Terms and Conditions

  1. For general counseling and guidance please call between 11AM to 7 PM. However in emergencies you can call 24X7.
  2. Please note that your emails and calls may be attended or seen by different persons in the organization. While calling, you may be required to share some details each time.
  3. Couples wishing to get married please email scanned copies of your age proof and address proof of both of you to .
  4. The couples intending to marry must have their Age Proof and Address Proof with them. The bride should be 18+ and the bridegroom 21+ in age.
  5. The couples have to bear actual expenses on their lawful marriages, intimation to authorities and families through official departments, legal process, protection process, process for cancellation of FIR/MPR etc.
    प्रेमी-प्रेमिकाओं को कानूनी दस्तावेज़ों (वकील की फ़ीज़, कोट का खर्चा और कागज़ों के पैसे), वैध स्थान पर शादी, तत्काल पंजीकरण, सुरक्षा प्रक्रिया एवं प्रतिवेदन, मुकदमा रद्दीकरण, अदि पर आने वाला वास्तविक खर्च खुद ही वहन करना होता है। हमारे शेलटरों में किसी भी समय तक नीतिओं (नियमों) के अनुकूल रहना, भोजन आदि मुफ़्त है।
  6. There is no COURT MARRIAGE, as there is no law that allows a court to conduct ceremonies, however, some advocates befool lovers. Please remain cautious.
  7. Marriage must be got performed at a lawfully valid place because all the temples or Arya Samaj etc. are not treated valid due to various directions by the Hon’ble High Courts of Delhi, MP, Punjab & Haryana, Rajasthan etc. A marriage at a lawfully valid place may be got registered, however, it is not mandatory as the proposed law is Pending before the Hon’ble Parliament since 2005-06. Love Commandos helps you get married at a lawfully valid place.
  8. Inter Caste marriages do not require the provisions of Special Marriage Act (SMA).
  9. Even if some people undergo SMA marriage permissions under Section 13, they need to comply with provisions of Section 4 also.
  10. Inter religious marriages with lawful conversion do not require SMA.
  11. As a matter of policy we do not interact with parents of anyone. We have faith and belief in our Constitution, Resolutions of Parliament and Guidelines of Hon’ble Supreme Court of India.
  12. Please understand that you should not waste your energies in convincing your parents or families, particularly when you know their mindset of being anti-lover, religious or caste-wise fundamentalists or hardliners, as it may endanger your lives and liberty. Lovers should have the courage and commitment to spend the lives together.
  13. The Parliament had way back in October 1978 omitted the provision of Guardianship in marriages, our great constitution guarantees marriage by choice of both, the Hon’ble Supreme Court has given detailed guidelines to promote Inter caste and inter religious marriages in Criminal Appeal No. 958/2011. It has also directed for prosecution of such persons opposing such marriages under the legal provisions.
  14. All Our 7 shelters in Delhi and NCR and other make shift shelters in other parts of the country are free for stay, food and emergencies.
  15. Minors and non-earning / unemployed couples should please excuse us.
  16. As a matter of policy, mobile and internet communication of the love couples or victim(s) is not allowed during the stay in any of the shelters. No communication will be allowed with those parents opposing such love relationship. In emergencies parents can call helpline numbers after which a decision will be taken on the merit of each case and submissions by the parents.
  17. Couples seeking help from us should never inform about their movement to their families, relatives and friends for reasons of their own security and that of other love couples at our shelters. Couples found having done so can be turned out of the shelter/ make shift shelter at any time as their continuance may be dangerous for other Love Couples.

