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Love Commandos is a voluntary organization in India dedicated to helping India’s lovebirds who want to marry for love. We provide assistance in protecting couples, helping them fight harassment and giving them shelter so they can marry freely.

Mr. Sanjoy Sachdev
Mr. Harsh Malhotra
Chief Co-Ordinator

प्यार करना पाप नहीं, विरोधी हमारा बाप नहीं

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Helpline — 2,547 Comments

  1. I came across the video in United States and God I am beyond proud of my fellow Indian brothers representing in such inspiring ways to the youth. God bless all the personnel that has any contribution to this organization. I would like to meet one of the Love Commandos in near future until then keep up the Nobel work.

  2. Saw your service on Al Jazeera. Well done for everything you’ve done. Donated! Keep doing what you do. It’s a noble and worthy cause.

    Love from Australia.

  3. sir can you help in Nashik, Maharashtra? we want to do only love marriage then we can manage but some problems are there, plz help

  4. Sir mujhe English to nahi aati par me Hindi me hi apna dard batata hu, 21-10-2017 ko Neemach Dist. MP me mere or meri lover k sath roadways bus stand par kuchh logo ne marpeet ki or hamari video bhi banai or video ko viral bhi kar diya, sir hamari help karne to koi nahi aaya but me un lovers ki help karna chahta hu jinki help koi nhi karta jinne log marte he, ########## ye mere wp num. he, me aap logo ko hamari video batana chahta hu ki hamare sath kya kya hua or jaan se marne ki dhamki bhi di, sir love karna koi paap to nhi he, ye duniya wale ku nhi samajhte, pulice ne mujhe 3 din tak bhoot mara or phir ghar jane diya sirf isliye ki me meri lover se baat kar raha tha, sir pliz me ye sab lovers k sath hote hue nahi dekh sakta hu, mujhe join hona he or lovers ki help karna he, I love u all lovers

  5. sir i wants to marry with a Muslim girl. she is 17 year old and i m 20 year old. i love her very much and she too but her parents does not agree to marry, and no body is helps us. i m helpless. and how to i get her. please tell me. we decided to runs away from home. sir, are we take right decision or not? please give me your opinion. i things you are my lord and you must help me.

  6. We have received the following review on our Facebook page:

    One of your powerful ‘weapon’ is continuously maintain strong presence at top social media sites … If those savage parents can kill their own children for fear of shame, then they deserve to be kept within their petty shame.

    To be murdered or trashed by your own parents/family is far more horrific than if a stranger in the streets would.

    I’m so grateful and proud of what you’ve achieved! Maybe someday soon I would be able to help you in any way I can. Please keep Love on Earth alive!

  7. Hello sir, me and my gf want to marry each other but the problem is her family is totally against this. they are forcing her to marry another guy. we are eligible to get married but i can’t take her out of her house and also we are having no money with us. we are jobless. can you please help us to take her out of her house and to marry each other. i don’t want them to file any complaint against my family as well. is there any way by which we can marry each other as well as we can save my parents. please help me sir please please.

  8. Hello to the whole team of Love Commandos. I am student and yet perusing my studies from abroad when i was in India my favorite show was Satyamev Jayate. I just watched one of the shows in which i heard from Sanjoy Sir who started this association. Luckily, my grand parents did love marriage and my parents did the same. I am so happy to hear about this work being done in India where people should get aware about rights of adults. I actually want to meet this team when I will return back.
    Thank you for contributing your time and life for others. You are true example of devotion.

  9. Wow,, this is happening in India, really a good social service. Many girls will get a life as they wish. This commandos are really gonna save many girls life. A very good improvement in India according to me. Thank you for such a team… Really you people are brave. God bless you all and keep U safe.

