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Love Commandos is a voluntary organization in India dedicated to helping India’s lovebirds who want to marry for love. We provide assistance in protecting couples, helping them fight harassment and giving them shelter so they can marry freely.

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  1. Hi Sir,
    I want to marry a girl who loves me. Both of us are 23 years of age and want to get marry. My parents are ready for this marriage but her parents are against it. We belong to different caste and her parents are threatening to kidnap her. They are forcing her to marry some other guy or they will beat her and kill her. They are not ready to talk with me or my family. We are going through depression and are worried for our safety. Every time her phone rings aur someone knock at door we get scared for our lives. We are not sure what to do. If we get married then they will surely kill us. We are under so much depression that we are considering suicide also. Please help us. We will be grateful for whole our lives. Please help us.

  2. सर मेरा नाम ऋषभ है और में एक लड़की से प्यार करता हूँ, वो मुझसे 4 साल बड़ी है और उसकी शादी हो चुकी है। पर हम दोनों एक दूसरे से प्यार करते है। उसके और उसके पति के बीच में कोई पति पत्नी वाला रिश्ता नही है, वो भी नही रहना चाहती उसके साथ, वो मुझसे बोलती पहले तुम अपने पैरों पर खड़े हो जाओ फिर चलेंगे पर तब तक वो बहुत परेशान होगी जो मैं नही देख सकता, आप कुछ उपाय बताए, बहुत उम्मीद से आपको ये मेसेज भेज रहा हूँ

  3. sir i am in big paroblam, sir jse serial m krte h kya vse real life me bhi hota h, sir mera no. ###########, ho ske to apka no. dena

  4. Hello sir..
    My Name is Neelam, mai Delhi ke Dwarka se hu, sir mai ek ladke se pyar karti hu wo bhi Delhi me hi rehta hai. Meri age 23 hai or uski bhi 23 hai, problem ye hai ki uske gharwale to hamari marriage ke liye ready hai but mere ready nahi hai or wo maanege nahi because of caste system, mai Bihar se hu chhote caste se or wo Garhwali hai or Rajput hai, mai bhi chahti hu ki mere parents maan jaye or hamari shaadi dhoom dham se karwa de, please help sir unhe manane me mujhe aplogo ki help chahiye, mai unke ashirwad se shaadi karna chahti hu or wo kisi bade ke samjhane se shayad maan bhi jayege isliye mujhe ap logo ki help chahiye. please reply dein..

    Thank you sir

  5. Sir- I am Hindu and my lover is Muslim. She is studying and sitting 10th class final exam. We both love each other. Her exam will end on March 20th 2018. Her father threats us that he would kill us if we meet anywhere. So my partner and I want to marry and go away. So plz Help us. hume 20th March ke din vag jana parega. So my dear sir plz help us.

    Sir please 15 din rehne ka intejam kardijiye …… fir sob kuch thik ho jayega plz help me sir. ……

    Sachdeb sir my grandfather plz help me……

    Sir plz kuch to way bataiye… use ekdin uska maa mara fir vi bo ajvi chup chupke milti hai … kehti hao kuch karne… Maine use samjhaya jindegime parai karna bohut jaruri hai.. bo meri bat man liye lekin usne hume kaha 10th class exams ho jane ke bad vag jayenge ..
    Maine use bachan diya ..
    Abhi bo roja rakhta hai sirf pyar le liye .. plz sir uplog kuch kijiye …. plz … 20th March ke din is hell se nikalne ki bandobast karo plz…. Plz..

    Mere pas Amir ji ka Phone no rehte to mai unka bhi madat manglete… lekin mujhe ye varosa hai ke uplog hume niras nahi karenge….

    • Dear Samrat Gantait

      We appreciate the feelings of love. Though you have not mentioned the age of both of you, and since she is appearing in class 10th exams, it appears that she is a minor and not of marriageable age. You need to wait till she is 18 plus. In the meanwhile if parents of anyone attempt to forcibly marry the boy or girl, please feel free to contact us. A legal action would need to be taken at that time. Best wishes for your committed love till that time.

