1. Dear Sir,

   Need help. We both are legally allowed to marry but my parents are pressuring me to not to marry with my love. They threatening me that they will approach my workplace and will beat me. Also threatening that they will catch the girl to make her learn a lesson. My parents are orthodox Hindu.

   I know my legal rights and I can take stand for myself strongly but if you help us then we’ll get moral support. Also, may be if 3rd party speaks with my parents legally may be they’ll understand and relations can be saved.

   Thanks

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2. सर मैं रजनीश कुमार शिवम, बिहार, सीतामढ़ी से, मैं 4 फरवरी को अपनी प्रेमिका को ले कर घर से चले गए थे, 1 महीना कर बाद उसके घर से बात हुई कि घर से शादी होगी अब, तो मैं उन्हें वाइफ को रिटर्न किया था, अब उसके पापा नही मान रहे हैं, बहुत प्रॉब्लम क्रिएट कर रहे हैं, प्लीज सर हेल्प मी ##########

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3. Sir/mam, mera naam Kajal h. m pichle 10 saal s relationship m hu. vo ldka bhi mjhe bht pyar krta h. problem ye h ki aj s kuch time phle vo bina kisi ki rajamandi k mjhse sadi krne k liye taiyar tha, sucide bhi attempt kr liya tha. mere maan n k bad sb acha chl rha tha, ham sadi krne vale the, achanak usne apni maa s baat ki, unhone bola esa kuch hua to m mar jaungi, ab vo ldka piche hat rha h. m bht presan hu. vo maa k pressure m akar ye fesla le rha h… mjhe btae m kya kru, m bht stress m hu, ek baar panic attack bhi a chuka h…

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4. Sir, mai 1 ldke se pyaar krti hu, wo vi pyaar krta h.. pr uske ghar wale sadi ke liye ni mane or parampara ke nam se usko bandh diya.. ghar wale bole ki sadi agr hui to alag rhna pdega.. or uske gao me gao wale uske paribar ke sath bura krenge.. isliye wo sadi se mna kr diya.. or maine vi gusse me aa kr maine vi kuch glt kr diya h q ki tb mujhe ye sab pta ni thi.. Sir hum dono ki jindegi bht bure hal me h.. Please help me

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5. सर में एक लड़की से प्रेम करता हु, वो भी करती है, हम 4 साल से जानते है एक दूसरे को पर लड़की का बोलना है कि उसकेघर वाले बोल दे तो हि करुँगी ओर उसका भाई हम दोनो के बीच मे आता है, मुझे लगता है वो उसको डरता है, में क्या करूँ, कोई हेल्प करो, मेने उसके भाई से बात करने के लिए कॉल किया पर उसने मुझे गली गलोच की इस लिए मैने कुछ नही बोला, कृपया आप मुझे कोई हेल्प करे

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6. Dear sir, mera naam Preeti h, me Jitender naam k ladke se love krti hu. hm ek dusre ko 3.5 years se jaante h, hm dono ki age 23 se upar hai, vo Gujjar h or me Karan Rajpoot. Jitender ne mujhse shaadi ka promise kiya tha, vo bhi mujhse bht pyar krta, mene usse bola tha agr sath de sko to hi shaadi ka promise krna or uske ha krne k baad hi mene apne office me or apni mummy se baat ki thi ki me or Jitender ek dusre se shaadi krna chahte h, vo mere office bhi aata tha isly sbko hmare relation or shaadi k baare me pta tha, hm dono bht khush the, Jitender k dosto ko bhi shaadi ka pta tha, hm dono k friends hmari shaadi karwana chahte h, Jitender ne apni mummy se baat ki to vo bhi agree ho gyi, lekin Jitender k papa nhi h, vo 8 saal ki age se apne mama or chacha k ghar me rha h isly uske mama or chacha uski life k saare fesle lete h or uske mama or chacha ne hmari shaadi k liye mna kr diya jisse ki mujhe bahut logo k taane sunne pad rhe hai, log bolte h kya hua tumhari shaadi ka, Jitender k chacha mama maane ya nhi