  10. To
    The Chairman of Love Commandos, Mr. Sanjoy ji
    Respectfully, i beg to say that i am very happy to know about you, and about your movement which can you start to fight, in my country i am really so happy, i am just with you in all the possible condition by contribution or any possible things.
    I just salute you for this honoarable movement at this time our country needs to such a type of movement.
    Thank You Sir,

    Uttar Pradesh

    We received the above message of appreciation for our work through our Contact Us form at and we felt it is worth sharing.

  11. Aap sabko mera bhout bada wala hello.. mujhe ek baat puchhni h aap sabse, kiya pyar karna glat h ya pyar krke shaadi krna glat hai?? Agr pyar krna glat hai to kyu kanun iski ijajat deta h?? or agr pyar krke shaadi krna glat nhi to kyu humare famliy wale hi humare dusman ban jate h…. kiya humre famliy wale hume dog smjh kar khilate pilate h or bada krte h taki hum bada hoke unke mutabik bhok sake, agr yesa h to sahi h pyar krna chor sab. Thank u **********#######…..

  12. Sir my GF and me love each other but her parents don’t want to listen to her. They are not giving her chance to see any boy and forcefully marrying her. She wants to elope with me and do court marriage. But her parents has link with police officials. Please advice us what we can do.

  13. Hello sir, mai aur meri girlfriend 5 sal se relationship me hain, dono ek dusre se shaadi karna chahte hai lekin meri girl friend ke ghar walon ko hamare bare me pata chal gaya to un logo ne jabardasti uski shaadi kahin aur tay kar di hai, ab huk logo ke pass bhag ke shaadi karne ke allawa koi option nahi hai aur samjh me nahi aa raha kaise kiya jaiye, uske ghar wale hamesa uske sath kisi na kisi ko rakhte hain, koi solution bataiye

  14. Hi,

    I want to marry a girl. We both are loved each other. We are in relationship from March 2012 and in August 2015 we are decided to tell our love story to our parents. Her parents were accepted our relationship but my parent was disappointed due to intercaste. In November 2016, her parents came to our home to discuss about the our relationship. Our parents decided to accepted our relationship but her parents posponed the regularly and talk to my parents and we prepared some jwellery and other stuffs but in Sep 2017 her parent disagreed and decided to they don’t want to marry.. We are in trouble, her parents shows emotional factor to her and forced to marry in there caste. She did not want to give sorrow/pain to her parents. I am strong, working and having bright future. We both are educated and having masters degree. We are from Delhi. As per the current situation, her parents are become very heartless persons and don’t give permission to go outside the house, talk on mobile. Please help us give some suggestion what we should do. She loved me still and mee too. But her parents forced to marry to some other guy in there caste


  15. hlw sir
    main or mera BF dono different caste k hain lekin hum dono ne chup k se court marriage kor liya. abhi 2 saal hone wala hain. 30 din k registration wala court marriage .. lekin un k ghar k log hamari ristey ko nehi mante hain or unhone bhi nehi bataya hum log ne court marriage kiya hai ye baatein… abhi kuch din se mera bf mujhe relationship breakup korne k liye bol roha hai lekin aisa hum nehi kor sakte q ki hamari puri family or ristey daar ko pata hai … ejjat ka sawal hain.. abhi hum kiya koreign kuch samajh me nehi aa roha hain. wo un k gharwalo se bohut pyaar korte hai or isliye court marriage k baare me batane k liye bhi dar roha hai or hamari saath baat korna chhod dia hai.. hum bohut tension me hain, plz kuch solution dijiye jis se hamari ristey bach jayega.

    • Dear Chandra Shekar

      आपकी ईमेल आई•डी• गलत है.

      कृपया अपनी सही ईमेल आई•डी• तथा अपना फोन नम्बर हमें पर ईमेल करें.

      ✆ आप हैल्पलाइन नम्बर 09313550006 / 09313784375 पर हम से बात भी कर सकते हैं.

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      Please send your correct email ID and your phone number to:

      ✆ Please discuss on Helpline: 09313550006 / 09313784375

      Please visit the FAQ page at and ensure that you fulfill all requirements for marriage.

