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Love Commandos is a voluntary organization in India dedicated to helping India’s lovebirds who want to marry for love. We provide assistance in protecting couples, helping them fight harassment and giving them shelter so they can marry freely.

Mr. Sanjoy Sachdev
Chairman
Mr. Harsh Malhotra
Chief Co-Ordinator

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Helpline — 3,002 Comments

  1. Hi Ria,

    While reading your story I thought I am reading my own story.

    I am in the same situation. I am Hindu and my partner is Muslim. We know each other since childhood. Its more than 10 years now. We both are self dependent, but when my family knew about it, it was a nightmare. My mother got heart attack. They sent me to my aunt’s house so I can forget him. Also, took my phone away and did not allowed me to keep contact with anyone. But I was little bit lucky that after couple of months when I was allowed to go out I bought a small mobile phone and hid it. I used to contact him secretly and made sure the phone was always on silent – not even vibrating. It was hard but somehow I managed because of our great understanding. At last after all the mental harassment I had to say to my family that I forgot him and I am ready to marry whomever they want but before that I asked them to allow me to complete my post graduation. My boyfriend went overseas first on student visa, then after 1 year I went there for studying. My family did not knew that he was there. My parents trust me a lot and I feel sorry about it but no choice. Today we are married here legally for more than 1.5 years. His family is happy about it and I have not told my family yet. My mother thinks I am just studying here and keeps showing me boys and I keep rejecting. But now they are forcing me to select a boy and say yes for marriage, which I can’t obviously. SO I am in big dilemma that if my mother finds out about my marriage she will die. We are so happy here but I know my family will never understand that, for them society is everything. I feel sometimes that I should just die. But then what about my husband? He can’t live without me. And being with me would ruin my family. I don’t understand what to do. My partner is very caring and understanding. He has always supported me and was willing to wait for me for lifetime.

    I wish you good luck for your struggle. And pray that these situations never come in anyone’s life. It really hurts that our own parents don’t care for our happiness as they are tied with the wrong notions and worry about their name in the society.

  2. namakar sir , mein aditya brahmin boy from gorkhpur u.p. se sir mein ek ladki se pyaar karta hun and wo b muj se pyaar karti hai but wo obc hai and na toh mere gar waale is shaadi ko accpt kar rhe hai na hi uske gar waale sir mein kya karu …mera idhar koi support nai karta ….na toh mera koi frnd aage aata hai na hi relative and picle 9 months se hamri bhot kam hoti hai ku ki uske and mere gar walo ko hamra relation ke bbaare mein pta lag gya hai….so sir plz hlp me …hw cn i solve ds problem….my no is ##########

  3. sir i request you sir mera name devendra hai aur me bhopal me rehta hu aur yaha work time me mujhe ek ladki se pyaar ho gaya aur wo ladki bhi mujhse bahut pyaar karti hai aur hamare love ko 3 year ho gaye hai par jab ye baat ladki k ghar walo ko pata chali to wo ladki ko hamari city se apne ghar le gaye aur us baat ke liye 2 month ho gaye he usko gher me kaid ker rakha hua he ladki ke gherwale use tourcher aur emotionally blackmail karte he aur uske ssre contact band karke rakhe he.kal ladki ka unknown no se phone aaya tha, ladki ka mujhse kahna he aap kuch bhi kare per mujhe yaha se le jaaye me aapke sath rahna chahti hu nahi to me suicide ker lungi. sir me usse bahut pyaar karta hu aur usse shadi karna chahta hu. sir mene uske gherwalo se baat karne ki bahut koshish ki lakin wo log mujhse baat karne ko bhi taiyar nahi he mere gherwale hamari  shadi ke liye taiyar he lakin uske gherwale hamari shadi ke khilaf he hum dono hi OBC se belong karte he per samaj alag he. hum dono bahut problem me he hum ek dusre ke bina nahi rah sakte. sir please hamari help jaldi kijiye, nahi to ladki gherwale uski shadi forcefully kahi aur karwa denge. 

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  4. Sir,

    I’m Khusboo I am a madwari girl and I love a boy who is a Malyali Christian. We are in the relationship for more than 5 years now..since school times..And we want to settle down.. But my family is completely against it.. My parents are looking for guys for me and at times comes with proposals..I”m not liking it at all…They think that we are separated..But thats not true…The guy lives in KERALA and i stay in Kolkata..I really don;t know how to solve this..because many pandits have said that I should not marry him as my Kundali is not suitable for him…He might be in danger…I dont know what to do…I think probably killing myself is the only way out…

  5. sir i’m DEVENDRA AHIRWAR freom BHOPAL,sir m ek SC CAST KA ladka hu aur m ek OBC caste ki ladki se boht pyar krta hu jisse mene 07 june ko kayasth samaj mandir se loyer k samne documented shadi ki thi,sir mere aur uske ghrwale boht hi zyada shadi k against h.aur unhone meri wife ko b ghr me hi rkh liya aur uski SHADI kahin or karwane wale hai , sir plz meri help kijiye,m hamehsa apka thankful rhunga,sir apne boht logo ki help ki h,plz meri b help kijiye,plz sir jaldi se jaldi kuch kijiye,,apki boht meharbani hogi sir mera no hai ##########. pls pls help me.