   is tarah k taano se me paresaan aa chuki hu, Jitender ko uske chacha or mama ne bahut mara bhi tha, Jitender ne unko bahut samjhaya lekin vo nhi maan rhe or un dono ne mujhe or Jitender ko jaan se maarne ki dhamki di h, bar bar Jitender ko bolte h pehle tujhe goli maar denge fir us ladki k ghar jaake usko maar denge. uske gharwale mujhe na maar de is darr se Jitender piche hat rha h jbki mere pas is baat k saboot h jb usne bola tha ki me tumse shaadi krna chahta hu. Jitender mujhse shaadi krna chahta h lekin pressure me h ki jinhone mujhe pala unki baat kese mna kr du. sir mujhe smjh nhi aa rha hm dono shaadi krna chahte h lekin kya kru, Jitender ko 2 baato ka darr h, ek to jinhone pala unse shaadi ki zidd kru riste khrab honge or ghar se nikaal denge or hm dono k pas abhi koi ghar bhi nhi h, dusra vo shaadi krna chahta h par darr h ki gharwale hm dono ko jaan se maar denge. mene Jitender ko bola h tu mera sath de de me khus sb sambhaal lungi. Sir please help me. me bahut taane sun chuki hu, log mzaak bna rhe h mera jo mujhse bardast nhi ho rha, isly mene suside krne ka socha h or apna suside note likh kr rkh diya h. Sir jinko shaadi krni h vo ready the, ladke or ladki ki mummy bhi ready h to ladke k chacha or mama ko kya hak h ki vo hmari khusiyan cheen le. plz help me

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7. Hi sir I’m looking to have a personal chat with you, kindly mail me, I don’t want to disclose the problem

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8. Sir mai Bareilly U.P mai rhti hu or mai jisse pyr krti hu wo Punjab mai rhta h, humre age ho chuki h shaadi h baki upr hi h, uske ghrwalo ne ha krdi h lekin mere ghrwale mujhe mentently preshan kr rhe h k samaj mai kya izzat rah jygi, biradhari kya kahegi, rishtedar kya kya kahnge, age ka vanash khrb ho jyga, koi kisi se shaadi ni krega, mere bhn se uska jivan khrb ho jyga or bhai jisne mera sath dene ka vada kiya tha lekin mere bhai ne kuch supprt ni kya ulta mujhe dhamki di ki agar kisi ne mujhse kch kaha mai tujhe maar dunga or use bi jabki mera bhai mujhe bht chota h, meri mmy mujhe bht jyda mentely preshan kr rhi h, mujhe use se shaadi krni h, mujhe jan bujhkar ladke dekhaye ja rhe h taki mai apne pyr ko bhul jau or unki mrzi se shaadi kru taki unki izzat bani rhe, emotionaly drma kya ja rha h, mere liye marna hi hogya h, mera bf or uski famly bht Sidhi h, sir mai ghr mai kaid hu, jbse maine btya h tbse sbka behavr alag h, meri maa had se jyda hi gnda bolti h, aise shrap deti h jaise khud hi bhagwan h, sir mera koi irada ni h izzat kam krne ka isliye maine ajtk koi glt kam ni kya, maa baap se bt hi ki lekin ab mmy kch jyda hi ovr react kr rhi h, mai apne apko marna jyda acha samjh rhi hu, izzat bani rhgi or shaadi bhn ki bi ho jygi, rishtdr bne rhnge, sb rhga

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   • Sir mera nam Aradhna Bhrdwaj h or mai UP Bareilly mai rhti hu, or mai ek ldke se pyr krti jo Pnjb mai rhta h, sir hum pichle 7 salo se reltioship mai h or shadi krna chahte h, lekin mere ghr wale ni man rhe h bcoz wo pure hi purane zamne k hai, do bar bat kr chuki hu or mujhe marne ki dhamki di ja rhi h, mai usi se shadi krna chahti hu or wo bi… Sir maine apka progrm dekha tha tbse ap bhgwan bn gye h mere liye, hum jaise lovers k liye, sir meri age 28 h or by profession mai teacher bnbe ja rhi hu, or mera bf MCA kiye h, age 30, nam Manish Verma h, or wo as Account compny mai job krta h, lekin mere mmy papa ko ye rishta manjur nhi h, unke liye birdari izzat hi sbkch h, mai ghr se bhag k shaadi krna ni chahti bcoz usse jyda izzat jygi, behtr hoga k mere mmy papa maan jaye… or meri uski shaadi krde, mujhe marne se shyd inko hal mil jye, jay izzat tb bi jni hi h, isliye maine socha k mai khud hi sucide krlu, jb ye kch sunne ko taiyr nhi, apse reqst h ap plzz ek br apni team ko lekr aye bs, sir samjhye jaise apne progrm mai samjhaya tha, meri mmy bht hi purani soch ki h or mere papa pde likhe h, teacher hi h KVS mai hi lekin unki aise soch dekh kr hairani hoti, ab mmy pa chahte h k mai job bi na kru, mujhe ghr mai kaid kr rkha h, plzzzx sir meri hlp kriye warna bht der hojygi