      हम आपकी प्रेम की भावना की कद्र करते हैं. आपने अपने दोंनो में से किसी की भी उम्र नहीं लिखी है परन्तु ऐसा प्रतीत होता है कि लडकी की उम्र 18 से कम है क्योंकि अभी उस ने दसवीं की परीक्षा देनी है. आपको उस के 18 की उम्र होने तक प्रतीक्षा करनी होगी. इस दौरान अगर आप दोंनो के घरवाले आप दोंनो में से किसी के भी जबरन शादी करवाना चाहें तो आप हमें सूचित कर सकते हैं. उस समय उन के खिलाफ कानूनी कार्यवाही करने की आवश्यकता होगी. तब तक के लिए आप दोंनो के प्रेम के लिए शुभकामनाएँ.

      Please visit the FAQ page at http://www.lovecommandos.org/faq/ and ensure that you fulfill all requirements for marriage.

      Team Love Commandos

  6. Sir I’m Shuaib n I’m 22 years old
    I love a girl, she is 21 years old. We love each other but matter is that I’m Muslim n she is Hindu. Her family came to know n she was beaten n as I think any accident can happen any time. So pls help us n bless us. thank you..!!

  7. Gd evening sir. please help me. Respected Sir. mai Neetu Kumari, Kanpur se, sir mai Rajiv Kumar se bahut pyar krti hun aur wo bhi krte h. lekin unki faimly hamari marriage ke liye agree nhi h. Rajiv Kumar UP Police me h. unki posting Pratap Garh me hai. agr unhone mujhse marriage nhi ki to mai suside krlungi. please help me

    • Good morning Sir, aapne reply kiya uske liye thanku, sir aapne meri age punchi thi, my dob h 21-06-1982 and mobile no ########## h. aur Rajiv ki age bhi same he h. aaj Rajiv bolte the ki mai faimly ko agree kr lunga, ab bol rhe ki tum kahi aur marriage kr lo. lekin mai kisi ko dhokha nhi de skti. mai pyar Rajiv se krti hun, shaadi kisi aur se kaise kr skti hun. Sir Rajiv unmarried h aur mera divorse ho chuka h. Rajiv ji jante the ki mai married hun fir bhi wo bhi mujhe love krte h. Sir mere pass ab koi rasta nhi. mere pass rhne ko ghar nhi h. ab mere pass suside ke alawa koi rasta nhi h. Sir hum dono ki caste bhi same he h. Sir mai karib 6 month pahle Rajiv ki mummy se bhi baat ki thi lekin wo agree nhi hui. jitni jaldi ho sake sir please please please help me. I request for u sir. Thanx.

  8. Hi sir, am in relation with a guy last 3 yrs, he was ready to marry me, now his parents are not ready to accept me bcz of caste feeling, now that guy also started ignoring me, I dnt no what do, his parents confirmed another marriage proposal for him, am not ready to leave him, am totally depressed, plz help me out plz

  9. sir i am Gayathri, i am loving a one person, i love him soo much he loves me aa lot but my family was not giving support, tourchering me aa lot nd black maling that they will dies nd or not they will go to legal authorities but what is the solution.. my lover still didn’t settle in life nd they parents should not spoil there flame out side.. nd my parents are blaming me a lot nd my parents are giving warning to him parents soo badaly….

  10. hello sir,
    mai Muslim ladki se pyar karta hu aur aur wo bhi… aur court marriage karna chahtey hai per koi mil hi nahi raha hai humhari help karne wala… aap bhi samjtey ho bina kisi ke saath ke itna bda kadam nahi utha saktey to please humari help kar dijiye….

  11. Sir i m going to marry with a girl but after marry kaha rahu samjh ni aaraha, shadi to hum ne chup k kr li but kaha rahu samj ni aaraha jaha hum safe rahe, plz hel me

  12. Sir I m a girl age 24 and working in IT sector. I love a boy age 24 working in Navy. His family is ready accepting me but my parents are not agreeing because he is Brahmin. I m Kayastha. Please help sir.

  13. Hi, my name is Swati. mujhe love marriage krna hai par ladke ke parents nhi ready ho rahe jiski wajah se ladka ready nhi ho pa raha.

  14. Thank you Love Commandos. You are doing a great job for our society. I have seen the documentary film on Al Jazeera Channel. All Indian should be proud of you. You are working against the dark spot in our culture. Hope one day, these dark spots will be removed from our culture.

  15. Dear Sir, I saw a programme about Love Commandos on Al-Jazaara. I was so impressed with what you were doing. You are trying to made India a great nation and I am proud of you. I wish you all the best.

