-very RICH Guy and also should be of same cast.

    She called me today and asked whether i discussed about us at my home and i told everything what i wrote to you above.

    Please please help and guide me what should i Do.

    Please help. I am in deep tension as she is telling me to leave her or else she will commit suicide.

    We are in relation from past four years.

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17. mera naam anju hai. mai aur mera bf hum dono 8 saal se relationship me hai. humari cast alag hai, wo bramhin hai aur mai thakur. mere ghar me koi bhi is shadi liye nhi man raha hai. hum dono 8 sal se ghar walo ko manane ki kosis kar rahe hai, par wo tayar nahi ho rahe hai. sir can you help us? kya ap log unhe mana sakte hai ya humari koi bhi help kar sakte hai? pls reply us, hum bhut problm me hai.

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18. Hello sir
    myself Vicky (21) from UP and my gf Arti(18) is also from UP but she Brahmin and i m SC and my father is ok but my mummy don’t like her and her parents also don’t like me and we r in love from last 8-9 year and we both want to marry each other, i had told to my parents but she have no guts to tell her parents, how can she make her parents agree for our marriage? plz sir help us.

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19. Sir mai ek ldke s but pyar krti hu mere ghr wale raji nhi inter cast k lite, air uske ghr wale nhi nhi MSN the, mai uske bins nhi rh skti, btayrye MSI kya kru Jesse WO man jaye air KDKA merit mummy ko change WO wsise hi h. plz help me mere ghr wale merit shadi khi aur kr the h

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20. Sir….. mein me ek ladke se pyaar karti hu aur hum dono relationship me he. hum shadi karna chahte he but uske gharwale nhi maan rahe, aur usko dusri shadi karne ke liye force kar rahe he, aur mere ghar wale usko pasand nahi karte kyu ki wo pada nahi he. muze kuch samaj me nhi ata me kya karu.. abhi maine usse shadi karli to humara aage kya hoga kyuki donoke gharwale accept nhi karenge…. plz help me

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