1. hi,

   I’m in love with a girl, who is equally in love with me. We both belong to the same community. We both are working in same department as engineers.

   My parents have agreed to our marriage.

   But her father is blackmailing saying he’ll commit suicide protesting against our marriage. Please help in dealing with this issue. My lover is afraid thinking of the consequences. Please help..

   Thank you.

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2. hii dear sir main ek ladki se bhut pyar karta hu wo bhi muje bhut pyar karti thi humare relation ko 4 month ho gaye mai usko milne bhi gaya ab wo kehti hai ki mujse shadi nahi karna chahti uski cast alag hai wo christan hai aur me hindu to muje kya karna chaiye ki wo mujse pyar bhi kare aur shadi bhi ?? uske ghar walo ko bhi manjur kar saku because wo ladki uske ghar walo ko bhi kuch kehna nahi chahti darti hai

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   • hi monil,

     ap keh rahe ho ki wo ladki apse pyar karti thi, vo shadi isliye nahi kar rahi kyunki religion alag hai. vo darti hai. apki baaton se aisa lag raha hai ki ap iss baat ko lekar sure nhi hai ki wo apse ab pyar karti hai ya nhi. ap jisse shadi karna chahte hai uska support apko milna chayiye, sirf apke effort se kuch nhi hoga. pehle ap apni girlfriend ko confidence mei lijiye, unke ander se dar nikaliye. kya apki family ko apke iss relation ka pta hai? unki kya soch hai? ap unse help le sakte hai. agr apki family bhi against ho to ap unhe samjhane ki koshish kariye, aj nhi to kal vo mann jayenge or agr koi option na rahe to court marriage kar lijiye. or 4 monts ka rishta itna mature nhi hai ki ap shadi kare. thoda ek dusre ko or samajhne ki koshish kare, ek dusre ko orr janne ki koshish kare. all d best!

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3. dear sir,

           main apne hi gaon ki ladki se pyar krta hu, hmne apne gharwalo ko apne bare me sab kuch bta diya h hmare surname alag h,
   lekin hmare ghar wale hmari shadi k liye nhi man rhe,

   agr hmne aisa kiya to unki smaj me badnami ho jayegi

   ladki k gharwalo ne muje bulaya, unhone muje samjhaya ki is bat ki jid chhod de.

   ye nhi ho sakta. unhone kha ki teri sister aisa krti to kya tum is bat ko man lete

   next year January me uski shadi kisi or se ho sakti h kyoki usk ghar wale use dhamki de rhe h ki agr wo shadi k liye nhi mani to muje or mere gharwalo ko mar denge

   ghar k phone par b lock lga diya h mujse bat b nhi krne dete the

   maine use chupa ke ek phone de rakha h jisse muje pta chalta rhe ki wo kya planning kar rhe h

   pls help me sir

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4. helo sir

   dis is sudhir of age 25 frm Ap i compltd my dgree .i m very passionate towords socity to serve people i m linkd wit an org called wake up world ! we go to orphanges n old age hmes n provide donors who r in need in blood. through dis org i met a gal she is like mind like me she is also linkd wit org cald change maker foundation frm kerla she wil hlep in blood requrmnts we bcame very gud frnds i like her way n everything i trust her i loved her but i dint propsd her 1 day my parnts boght propls to me i rejctd but they forcin fr dat propsl i told dem dat i m lovin 1 gal but i dint propsd den my parnts ask me to propos in front of dem dey forcd me propos. i cald n propsd she acptd aftr 2days same thing i told to my parnts den dey startd oposing me dat dey r n same cast n status. even i told her to tel her parnts in dir house also same

   she also love me a lot .we both dnt want make any1 sad we dont want to runaway .we want every 1 acptnce i dont want to lose her in my life. sir i want to convince my parnts mainly my mom. nw gal got 1propsl her parnts likd it nw she dnt want to go fr dat. sir pls can u tel me wat to do thank you sir

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5. mene to suna tha ki duniya mai pyar ke dushman bahot hai,                              par Aaj pata chala ki koi to hai jo pyar karne walo ko milata hai…….. Really sir  i’m proud of you ……… god  hamesa apke sath rahe……….. ……….. mene bhi pyar kia par mera pyar mujhe nahi mil sakta………. sorry sir me nahi bata sakta

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7. Here is something very serious and complex at the same time. There 6 lives connecting each other.

   My love, she loves me more than I do, but our parents hate each other’s family a lot. We are also in the same cast but still anyone can kill anybody or commit suicide (not me) anytime.