  16. I am Nisha Rani from Jamshedpur, Jharkhand. I am in love with a boy from Maharashtra since 4 and half years and we both are adults and have right to marry with our choice. now our family get to know about us and I am being trapped at home and my parents are forcing me to get married to another person of their choice. at this I am totally helpless. please help me

  17. Why there s no recruitment drive???? No publicity???? Honour killing r increasing…. But at same time,, human right and individuality to be protected… ONLY LOVE COMMANDOS SEEMS THE NEED OF HOUR…. WHY THE ORGANIZATION NOT GROWING PROFOUNDLY???? ITS 2017 INDIA… ALL YOUNG GENERATION BELIEVE IN LOVE MARRIAGE… BUT STILL THEIR DREAMS CRUSHED… HOW MANY GENERATION MORE WILL STRUGGLE????

  18. dear sir
    my name is Ravi, my 1 ladaki se bahut pyar karta hu, wo bhi mujhse bahut pya karti hai magr uski shaadi kahi aur unke ghar walo ne tay kar di h, ham dono ek dusre ke bina nahi ji sakte, uski age 19, meri 21 hai, sir hame kya karna chahiye

  19. yes i agree that pyaar se paet nahi bharta but if a person is earning and capable of taking care of all the responsibilities then what you say….. then too the parents and the society is against just because the couple is not of same religion and caste

    plzzzzzzzzzz do reply of my comment
    Who will be helping or supporting such people if this is the case as mentioned in my comment….

  20. Sir I am Priyanka Kumari from Ranchi. sir I love a person who now working for our nation in (army) and we want to spend our life together. Sir I had told my family about my love and tried to convence them but they don’t accept my love. Due to fear of our society they are not accepting us and due to this my family has torchring on me, even they had beat me and forcing me to quit this relationship. Sir you had safe thousands people life. sir I need you help to save my relationship, sir please help me.
    Thanking you
    As your child
    Priyanka Kumari
    From: Ranchi, Jharkhand.

  21. Sir m jisse pyar karti hu wo same caste ka h, business krta h, accha kma leta h, but mere gharwale job wala mang rahe h, ldka job nhi kr skta, m court marriege k liye b tyar hu but ldka darta h meri fmly ki wajah se, m kya karu pls hlp me sir

  22. Its my question to Love Commandos is k sir me mere sagge maama ki ladki se love karta hoo 6 saal se and our age is 22 and 18.. sir meri shaadi kaanooni tor par ho sakti he kya.. or kanooni dastavej agar hamare shaadi k banjaai court se toh fir kal uss k parents obejction uttay prohibited degree kaa k ye to iske maama ki ladki he .. toh fir sir vo shaadi hamari cancel ho sakti he kya.. sir Supreme Court ki book me he aesa aesi shaadi hone kaa… aap koi law batao sir yaa section batao muje.. plz sir.. help me.. aap log jo hamari shaadi karvaoge vo kaagaz ek dum pakke honge r valid hnge or kya fir use koi challenge nahi kar sakta..

  23. Hi sir… myself Swarnamayee.. mai ek ladka see pyar karti hun, 5 year ho gaya hai, wo v mujhse bahat pyar karte hai likin ab meri gharwale meri love relationship ko accept nhi kar rahi hai, wo log dusre jaga pai meri mrg fix kardi hai, per mai usse bahat pyar kar rahi hun, jii nhi sktii unke bin, bt no one can understand… bas sab mrg ke liye force karte hai… ab mai kya karu, family keliye bf ko chhod du ya bf keliye family ko because in our case either this side or that side.. aur mai unke bina jina nhi chahtii hun… plz help me

  24. Hai,
    I heard about your amazing work and help for lovebirds which I’m 100% interested to work with uh… but
    Me Alok, i love her, she too loves me but both of our family is not allowing us to b together, my dad said u choose anyone except her, which is like impossible to me.
    she is my everything, I love her within, next my family is looking for my marriage but I can’t let them feel shy, their respect is what I respect much than anything but they r not understanding me, if can u help me ….. if possible u may contact me

  25. Sir i am 24 year old and she is 18. she loves me a lot and me too .. my family is happy with our decision .. but her father is very rich and short temper man .. we decided to go Arya Smaaj Mandir to get marry.. but when we will return my home .. i am definitely sure her father can kill us .. or anything else he can do .. so tell me what can i do .. please help us

  26. Hey,
    I am 21 years old and he is 29 years old. He is a banker, and I am a student. we have been together for 3 years. I tried convincing my family last year but they straightway declined my proposal. He have been waiting for me for an year. We are certain about our marriage decision, but at the same time I want my parents to be a part of it. I want convince them, they are worried about their ‘ijjat’, ‘chaar log kya kahenge’, ‘muhh dikhane layak nai rhenge’. In this world where there is so much hatred, people are falling in love which no less than a miracle, and yet people/parents don’t support them. Please advice me on this matter. I don’t see my future without him. I know I m young, but what i think is that, settling down young opens more doors for your career in your life. Because i would know that I had to live in this city, my career would be this.