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9. Harish Chandra from Chandigarh

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10. Hlo sir
    I am a boy from Haryana. I am in love with a girl. We both are Hindu but with different caste. Her parents have started emotionally blackmailing her regarding love affairs. So usko lagta h k hmari shaadi future m nhi ho paegi islie hum alag ho jae. But vo mujhse bhot pyar karti h. vo na mujhe khona chahti h na apne parents ko. to vo patents k lie meko keh rahi h k hmara koi future nhi h kuki uske mumma papa shaadi k lie ready nhi hoge in future to hum abbi alag ho jae. I need your suggestion sir k m usko kese smjhau. Please help me sir.

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11. Sir, mai ek lrki se love krta hu aur marriage krna chahte h hm dono … wo v mujhe bahut love krti h but uske parents abhi forcely uski shaadi kahi aur kra rhe h against her will… Plz tell me sir what we can do .. we both are 18+ and as an adult citizen we have our own rights to chose our life partner.. sir help us please

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12. itne comments hi ek bhi solutions nikla… nhi na… castism ke saamne kuch nhi chlta
    …..

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13. Dear sir, i am Chetan Sharma from Chittorgarh, Rajasthan. me or ladki saath me court me clerk the. mere papa bahut problem creat kr rhe h. marne or maarne ki dhamki de rhe h. mummy, sister, jiya ji sb hamari shaadi ke liye ready hai lekin mere papa ki vjh se drte h isliye unke saamne bol nhi pa rhe. sir ham shaadi karna chahte hai. help karo sir

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14. Sir mera nam Rajni hai, mai teacher hu, 5 sal se privet job kar rhi hu, mai Yogesh se our o muzse bhut pyar krte h, o bhi techar hai, ham shaadi krna chahte h, dono ek hi cost ke h, pp mmi sbhi ko btaya, dono ne unki family kush h but mere pp ne promis krne par o muze nhi samj rhe qki Yogesh ke pas govt job our property nhi bas ek ghar h our plat h, par hm dono shaadi krna chahte h leki teacher hone ke karn koi glt kdm nhi uthana chahte, sir ap hi btaye mai ky kru, plz help me

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15. Hello, my name is Prerana. I am from Kolkata. I will be turning 18 on May, this year. I have been having a relationship with an 19 year old guy, but our family is very strict and doesn’t let me go out/ meet him or any other friend in any way. I’m always escorted by my parents, be it to school or tuition, after they learned that I was in love with him. I have heard and checked that live in is legal in India after 18, since he hasn’t yet turned 21. So, I want to escape and stay with him after my 18th birthday. But, I’m really scared of what my parents would do, after that. I seek advice to proceed further in this plan. Please, help me. I’m regularly tortured at my parent’s home. After going out, we both plan on doing jobs to sustain ourselves. He already has been doing job for an year now, to make savings after I turn 18. I haven’t seen him for over an year now, and lost all my friends also due to my parent’s obsessive protection. They insult me everyday and even beat me at times even though I’m really good at studies and I have never hurt them in any way. If this continues, I’m not sure whether I will be able to live on.

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16. Hi…

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17. Hindu girls and Muslim boy love marrage kar sakte he kya

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18. Sir i am a defence personnel…. me and my life is in serious relationship since 12 yrs… She belongs to Brahmin family nd i am from Rajput…. sir plzz help us, my parents r agree but her dad is nt being agree….

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19. I am 27 and my boyfriend is 27. In a relationship since 2017.
    I am a Hindu and my boyfriend is a Muslim.
    I have 1 elder sister, father and mother who have agreed for me to get married to him.
    His family is against inter-caste and very very strict. We really wanna get married. Please help us.

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20. Sir hum bhot paresan hai.. mn marne ka kar raa hai, hum ak ladki se bhot pyar karte hai, vo bhi karti hai but mere ghr vale kahi or shaadi kara rhe rhe hai or uske ghr vale bhi kara rhe hai or to or.. vo bol rhi hai mujhe lekar kahi or chliya, ak sabhya nagrik hone k kard hum ye kadam nhi uthana chahte or usko chorna bhi nhi chahte hai hum, vo boli lekar chliye varna hum jaan dedenge, hum 1 year se reletion maim hai, sir plix help mi varna jan dena hoga, koi saport nhi hai

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