   They are going to get her married shortly, they have fixed the date even. Please help us get rid of all these. We are pressured a lot. Don’t know what to do. We want you guys to make them understand what a love relationship is.

   Please consider this as a serious matter and just don’t avoid. We have very less time. Please consult. Cant I call any number that can advise on this?

   NEED YOUR HELP GUYS. I KNOW YOU CAN DO IT AND ONLY YOU CAN DO IT NOW.

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8. Hi Love commandos,

   I am Khushi, 25yr old, from tyagi’s family, my lover partner is rajput. hum ek dusre ho bahut pasand krte h, his family is ready to accept me, maine apne ghar me uske liye baat ki to unhone mana kr diya because of intercast reason. My parents said intercast h humari samajh me kya izaat rah jayegi.. please help me vo kuch hi dino me mere sahdi kisi or se kar dege.. mom dad meri kuch nhi sun rahe, uski family ne bhi baat ki but mana kr diya..

   please love commando help us asap.

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   • hi khushi,

     ap apne parents ko samjhane ki koshish karte raho.agr ho sake to unke samne succesful intercaste love marriage ke examples rakho.last end tak unhe convince karne ki koshish karo.agr apke parents apko emotional blackmail karte hai to ap bhi vaisa hi karo, or finally agr koi option na rahe to court marriage karlo. agr apke boyfriend ki family support de rahi hai to unse continuously touch mei raho. ap himmat mat haro. all d best

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9. hi sir please i want 2 talk 2 u…..

   my sis tel abt ur organisation

   i just want that u solve my problem…plz

   i m frm gujarat and in love. i m from kutchi caste bt since last 2 year i m loving a boy of ahir caste.

   we r very close and love lots but  his family is against us due to caste problem they dnt allow him 2 merry me. bt i cant live without and he also…

   his parent emotionaly blackmailing him. and they decide his engage in his caste gal but he is not hapy frm last 3 days he is continuosly taking drink. i cant see him lyk that

   he told me for court merrage but i denie coz i hv 3 sis nd i m living in village i m the 1 st gal in my village that complete mca and i m also university topper we r from middle class family and my parents are also against with love merrage. what i have 2 do?

   his marriage is also gng 2 decide on next month. i just want him i tried bt i can’t live without him. i want that our parents happily arrange our merrage. sir i dnt have bro so my parent treat us like boys nd they do all thng for us they provide high education without caring for money…and hw can i go against them…plz help me urgent plz

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   • hi….

     mein iss organisation se to nahin hu… par gujarat se hu or tumhari problem dekh k lagta he k solution tumhare paas hi he bt reason is that  k ldka tumse kitna pyar karta he… tumne MCA kia he thats why lagta he k tum kafi samajdar hogi or university topper bhi tum apne family se baat karo agar wo raji nahi he to court marriage karlo  lekin tumhare pyar me itni sachai honi chahiye ke tum logo ka samna kar sako apne pyar par bharosa hona chahiye. Parents hame chahte hai hame padhate hai lekin unke pichhe bhi unka swarth hota he k humari life me kabhi problem na aaye hume kabhi un muskilo ka samna na karna pade jo unhone kiya heee .. lekin ye sab baate sayad kuchh saalon k baad samaj me aati he…….

     main to yahi kahunga k agar tumhe apne pyar par 110% bharosa he to wahi karna jo tumhara dil kehta he…..or tumhara dil kya kehta he wo to tumse behtar or koi nahi jan payega.. best of luck for your positive decision…….

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10. may good bless this lovecommandos nd they prosper day by day

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11. hello sir, sabse pehle apko bahot bahot thanks k ap log hum love birds k liye itna sab kar rahe ho.. i want to share my problem also wid you. mai jain hu aur jisse mai pyar karta hu wo brahman. meri lover k gharwale katter brahman ha. wo hmari shadi nahi hone denge, bt hum ek duje k bina nahi jee skte. hmare relation ko 2 year 8 months hogye ha. hum baalig bhi ho chuke ha. mera pura khandan janta ha abt us aur sath bhi ha, but hum ek dusre k bina nae reh pare. we want to marry as soon as possible. hume guidance chahiye aur protection bhi. ladki k ghrawalo ko hmara relation just as a friends pta ha aur meri image behadd solid ha unki najro me but meri caste ki prblem padegi jab unko sach pta chalega. plss help if u can…… i’ll wait for your reply.