    Please help.

  27. mera naam Kartik Mudi hai, mai ek larki ko bohot pyar krta hu, our wo v mujhe bohot pyar krta hai, hm dono ek duje k bina nhe rhe sakte our wo v nhe rhe sakti hai, hm dono ek dusra k lya apna jaan v dene k lya tayar hai, hm dono agar shaadi nhe kya to hm dono apno jaan denge mera. age 21 our larki ka 17, hm dono bohot pyar krte hai really love

    • Dear Kartik Mudi

      We appreciate the feelings of love. You should understand that she is a minor and not of marriageable age. Although you are 21 years old but you need to wait till she is 18 plus. In the meanwhile if parents of anyone attempt to forcibly marry the boy or girl, please feel free to contact us. A legal action would need to be taken at that time. Best wishes for your committed love till that time.

      Please visit the FAQ page at http://www.lovecommandos.org/faq/ and ensure that you fulfill all requirements for marriage.

      Team Love Commandos

  28. SUBJECT – PROBLEM
    First of all, thank you your amazing work.
    I saw your documentary on YouTube then i realize i have to contact you.
    Me and my GF we have 5 years of relationship but we are from different caste.
    We want to marry but there is a problem, her dad her whole family aginst us
    They checked all the messages from her Facebook account and they wanted to place a rape case on me but my GF don’t support them. She told we did this both together and if you guys want to dump him (me) in jail then I am with him (me).This incident happened on 23 March 2016 after that her parents send her to Bhopal but we still in the contact and want to marry under any conditions. I m final year Engineering student and she is also well educated. Her dad is in police, Please help us, We are planning to do a court-marriage, I m 21 years old and she is 24, don’t think too much, I have age benefit in education that’s why I am younger, Please reply me, we are planning for marriage within a year, Contact me before something rong happened because she told me if her family force her to mary someone else then she will commit the suicide, so and if she did then there is no huminity for us, my family in support me and her but her parents with massive background.
    Thats all my problem, I hope u could understand the situation
    Thanks
    Siddharth Tayde

  29. sir, i nd my soulmate wants to get marry, and we are planning for same. but she is scared from her family, actually the biggest problem is her brother-in-law (jija).

  30. Hello Sir,

    I already did the register marriage with my soulmate. My parents know our register marriage but her side parents don’t know this register marriage.
    we both are from same religion but same caste.

    My wife have some hopes as their parents should accept. I requested my wife to inform about this on her family, but they were house arrested my wife and they are not allowing her to talk with me. She is in house arrest since 30 days.

    But her family clearly opposed and they always Warning to murder me. also side by side they are forcing her to forgot me otherwise their parents will get suicide.

    Our family extremely tried to convince their family but they are behaving like a wild animals, insulting us and treating us as beggars. If we are trying to speak with them, their community members are grouping and shouting us.

    Please sir, help me how can i proceed. they also kept her daughter in house and not allowing her to speak with me. my phone no ##########

  31. Hello sir,
    my self Niharika. i m in relationship with my cousin (son of mother’s sister) from Last 10 year. we want to get married. as we know all the complication in Hindu religion, please suggest me what can i do in favour of my relationship.

  32. Hello Sir,

    I already did the register marriage with my soulmate. My parents know our register marriage but her side parents don’t know this register marriage.
    we both are from same religion but different caste.

    My wife have some hopes as their parents should accept us and marry us with their tradition. I requested my wife to inform about this on her family, but they were house arrested my wife and they are not allowing her to do the job and not allowing her to come to the city. She is in house arrest since 10 days.

    But her family clearly opposed and they always playing games like they are finding some info about me, and if i am suitable then they will accept our marriage. also side by side they are forcing her to forgot me otherwise their parents will get suicide.

    Our family extremely tried to convince their family but they are behaving like a wild animals, insulting us and treating us as beggars. If we are trying to speak with them, their community members are grouping and shouting us.

    Please sir, help me how can i proceed. they also kept her daughter in house and not allowing her to speak with me.