  6. Hi,

    my name is faiz ansari, and i love a girl her name is farheen saifi , we both are from delhi. we had done court marriage on 24th july,2011. or hum shaadi ke baad apne apne ghar me hi reh rahe hai, ye soch ke ki hum apne apne ghar waalo ko mana lenge, mere ghar waale shaadi ke liye tyaar hai par uske ghar waale nahi maan rahe hai, unhe bus apni biraadri me hi shaadi karni hai , or ab uske saath jabardasti karne lage hai ki hum ladke ko maar denge and all agar kuch galat kadam uthaya to., please help us.

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  7. Dear Sir/Madam

    mera naam Sandeep Kumar hai main ek ladki se pyar karta hu aur shadi karna chahta hu wo bhe mujhse shadi karna chahte hai par uske ghar wale nahe razi hai uske ghar walo ko kaise samjhaya jaye humlog bihar k sasram se belong karte hai yaha logo ki soch he ulti hai hum bhut musibat me hai uske pariwar wale jabarjasti uski shadi kahe ayr karna chahte hai jald se jald aur hum bhag kaar shadi nahe karna chahte hum chahte hai ki marji se ho taki sab khush rahe ise hamare samaj me bhut badlaao aa sakta hai so please help us.

  8. i am deepanshu. i m hindu but my girlfriend is muslim… sir unke ghar waalo ko pta chal gya h ki wo mujhs baat krti h or uske ghar walo ne uska phn bhi chin liya. meri baat nai ho pa rahi usse.. unke ghar walo ne mujse baat ki ti or kaha ki hum tumhari syaadi kreo denge..or fir baad m mna ke diya.. hum dono 18+ h.. sir m bahut preshan hu kuch kro na pls…. m delhi rehta hu or meri gf uttra predesh ki h moradabad ki or uska name eram hayad h… sir mera contct no h ##########, ##########

  9. Hello Team,

    I hearty appreciate to the whole team and I am very glad to have an organization like this. As Mr. Sanjay Sachdev thinks that only LOVE can change the fate of this country. I am very impressed with this. I too agree with this. I am very much interested to educate people about the concept Religions. I treat this as a weapon that used to fight with society.

    I will come to the point. I am in love with my friend and we are relationship for more than two years. I am a Muslim guy and the girl is from Hindu religion. We never had any problem with religion in our relationship. But when it went to our families it became a very big issue. Personally both the families like each other. But they are not agreeing for the marriage. I fought with my family and finally could convince them. But girl is helpless. She doesn’t have any body to support her. I tried to convince her parents but they didn’t agree. They forced her to marry to some other guy in their religion. Finally that girl got ready to marry to that guy on her parents force. They blackmailed her that they will die if she takes any step. I need your help to fight with their family. I have my family support today but not girls support. I want to fight with this society to prove that loving another religion’s girl is not a crime but it is good. Please help me sir. I beg you.

  10. sir i’m rahul sharma freom JPR,sir m ek bramin ladka hu aur m ek SC caste ki ladki se boht pyar krta hu jisse mene 13 march ko arya samaj me shadi ki thi,sir mere family wale shadi se agree h,pr meri wife ke ghrwale boht hi zyada against h.aur unhone meri wife ko b ghr me hi rkh liya aur shayad uski job b chudwa denge sir m apko meri shadi ka cirtificate b attach kr rha hu,sir plz meri help kijiye,m hamehsa apka thankful rhunga,sir apne boht logo ki help ki h,plz meri b help kijiye,plz sir jaldi se jaldi kuch kijiye,,apki boht meharbani hogi sir

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  11. mera nam Rahul h or maine apni gf se marriage kr li h ab hmare pas rehne ko ghr nai h bht tym ho gya apni wife ko idhr udhr dhke khilate hue vo pregnent h plzz hmari hlp kro hmne apne maa bap se alg hokr marrg ki h vo ab hme rakhna nai chahte plzz hlp ##########

  12. i am in love with a guy who is SC. and i m from a brahmin family. Our families are ready for our relation. But my family don’t want a normal marriage, they want to me to get married in court as they don’t want to face this stupid samaj and duniya daari. But Guy’s family wants a normal marriage like barat and all. they are not asking for money. but want an arrangement like an arrange marriage. i m ready for everything.. but from where can i arrange my relatives who are not ready to join my marriage. help me. make them understand. 

  13. I am Urvashi from Assam. I have a Boy friend named Sachin from Himachal Pradesh. We are in relation from last 5 years. We are living together like Husband and wife. We studied together. I have been to his home. They all likes me.
    But When he told about our relation to his parents. They are not agreeing as I am 3 years elder to him. His mom is saying she will forget that she had a son if he married me.

    He is not able to make them understand. We both are working. We dont have any problem in our relation.

    We want to marry each other. Can you people help us and make his parents understand

  14. m sc cateogry se belong krta hu or m ek ladki se bhut pyar krta hu jo genral cateogry se h m us se sadhi krna chata hu par koi rasta dikhayi nhi deta plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz meri help kro

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  15. mera naam Amit h.mein SC category  se belong karta hu aur jis ladki se mein pyaar karta hu vo OBC se belong karti h. hum ek rural area se h. hum dono ek dosre se shaadi karna chahte h. please help us.

    hamare family members agree nahi h. contact no ##########

  16. hello!

    mera naam sarfraj hai. delhi me rehta hu or muslim priwar se hu. mai ek ludki se pyar kurta hu jo hindu family se hai.
    hum dono sadi kurna cahtey hai lekin kuch smjh nhi ata kesey krey. hum apni sadi ke baad ye nhi cahtey ki hum dono ke priwar ke bich koi legal problem na aye jesey koi police case ya us ludki ko koi or problum ho ya mere ghur walon ko. kya koi humari help kur skta hai.

    sarfraj

    delhi

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