      Team Love Commandos

  16. Sir, mai Gujarat sai hu, Delhi study karnai gaya tha and meri aak friend bani Sweety naam, ok after a passes of time ham love relationship mai aagayai almost 4 year… but problem hai lardki ki ghar waalai different caste or love ko value nani detai, ham dono happy aak dusrai mai or marriage karna chahta hu but lardki ghar waalo kai against nahi jaana chahti, mai kya karu, kaisai unko father ko manau, unko merai naam bhi pasand nahi. I need help jo unko convince karai, vo log Bhind, MP sai hai

  17. Sir me India me rhne wala ek chote se site me betha aapko ye msg kr rha hu, ye msg me aapko bhout ummed se kr rha hu ki aap meri btao ko smjhenge, is liye me aapko msg kr rha hu, me bhout garib pariwar se hu mgr ye mera dil mera sath nhi de rha h, sir me Jamshedpur, Jharkhand ka rhne wala hu, me ek ladki se pyar krta hu, wo bhi mujhse pyar krti h, is liye hmlogo ne apni apni famliy se baat krke socha marrage ke liye mana liya jayega but famliy walo ne hmari bato ko mana kr diya. Or kaha entercast marrage nhi ho skta. sir mujhe ek baat smjh me nhi aati h logo ki aakhir log ek dusre se bat kr skte h, ek alg caste k inasn se help maag skte h but ek alg caste me shaadi nhi kr skte, kyu sir? Ya fir shaadi na krne ka koi or rigeon ho skta h. ladka ladki ke pyar ko humare India me kafi neech najro se dekha jata h, agr yahi pyar agr koi pita apni beti se kare to ye pyar h, or koi bhai apni sister se kare to pyar h, but agr koi ladka agr ladki se kare to is duniya ka sabse neech kam h, kyu sir?

    Sir aaj me bilkul akela hu is liye mujhe mara gya, koi back support kuch nhi h or mere pyar ko khud se dur jata hua dekh bhi raha hu, me agr police me repot likhne jata hu mera pura carriar barbad ho jata h, agr me apne pyar ko chhodta hu to kaise zindgi bhar khud se najar mila pauga. Me sir UAE me job krta tha, bus unke parents ne kaha unha wo chori krta h, jharu marta h hm to dekhne nhi gya h na, is liye me India aa gya or khud ka ek shop khola kyuki unke papa ka bhi shop h, is liye me socha sayad unke parents smjhe ge but sir fir bhi koi smjhne ko tayar nhi h or upper se mujhe bhout mara gya taki me unhe bhul jau. or ladki ko dhamki diya gya agr wo boli ki mujhse pyar krti h to wo log mujhe jaan se maar kr fek dege, mera papa mammi bhi dar kar mujhe bolne lage ki tum bhi bhul jao. mene unke parents ko ye bhi kaha ki agr me gov job le lu to kiya aap meri shaadi Puja se kara dije ga, wo log fir bhi nhi mane. sir me janta hu sir agr hm mane to pathar bhi bhagwan ban jate h or nadi ganga mata to fir sir hm pyar ko kyu nhi mante h, sir me ye msg bhout ummed laga ke aapko bhej rha hu, aap ek baar apna haat mere sir par rakhiye taki me unlogo ko smjha saku jo pyar ke khilaf h, plzz sir plzzz mera viswas ko tutne mat dije ##########…..

  18. Namaskar! aapko dhanevad jo aap log kar rahe hai sayad koi nhi karta balki ..

    kuch kahte hai jala do inhe
    koi kahta ha dafna do inhe
    par koi ye nhi kahta ki mila do inhe

    – best regards

    ( Thanks to you, perhaps nobody else can do all that you are doing, because ..

    some say burn them
    some say bury them
    but nobody says unite them


    नमस्कार! आपको धन्यवाद जो आप लोग कर रहे हैं शायद कोई नहीं करता बल्कि ..