  33. Sir,
    My girlfriend is 15 years old and I’m 19, we love each other and want to get married but at this moment I’m pursuing engineering and I’m totally job less.
    And her family is planning to marry her with someone else..
    I come up with a lots of hope please tell me what should we do..

  34. To all parents in the world:
    Please look deep into your hearts and answer this:

    Do you believe it is more honourable to murder, than to love?

    A parent has only one task in this world, and that is to provide a child with every possible skill that will help it to find happiness in life. And that includes the wisdom of choice.

    Parental abuse of power, emotional blackmail, violence, etc. do not lead to happiness. They lead to hatred and ultimately, murder. I fail to see the honour in that.

    For a nation that has taught the world how strong and important love is, you seem to have lost a lot of what Gandhi gave to India. His goal after all was freedom of choice.

    I wish for every parent that they might find love in their hearts.

  35. hiii…. sir, my self Suraj, mein 22 yrs ka hoon aur meri lover 20 ki hein, hum dono ek dusre se bahuth pyar kerte hein, hum dono k parents Central govt employees hein… mein Karnataka ka hoon aur woh MP ki, we both are Hindus….. but woh Brahmin hein…. usko der hein ki usk parents hum dono k relationship kabhi accept nhi karenge kerk… aur woh apne parents k against bhi jana chahthi hein aur na he mujhe chhodna chahathi hein…. mujhe samaj nhi aa rha hein ki mein kya keroon… mein usk bina reh nhi saktha aur na he woh reh sakthi hein

  36. Hello sir
    Its not me but my sister
    She wants to marry a guy who is from the same religion but different caste
    The family from the other side is ready but our family is not agreeing at all
    My sister even made multiple suicide attempts
    Right now she is trapped at home, She is not allowed to go out at all
    My family believes in honour killing too
    I am friend, I want to help my sister but I don’t know how to do that so I am coming up to you with a lot of hope
    She is trapped at home since last one year and has lost around 15 kg weight
    Please help us! Eagerly waiting for your reply

  37. respected sir
    I am from Ahmedabad and my soulmate from Haryana… we both are want to marry with each other
    my family accept and give us permission to marry with each other.
    but the family of other side clearely opposed and they always play games like they lie us
    they do not understand….
    I extremely try that her parents are ready to accept and give us permission. they meet with my parents and clearly said no..
    please sir once help me. they also kept her daughter in house.
    how could we marry
    please sir help me.

  38. Hello Sir, Myself Chetan, I Love daughter of my second cousin with same surname. She is 16 yrs old and I am 28. even after long oppose by families and community and my village people’s. Yesterday I brought her home and tried to convince our families but it’s become very big issue and all peoples of our village gathered and made us to saparate. Her mama took her with him to Gosarwad. we want to live together, pls help us I have no idea, but yesterday I brought her home cause her second mama asked her to marriage and they were taking her in Ghosaewad for marriage, so I dare to brought her home on yesterday. Pls help us.

  39. Hello sir, i am Rakesh from Pakur, Jharkhand. i need help from you becouse i am in a relationship with a Muslim girl. we both love each other and wants to merry. But i am jobless, so help me out plz. We cannot live without each other.

  40. Sir m ek ladki se love krta Hun aur vo bhi mere ko love krti hai
    Ham Dono shaadi krna chahte hai
    But usne ghar me baat bhi kiya hai
    Uski mammi ne saf mana kar diya hai
    Hum dono ki caste same hai
    Par gotra alag alag hai
    Sir bht pareshan hun, please help me sir

  41. Sir m jisse shaadi krna chahta hu vo samegotr se belog h, means samgotr. But hmara ya hmari family ka dur dur tk 7 pidhi ka koi relation nhi hai, states b alag h, uska Rajasthan or mera Haryana. kya aap hmari help kr skte ho. We both belongs to Tanwar (Rajput) gotr

  42. Dear sir/mam,
    Me and my girlfriend are from different religion. This is why our family do not accepting our relationship and marriage. They continuously threatening us. We are from KOLKATA. Can you please help us sir?
    Than you.

  43. Hello sir plz help me, meri sagai ho chuki ha aur 4 Dec ko meri shaadi hai per muze ye shaadi nahi krani hai, mai kisi aur ladke se pyar krti hu per meri sagai ho chuki hai aur shaadi 4 Dec ko hai, batayiye sir mai ab kya kru, plz help me

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