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    • hi ankit ur problem is really complicated as ur lover is katter brahmin. but in life  ankit there is nothing impossible. if u try again and again, definetely u will convince ur lover parents. show ur love, respect and care towards ur lover in front of her parents. as u said apki image badi strong hai unki nazro mei to vo definitely aj nhi to kal man jayenge. orr agr apki family sath hai to vo apki help to karenge hi. agr ap dono balig hai to ap court marriage kar sakte hai, but mei apko yahi advice dungi ki ap ladki ki family ko convince karte rahiye. koshish karte rahiye, apko apki manzil zarur milegi. all d best!

      ankit jb safety ki baat ati hai to apse zyada apko koi protect nhi kar sakta, ap apni safety, security k liye kisi par depend nhi ho sakte, apko or apki lover ko self defence bhi ana chayiye.

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      • hii jaya… thanx for the rpl. i hope so k sb thek hoga hmare sath. mai dua karta hu k sabhi couples khush rahe. and yes meri image realy very strong ha. itni k unki mummy bato bato me kai bar keh chuki ha khud k kaash ankit brahmin hota.. but ye “kaash” hi to main problem ajati ha. chalo i’ll try my level best and well said k apni safety apne hath hoti ha. thnx for boosting my morale. hav a gud day

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12. dear sir….

    i want to discuss my prblm wid u nd request u to giv suitable ans.

    my age is 20, my parents found a match for me i resist vry mch, but dey donot agree wid me. dey said dat i hav 2 marry dat guy who is of age 30. i dont want 2 marry him nd told my paents dat i lov sm1 else, dey dnt agree wid me becoz my lover was of intercaste. nd now dey hav fixed my marriage in dec.

    my parents are vry nice in nature, but dey are not allowing me for love marriage.  plz tell me wat to do……..

    nd plz explian completely dat how can u help me, as i dnt want to hurt my parents too. 

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13. Saw what you guys are doing last week on CNN! Well done guys. People should choose who they want to marry and not be dictated upon by their parents. Time has changed.

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14. Just read about your organization on CNN homepage. I respect you guys for what you do and I am soo proud that something like this exists in India. You make a real difference in people’s lives and for the right reasons.

    Congratulations on building a truly great organization and wish you guys all the best!

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15. Keep up the good work guys!!

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16. hello…sir…congratulation for doing a great job..

    sir me ek momder ladke se pyar karti hu or wo bhi mujh se bhot pyar karta h ,uske parents humare relation k liye maan gae h per mere parensts nahi maan rahe h due to caste problem..plzzz help me..

     

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17. i have one problem me ek ladki se pyar karta hu,wo bhi muj se pyar karti he lekin ham dono ke ghar vale razi nahi he,aur meri sagai dusri jagah ho gai he.parme vaha vivah nahi kar na chahta,mere ghar vale bhi nahi man rahe,to kya iska hal milsake ga plz ans

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    • sameer tum already apni girlfriend se shadi kar chuke ho kyunki shadi ka matlab comitment hi hota hai. agr tum kisi or se shadi karoge to tum khud bhi dukhi rahoge or usse bhi dukhi rakhoge, koi khush nhi rahega, compromise mat karna. pyar karna or khushi pana tumhara haq hai, parents life mei bahut important hote hai lekin jeevansathi ki jagah apni alag hoti hai. apne haq ke liye apni family se zid karo, unhe convince karo, samjhao jitni barr ho sake utni barr, vo man jayegenge, apne pyar par vishvas rakho. apni partner se bhi kaho ki vo apni family ko samjhaye. Har mat manna or agr vo bahut zyada emotional blackmailing kar rahe hai to contact love commandos org. all d best. I pray that u get ur life partner

      love path is not easy my friend ,there are many difficulties u have to face for love.if u really love her,first believe in yourself and in ur love.convince her parents again and again.try to recognise what her parents likes and dislikes.try to impress them. u can do it .all is well ,all d best.

      believe in urself ,if u convince ur parents again and again they definitely listen to you.but talk about ur love matter only at right time. u know what ur parents like ,try to make them happy ,show ur care and love to them.first bring them in ur confidence and then discuss about ur love matter with them.talk very politely ,even if u r angry.try again and again.if ur boy friend family has no problem ,u can take help from them also.if they emotionally blackmail u its better take help of ngo.i pray that u get ur boy friend as ur life partner.all d best

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18. hi love comando i need ur hellp , plzz  help me

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19. sir me ak ldki se bhut pyar krta hu . lakin meri sadi koi or ke sth jbarjsti sadi krai he . or woh muje psand ni he. mere sirf me jise pyar keta hu us se hi sadi krni he to ab me kya kru ? plz. help me. kya me us ldki ke sth court marrige kr skta hu. uske liye kya krna hoga ?

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20. please help me otherwise this will be  a case of honour killing.please please help me sir.
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    Rizwan Qazi

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