    कुछ कहते हैं जला दो इन्हें
    कोई कहता है दफ़ना दो इन्हें
    पर कोई यह नहीं कहता कि मिला दो इन्हें

  19. Sir,
    I love my girlfriend very much, but her marriage was fixed and her parents know our relationship and they said they don’t allow to marry her, and if I marry her they said they will kill me. I am 25 and she is 23 years age, same caste same religion, she doesn’t like new marriage alliance, and her mother said if she goes with me she will die, and I don’t want her mother to die because of me, if they don’t allow to marry me please allow to marry another boy which she like to live, should you provide service in Kerala

  20. Selamat pagi dan sore baru bisa di balas, karena saya lagi serius mengejar target, dan saya sadari betul kekurangan saya satu yaitu kurang fasih berbahasa Inggris oleh sebab itu mengalami kendala, dan saya atas pribadi dan keluarga mengucapkan banyak terimakasih kepada Mr Sanjoy Sachdev Sebagai Chairman dan Mr Harsh Malhotra sebagai Chief Coordinataor, dan semoga kita bisa bekerjasama Sama dan saling mensupot, karena yang sejelas saya harus Masi banyak belajar kepada Senior-Senior saya yang sudah mendapatkan penghasilan dan juga Karir, dan saya tetap akan berusaha berbuat yang terbaik untuk kepentingan keluarga, dan juga saya sangat mendukung dan terinspirasi, karena saya bisa ambil kesempatan untuk ikut bergabung Loves Kommandos dan sebelumnya saya ucapkan banyak terima kasih dan selamat pagi dan salam sukses.

    From Google Translate, this roughly translates from Indonesian to​ English as:

    Good morning and afternoon can only be replied, because I again seriously pursue the target, and I am aware of my lack of one is less fluent in English therefore experiencing obstacles, and I personally and personally say many thanks to Mr. Sanjoy Sachdev As Chairman and Mr. Harsh Malhotra as Chief Coordinataor, and hopefully we can cooperate Same and give each other, because as clear as I have Masi learned a lot to my Senior-Senior who already earn income and also Career, and I will still try to do the best for the sake of family, and also I am very supportive and inspired, because I can take the opportunity to join Love Commandos and before I say many thanks and good morning and successful greetings.

    • Selamat pagi dan saya mengucapkan banyak terima kasih kepada Love Komandos, karena telah memberikan kesempatan kepada saya ikut bergabung di Love Komandos, dan semoga kita menjadi mitra, dan bisa saling mensupot, karena saya sangat senang berada di tengah Orang yang saling berbagi informasi, dan menolong masyarakat ikut ambil bagian dalam satu ajang kompetisi, dan melalui proses yang sangat panjang untuk meraih satu kesuksesan.

      From Google Translate, this roughly translates from Indonesian to​ English as:

      Good morning and I would like to thank Love Commandos, for giving me the opportunity to join Love Commandos, and hope we become partners, and can interact with each other, because I am very happy to be in the middle of people who share information and help society takes part in one competition, and through a very long process to achieve one’s success.

  21. Sir meri age 6 year km h aur meri girlfriend ki age puri h, sir mazburi me hme shaadi jaldi karni hogi to age problem h, sir hm kya kre please help me Love Commandos

  22. नमस्कार सर, मेरा नाम अंबादास है, मै एक लडकी से पुरे 2 साल से प्यार करता हुं, हम दोनो एक ही गॉव के है, मैरे घर मै सभी को लडकी पंसद है ओर लडकी भी रोजना फोन पे बाते करती है हमारे घरवालो से ओर मै उनके पुरे परिवार से भी बात करता हुं ओर मैने तो अपने गांव के सरपंच जी से बोला, अब हमे आपसे एक विनंती है के आप हमारी मदद करें, हमारे इस रिश्तो को लडकी की मॉ ना बोल रही है ओर उनके मॉ से कोई पुछे तो बोलती है मैं तैयार हुं, कब करना बोले तो बोलती की अगले महिनो मै बात करेंगे बोलती है, कई दिनो से उनकी मॉ एैसे ही बात आगे बढा रही है, तो हम क्या करना चाहिए बोलो, मै तो सबके सामने शादी करना चाहते है लेकीन मॉ मना कर रही है, बस आप हमारी मदद करो