 

Comments

Terms and Conditions — 61 Comments

  1. Good afternoon team
    As I need ur help, I m bank manager, my age is 26 and my gf age is 23 .. but she is from other caste, her family is threatening her …

    Plz help

    Reply ↓

  4. My name Iz Harshita Pandey
    My bf name is Utkarsh Mishra….. Utkarsh ne apne family ko mana liya h ur maine apne family ko bataya toh vo maan nhi rhe h, mujhase mera phn le liya gya h ur mujhe ghar se bahar jane ki permission bhi nahi hai, meri padhayi aur coaching bhi band karwa di hai, mtlb mujhe kahen bhi bahar nhi jane dete h, ur main uske bina nhi rah skti hu .. mere usase kabhi bhi shaadi nhi karenge, jb maine kaha maine police protection lungi toh mujhase kaha ki police se nipat lunga lekin unse shaadi nhi karunga, reason ye de rhe h vo km biswa ke h, ulta rista h, lekin maine apni caste ke insaan se pyaar kiya h phir bhi itna problm, pls sir maine sabse help maagi hai lekin kisi ne sath nahi diya, agar ho ske to pls meri help kijiye wrna mere paas suicide ke alava koi option nahi hai, physically aur mentally dipressed hu, 5 yrs se hm dono pyaar karte hai aur m uske bina nahi jee skti
    aur agar mere papa jaldi hi nahi maane to Utkarsh ke daddy uski shaadi kahi aur kar denge, unke daddy ne mujhe apne parents ko manane ka tym diya h last date 25 Dec 2019 hai, pls sir help me Please
    Age ka koi issue nahi hai
    My original DOB – 22 Jan 1999
    And adharcard DOB – 19 Sep 1999
    And Utkarsh’s Original DOB – 12 April 1999
    And adharcard DOB – 15 Feb 2001
    Pls sir hm log kya kare help kijiye, pls sir wrna n apni jaan de dungi agar uski shaadi kahi aur hui to
    main uski age adhar pe complete hone tak ka wait kr lungi shaadi ke liye, bas kaise bhi mere parents maan jaye aur hamari marriage fix kar de, shaadi hm log age complete ke baad kar lenge, pls help us
    unke paas fake adhar bhi hai jispe uski age complete hai, main apko pics send kar di hai … aur mere family wale kah rahe hai ki agar maine Utkarsh se shaadi ki to wo log suicide kar lenge, pls sir meri help kijiye pls

    Reply ↓

    • Dear Harshita Pandey

      hum aapki prem ki bhavna ki kadar karte hain. halanki aap dono balig hain (18+) parantu kanoon ke mutabik shaadi ke liye ladki ki umar 18 ya us se adhik honi chahiye aur ladke ki umar 21 ua us se adhik honi chahiye. aapko samajhna hoga ki abhi ladke ki umar 21 se kam hai aur vivaah yogya umar nahin hai. kanoon aapko abhi shaadi ke liye ijazat nahi deta hai. aap dono ko ladke ki 21 ki umar ka hone tak pratiksha karni hogi. is dauraan agar aap dono mein se kisi ke bhi gharwale jabran shaadi karvana chahein to aap hamein suchit kar sakte hein. us samay un ke khilaaf kanuni karyavahi karne ki avashaykta hogi. tab tak ke liye aap dono ke prem ke liye shubhkamnayen. aapko email aur phone par bhi yh soochna di ja chuki hai.

      हम आपकी प्रेम की भावना की कद्र करते हैं। हालाँकि आप दोंनो बालिग़ (18+) हैं परन्तु क़ानून के मुताबिक शादी के लिए लड़की की उम्र 18 या उस से अधिक और लड़के की उम्र 21 या उस से अधिक होनी चाहिए। आपको समझना होगा कि अभी लड़के की उम्र 21 से कम है और विवाह योग्य उम्र नहीं है। क़ानून आपको अभी शादी के लिए इजाज़त नही देता है। आप दोनों को लड़के की 21 की उम्र का होने तक प्रतीक्षा करनी होगी। इस दौरान अगर आप दोंनो के घरवाले आप दोंनो में से किसी की भी जबरन शादी करवाना चाहें तो आप हमें सूचित कर सकती हैं। उस समय उन के खिलाफ कानूनी कार्यवाही करने की आवश्यकता होगी। तब तक के लिए आप दोंनो के प्रेम के लिए शुभकामनाएँ। आपको यह जानकारी ईमेल और फोन पर भी दी जा चुकी है।