  23. Sir,
    You are doing a great job, sir many many thanks to all of your commandos who help through this organization. I have a question sir –
    Can I get your help in my home city Rourkela, Odisha

  24. Sir muje samaaj ko badlna hai
    Paramparao ko muh tod jawab dena hai
    Samaaj ke thekedaaro ko koi haq nhi ki
    Vo hume bataye ki hume kese jeena hai

    We received the above lines in the Join / Membership form and we decided to share the same with you.

    सर मुझे समाज को बदलना है
    परमपराओं को मुँह तोड़ जवाब देना है
    समाज के ठेकेदारों को कोई हक़ नहीं कि
    वो हमें बताएँ कि हमें कैसे जीना है

  25. Sir me apni GF se bahut pyar krta hu, hm shaadi krna chahte h, isiliye hmne apne parents se bat ki lekin mere ghar wale to man gye lekin ladki ke papa g uski jbrdsti shaadi krva rhe h…… plzz help, sir ab aap hi hamari help kr skte h…. mera mob num ##########

  26. We have done secret marriage in Arya Samaj and living separately. after 7 months we have informed to our parents. Girls parents taken away girl from me and doing forcefully divorce process. marriage happened in Hyderabad and now they are doing in Madhya Pradesh. Plz advice
    We have given complaint in police station, they have taken petition. And saying that approach in family court.
    Plz rep

  27. dear sir, main Maharashtra se hu, sir main Muslim caste k ladki se pyar karta hue main uske sath shaadi karna chahta hu.. Lekin mere sath bahot badi problem hone wali hai. Plz plz plz meri shaadi uske sath karwado, muje usse shaadi karni hai sir, Main apse mere pyar ki bhik mangta hu, meri madat karo sir plz Help me… Thanks.. .my mob-##########

  28. Hello,sir …
    U r doing a great job .. really .. kyuki India me pyr ko smjhna hmri society ke liye bht muskil h .. n intercaste pe jb bt ati h tb to hmri pyri society n family khud ke bacho ko mar dene ki damki dete h .. n bht to mar v dete h .. avi m isi situtation me fasa hu .. m jis se pyr krta hu wh lower caste ki h .. pichle 2 sal se hm dono suffer kr rhe h … hme shaadi krni h yh jan ke uske garwalo ne uska study bnd kr di 2 sal phle. kisi aur se shaadi krne ke liye pressure bna rhe h. mere grwale v usse dur hone ko bol rhe h pr hm alg ni rh skte h. had se jda pyr krte h hm .. avi to wh suicide krna chti h.. pr ab aur m usse iss halat me ni dekhna chata hu .. so i need ur help ….

  29. Namaste Sanjay sir and Harsh sir

    please help……… sir main aur meri lover (premika) hum dono ek doosre bahut pyar karte hain aur shaadi karna chahte hain but hamare ghar wale shaadi se agree nahi hai, meri age 28 h aur meri premika lover ki age 25 h, main aur meri premika hum dono ek doosre ke bina nahi reh sakte hain aur hamari family ko is baare mein sab kuch pata chal chuka hai aur uski family uski shaadi kahi aur jabardasti kara rahi hai aur uske bhai ki taraf se mujh ko dhamki di ja rahi hai ki hum dono ko maar denge agar hum dono ne aisa kuch kiya to

    please please please help Love Commandos Team .. Sanjay sir, Harsh sir

  30. Hi sir, mai apko first thank you kehana chatha hu.. apke jaise walo ke liye.. sir mai ek ladki se pyar h, wo bi humko pyar karte hai lekin mere aur uske ghar walo ko pasand naye sir lekin tho bi hum ek dusre sea pyar karte hi, hum shaadi bi karna chathe hi, age problem hi sir, aur aj uska family wale ne merko maarne ka dhamki diya hi sir, kidar tho miletho humareko maar dalenge karke, pls humara kuch help kijiya sir

  31. Dear sir
    Me ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu aur vo bhi mujhse bahut pyar karti hai, hum dono shaadi karna chahte hai but hum dono ki caste same nhi hai isliye uski mummy aur bhai uske khilaf hai, uska bada bhai property ke lalach me galat jagah uski shaadi karna chahte hai, uski life narak jaisi kar di h. Hum dono ko shaadi karni hai, me ek law student hu but fir bhi uski maa aur bhai pata nhi kya chahte hai, me usko bahut khush rahunga. Sir aisa lagta h ki puri duniya pyar karne walo ki dushman ban gayi hai. Sir mere pas koi kami nhi hai, me bhi ek achi family se belong karta hu, education bhi achi h but uske bhai aur maa kasai hai, uski maa uske bhai ko bolti h ki tune jo ladki pasand ki h vo mujhe dikha de kisi bhi caste ki ho shaadi kara dungi but uske liye marti hai. Sir agar apne meri help ki to bhagwan ki tarah apki puja karunga. Please sir help me…

  32. Just saw you guys on a segment for Al Jazeera. The short documentary allowed me to learn about these crucial issues regarding the caste-system in India and brought me into a lot of research about India’s culture, honour-system, dowries and marriages and issues with the law. I live in the UK and there is no awareness about these issues here. I hope to work to change that in the future. Your work is so wonderful, I tell everyone about it. I hope you won’t mind if I put this site on my website to promote your work and a link to this site for donations. Thank you for doing what you do, and don’t let the bad guys get you down. Lots of love from Scotland.

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  33. Hello Sanjoy and Harsh,
    I happened to watch your great work on Al Jazeera Youtube channel. I am writing to state that people like you do exist in India and in spite of all the danger you face, you still continue to do a good deed. May God bless you all and keep you safe to continue to help others. God Bless!

  34. Sir… mai ek ladki se bhut pyar karta hu, o bhi bahut pyar karti hai par unke ghar wale shaadi ke khilaf hai kyok hm dono ki caste match nhi karta, wo Pandit hai .. plz support kijiye sir plz plz

    • Dear Nanhe Singh

      आपने अपनी ईमेल आई•डी• लिखने की बजाए हमारी ही ईमेल आई•डी• लिख दी है.

      कृपया अपने दोंनो की उम्र तथा एड्रेस प्रूफ की स्कैन की हुई कॉपियाँ और अपना फोन नम्बर हमें पर ईमेल करें.

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  35. I love someone but due to caste problem my parents are not accepting. They forcefully arranged my marriage, they told if I will not marry according to them then they not allow me complete my studies and they have taken all my marksheet and id proof. I ask them for some time so that both of us complete our CA training. They have fix my marriage date on Feb with some other guy. wo log suicide ka dhamki dete hai, bole hai society kya bolega

  36. Sir, help me please. Society is the biggest problem, jiske waje se parents 3 saal se nai maan re, unke khilaf jake karne pe ladki ko kabhi accept nahi karenge. Mujhe kya karna chahie kuch nahi samjh aa ra h. I don’t want to live without the girl, i am poor but recently got high paying job, putting lots of hard work.

    The girl is not earning at all, she can earn but she is little lack of confidence when it comes to carrier, which I don’t care now because her heart is pure and i am in love with her, but should I choose someone who is earning better as i am already poor?

  37. Sir I love a boy, we are together from 5+ years n his mother is forcing him to marry just coz I told his mom that wait for 2 years, she was knowing about us from very beginning n now she is doing emotional drama n blackmail, m boyfriend is very tensed coz he cannot hurt his mom, he is ready for marriage, sir please help us please

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