      We appreciate the feelings of love. Although both of you are adults (18+) but as per the law, to be of marriageable age the girl should be 18 or more years of age and the boy should be 21 or more years of age. You should understand that the boy’s age is below 21 and as per law he is not of marriageable age. Both of you need to wait till the age of the boy is 21 plus. In the meanwhile if parents of anyone attempt to forcibly marry the boy or girl, please feel free to contact us. A legal action would need to be taken at that time. Best wishes for your committed love till that time.

      Please read our policy on the above Terms and Conditions page http://www.lovecommandos.org/terms/ and ensure that you fulfill all requirements for marriage.

      Team Love Commandos

      Reply ↓

  5. Sir.. What if someone is doing a job but have to elope for getting married. Don’t that person will loose his/her job, I am really confused regarding this and want help. I know that it’s very important to have a job because no one will be there for lifetime help to us. But at that moment we will have to leave the place and the job. How to dealt with this matter sir. Please help me, i am unemployed and have a girlfriend, we want to get married. I want a job but this question is continuously trickling my head. How can i make my self stable for her, our future.

    Reply ↓

  9. Sir…
    My friend is in love with Muslim girl & he is Hindu. They want marry each other.. So plz help us … So manny problem they are facing this time… My friend is not complete age 21, he is 19 years old …..

    Reply ↓

  10. hi. i recently heard about Love Commandos. i (am 24 yrs, Punjabi) used to work in pvt company but then when my parents came to know i love a Malyali guy (who is 24 yrs) and is presently working in pvt company, i was taken back to my hometown. i want to get married to the guy whom i love but my parents are not agreeing for it. my parents are orthodox. could please provide us some advise because i am now being forced to get married which i am not ready for. if you could also provide me all the details how much expenses we will incur to seek your help and also the lawyer’s fees.

    Reply ↓

  11. Sir… app log support kesse karte hai. Kya app log couples ke ghar aakar batt karte hai? Or kya app log police ko bhee sumjhate hai. Kyuki city ki police bhee couples ke against ho jati hai. Or constitution ko follow nahi karti.. app kesse kesse help karte hai.. please give me a answer in brief. By the way i appreciate your group. You r doing a great thing. We all new generation youngsters all are love and appropriate you.. ab practical chizzo par hai ajj ki new generation… analyse karte hai sochte hai. Sahe decision lete hai. Or phir kuch kar neekalte hai… mangannat kahaniyo ke based par nahi leti decisions ki generation…. bus sabse badi problem hai. Parents or unke baccho ke beech bahoot gap aa chuka hai.. gap toh suru se he thaa…. but abb baccho ko gap deekhne laga hai… ki kya sahe hai or kya galat.. tabhi abb India ka name hai …. MAKE IN INDIA

    Reply ↓

  12. Hello sir/mam,
    How r u?
    Actually i love a girl but problem is that she is Muslim and i m Hindu and our family will never allow us to marry together,
    We both are 22+
    Can u please help us and tell us the full procedure of love and court marriage and full cost of marriage, we have some savings and after marriage we both will do job,
    Thnku

    Reply ↓

  14. Hello sir,
    Mera naam Shaan hai nd mai Muslim hu, mari girlfriend Punjabi hai, hum dono legally mature hai, hum dono 6 yrs se relationship mai hai, hum dono shaadi karna chate hai lakin humhare ghar wale nhi manege, aap humari kis tarah help kr sakte hai jisse hum dono ko future mai Koi problem na ho. Please help us sir.

    Reply ↓

  15. Sir am Abhinav of 20 yes and I love someone. unki v age 20 saal h… sir mjhe itna janna h ki mai avi shaadi kr skta hu ya ni… sir uski shaadi forcefully fix kr di gyi h…. sir mai kru

    Reply ↓

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed.