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Love Commandos is a voluntary organization in India dedicated to helping India’s lovebirds who want to marry for love. We provide assistance in protecting couples, helping them fight harassment and giving them shelter so they can marry freely.

Mr. Sanjoy Sachdev
Mr. Harsh Malhotra
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Helpline — 2,585 Comments

  1. hello sir, mera name Pradeep h, mai ek ladki se bahot pyar krta hu or wo b mujhe se bahot pyar krti hai, hum ek dusre ke bina nahi rah sakte, mai 21 years ka hu or wo 22 ki, mai Brahmin family se hu or wo Kurmi, hum dono shaadi krna chahte h, meri gf ne apne ghar pe sab ko bataya, uske gharwalo ne mere bare me pata lagaya, meri gf ke father gharwalo se bat krna chahte h pr mere ghar me shaadi ke liye agree nahi h, mai apni gf ke bina nahi rah sakta or wo mere bina, please help me, ab meri gf ki shaadi kahi set kerne ki soch rahe h meri gf ke father, please help us, my content no. ##########

  2. Dear Sir,
    My Name is Johnson, i am Christian, i have love with a Hindu girl since 8 years. we want to get married but the problem is our parents, they are not agree with this. In my family all know i have love and she is Hindu, they are like 50% 50%, but in her home they have hint and they are not talking anything about that. i am working in Gulf country, i want to marry her and we want to Gulf for some time. i have good job, we can survive here. please help me how can i get married. i need ur help please.

  3. Gud evening sir, I’m Dhananjay Srivastav, I want to marry my Girlfriend but her family are not agree, reason are caste, she’s Rajput and I’m Kayastha, my relationship are so longer 11 years old. We both are not to live without any each other, Her family are known everything but He’s not agree.. Sir my contact no ##########, ##########, Sir plz help me because uski family uski shaadi jabardasti kra denge ya use jaan se maar denge, sir mai bhi ni jee sakta, sir jldi kuch solution btaiye….. Sir extremely request sir jldi kuch kre.

  4. Thanks for Giving me A Ray of Hope

    Mera Naam Sameer aur Mai Ajmer, Rajasthan ka rahne wala hu aur Muslim community se belong karta hu. Aur mai jisse pyar karta hu wo Hindu community se belong karti he. Hum dono ki age 26 year he aur hum humara relationship ko 4 saal se bhi jyada ho gaye he. Hum ek-dusre se bahut pyar karte he aur ek-dusre ke kaafi kareeb bhi he. Hum dono ne kaafi soch-samajhkar shaadi karne ka fesla liya he.

    Ladki ne jab apni family se humari shaadi ki bat ki to unka kahna he ki ladka Muslim he isliye shaadi nahi ho sakti he. Aur uske pariwar walo ne ye bhi kaha ki agar ladka Muslim nahi hota to hum shaadi ke liye agree ho jate. Aur yah bhi kaha ki agar tm dono ne shaadi kar li to hum tm dono ko maar denge.

    Lekin dono ke jati-dharm ko nahi mante he isliye hum dono ne special marriage act 1954 ke tahat shaadi karne ka felsa kiya he. Aur abhi humne mamle ko thoda shant rakha he taki baad me koi acha solution nikala jaye aur humari shaadi ache se ho jaye. Lekin abhi tak uski family humari shaadi ke liye agree nahi he, bas wo ek hi baat ko leke bethe he ki ladka Muslim he isliye ye shaadi nahi ho sakti he.

    Ladki ab confuse he ki wo ab kya kare. Kyoki hum dono ek-dusre ke bina nahi raha sakte he aur wo chahti he ki family maan jaye to acha he. Agar uski family nahi mani to hume majburi me ghar chodna padega.

    Mene jab mere pariwar walo se baat ki to unka kahna he ki agar ladki ki family maan jati he to hum tumhari shaadi karwa denge.

    Ab ladki ki family ko kese manaya jaye, khastor par uski mummy ka manna bahut jarui he kyoki ghar me uski mummy ki hi jyada chalti he.
    Agar uski family nahi manti he to hume ghar chod ke special marriage act 1954 ke tahat shaadi karni padegi. Lekin isme ek problem he ki is niyam ke tahat 30 days objection notice period diya jata he. Is objection notice period me uski family ne agar objection kar diya to fir humari shaadi hone me problem aayegi.

    Ladki ke papa ke alwa uski family me mujhe kisi ne nahi dekha he. Aur mene kayi bar socha ki uski mummy aur bhai se jaa ke bat karu. Lekin mujhe is bat ka dar he ki agar unhone mujhe dekh liya to mujhpar kabhi bhi janleva hamla kar sakte he, isliye mai unke samne nahi jana chahta hu.

    Ab apse request he ki koi behtar solution nikale jisse Hindu-Muslim ko leke jo soch uski family me he wo nikal jaye. Yaa aur koi behtar solution jisse hum ek-dusre ke sath shaadi karke rah sake.

    Contact me:- ##########

  5. Hello,
    I am a 29 years old guy and my GF is 27 years in age. We are of same caste. We both are working in good companies. My mother and sister disapproves of my GF for marriage. I am very much in love with my GF and want to marry her. Even her parents are forcing her to get married. My father is ok with my GF and will accept her. I don’t know how to convince my mother and sister about my marriage as they will disown me for life and I don’t want that to happen. Please suggest. Time is running away from me.

  6. Dear sir, i am a Rajput boy and i am in love with a Brahman girl and her family is planning to arrange her life with a other boy. And we both loves too much to each other, and we can’t take even a single breath without each other. so please help us. We want to be hus-wife i.e. i mean love marriage. So please help us. thanx in advance. my no. is ##########, i m Arjun and she is Priya Sharma.

    • Hello sir. I am in love with
      a girl. I am 23 and she is 19 years old. We both love each other and want to marry. Unfortunately I don’t have a job yet. But I am trying to get a job. I have qualified Master of Commerce degree. It is possible that I will get a job within one year. But we have to marry within this month; because if we don’t do so; the circumstances will change. But I don’t have sufficient financial power at the time. Please help us; otherwise our love story will become dead. Thank you sir.

  7. Sir plz help me, I love a girl. She also love me most. But her parents want to marry her to other. wo bhi mere alawa kisi se shaadi krne ko agree nhi h but uske parents emotionally blackmail kr rahe h usko.. plz suggest me.

  8. Hello Sir, my name is Ravindra Vishwakarma from Jhansi. And main ek ladki se pyar krta hu wo other caste hai but wo bhi mujse bahut pyar krti h, hum dono ek dusre ko bahut pyar krte h or ek dusre ke bina nhi jee skte, but ladki ke parents uski shaadi ki baate chala rahe h and wo bhi ghabra rhi h, plz sir koi solution dijiye, hame shaadi krni h.

  9. Sir main ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu, WO bhi mujhe bahut pyar karti hai but u no WO Hindu hai or hum Muslim hai, plz solution bataye ki hum kya kare, bhag kar shadi karna theek rahega court merrige. hum dono ek dusre k bina jee nahi sakte, plz help me

  10. Hello Sir,
    I am from Nagpur, Maharashtra state, India.
    Have recently heard about your organisation and I was really happy that there is still room for love, peace and hope. My girlfriend is from Pakistan, and we are in relation since more than 5 years now. But we are not able to marry or meet one another as there is too much restrictions for visa in both the countries. We have to go to other countries to meet each other. I was just wondering if you could help us in any way as you must have came across these similar situations. Will really appreciate if you can guide us how can we approach and marry in such situation. We recently tried to get Indian visit visa for her but got refused. Please guide us if you have any solution for this problem.
    Thanks a lot!

  11. Dear sir and Love ❤ Commandos member jo din raat love birds ki help karte h … sir I’m Suresh from Pali, Rajasthan near Jodhpur, sir mujhe aapki help chahiye, sir main ek ladki se pyar karta hu or vo bhi mujhse pyar karti h bt problem yeh h ki sir I’m only 18 or ladki b 18 Ki h… mujhe pta h aap shyad humari help nhi kr sakte bt sir hum dono ki caste alag alag h or ladki k father police m h bt problum yeh h ki ladki 18 ki ho gyi h or uske father 1 ya 2 saal m uski shaadi kra denge or m kuch ni krr paunga, plz sir bahut saari ummid se aapse right guidance maang rha hu … one more thing, according to my marksheet n degree m 18 ka hu bt birth certificate k according I’m 21 lakin birth certificate kho gya h, sir plzz help me, mere pass koi or raasta nhi h suicide k alawa because we both can’t live without each other..

  12. hi people!
    u see in my case v both have no caste/religion differences. the only thing is i m frm Bangalore n my guy is from Lucknow. bt thn v both stay abroad. prblm is my parents don’t like love marraiges. they say ki khaandaan ki izzat ka sawaal hai, kal ko 4 log kya kahenge, shaadi k baath tum humari (i.e. parents ki) kadr nhi kroge, life mei kis cheez ki kami rakhi hai etc. etc. bohut bolte hain.

    maine bohut tareh se samjhaane ki koshish ki unhe lekin samajhte hi nhi!
    hum dono 4-5 yrs se relationship mai hain!
    plz koi kuch idea do!

    ehsaan rahega!

  13. sir, my name is D, i am in deep trouble. i love a girl and we both completed our studies, i m 23 n she is 22 nd we want to tie knot with each other. i belong to India and she is from Nepal. at first my parents were totally agree with the marriage but suddenly after some time they refused to accept our relation and still girl family supports us, now the problem is i want some help from you, actually my mom can do any harm and fir if i will go to Nepal without telling her and she can do anything, sir i cannot write the exact thing here, i am droping my no. And mail id in this comment, please i need your help and suggestion in every way and step. plz help me 0##########

  14. Please suggest us. I m Brahmin and he is frm pot maker caste. We are neighbours but my parents are not ready as they say for different caste and being neighbour we are brother and sister. frm d last 3.5 yrs we r trying that they understand us but they don’t. pls suggest us how to convince them. we live in Delhi. plz reply soon.

  15. Hello Sir/ma’am,
    My name is Abhay and I’m 25 years and working in an IT company. I love a girl for last 10 years and she is 23 years.
    We wanted to marry but our families were against it. The main prblm is our castes as I am Jatav (Scheduled Caste) and she is a Brahmin.
    We tried to convince our families and I succeed in convincing my parents but her parents are not even in the mood to think about it.
    She tried a lot after that I tried to convince her parents but they do not want because of my caste. They wanted her to marry someone else of their caste, she refused to get married to someone else then they tortured her and threatened me to life.
    After that they taken her to their village (UP East) secretly and forcefully and cut all the communication modes between us.
    I don’t know what is happening there but one thing I surely know I love her and she loves me very much, we cannot live without each other.
    Some days before she managed to contact me and told me that they are forcing her to marry some other guy but she loves me and don’t want marry someone else but they want her to marry within next month.
    So she said she will come here secretly and we will get married
    But my concern is when she will be eloping from there her family can file a police case and sue me and my family and many more negative scenes or legal issues can harm my family
    I don’t want my family to be in any trouble but I can’t even think to live without her.
    Please help me, please please please revert me asap, please what should I do

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    Ab is number pr or email pr contact kare help ke liye

  17. Hello,
    Do u operate in the state of Kerala? Because I have a friend who can use some real help right now. Her parents are forcing her to get married. She and her lover wants to elope soon. Things are getting nastier and there are complications. Time is running out and we don’t hav much of a help.

  18. Mai ek ladke se bohat pyaar karti hun or wo ladka v mujh s karta h or hum dono shaadi karna chate hai par hamare ghar wale razi nahi horaha h, ab m kya karun ap hi bataye plz

  19. dear sir.
    hamari shaadi ko 10 saalho gaye. humne apne village mei apna ghar bhi bana liya. pr ab hume vahan ane se roka jaraha hai. hamare uper hamala bhi kiya gaya. jab humne apke helpline number pe call karke help mangi toh humse pehle ye pucha gaya k “jo paise lagege apki help mei wo kon dega” .. kya aap help karne k paise lete ho.

  20. dear sir me ak ladki se pyar karta hu or hum dono Sikh h but Sikh me bhi caste thodi chang h islye uske ghar wale agree nai honge, plz hamari help karo

  21. Hello sir
    mera nam Hemant Kumar hai, me ek Sikh ladki se bhut pyr karta hu or o ladki bhi mujhse pyr karti hai, hum shaadi karna chahte hai par ladki ki family nhi man rahi hai .. me or o ladki Punjab National Bank me job karte hai, me ek Officer hu or o Head Cashier .. ladki ki family bhut rud hai or o hamara rishta nahi man rahi ha shaadi k liye, humne sari kosia kar li but koi reslt nahi, pls aap hamari help karo pls.. Hume kou suggestions do kya kare hum, bhut paresan hai apni shaadi ko le kar, ham dono ki age bhi 29 or 27 hai.. pls sir koi bhi solution hai ya ap help kar sakte ho to kar do.. pls..

  22. hello ma ik ladki se bhout pyar karta hu par vo Yadav ha or ma Rana means Rajput. hamare ghr wale bi tyar nhi ha, ma kya kru sir, koi rasta nhi nazar aa rahaa

    • Dear friend,

      हम ने आपको ईमेल किया था पर वह ईमेल बाउन्स हो गई.

      कृपया अपने दोंनो की उम्र, अपना फोन नम्बर तथा अपनी ईमेल आई• डी• हमें पर ईमेल करें.

      ✆ आप हैल्पलाइन नम्बर 09313550006 / 09313784375 पर हम से बात भी कर सकते हैं.

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  23. hello mam, mera naam Kirti hai, mai ek Hindu ladki hu or mai ek Muslim ladke se bahut pyar karti hu or hum dono shaadi karna chahte hai but mere parents kabhi accept nai karenge meri shaadi unse ho or hum log kisi bhi kimat par shaadi karna chahte hai, plzz koi salution bataiye plzzzzz.. help me.

  24. Main ek Muslim family se hu or main ek Hindu ladki se last eight years se relationship me hu and ham dono shaadi karna chate h jiske liye hamare ghar wale kabhi nhi manège, pleas help me, hm ek dusre ke bina nhi rah payenge, pls help me pls

    • Dear friend,

      हम ने आपको ईमेल किया था पर वह ईमेल बाउन्स हो गई.

      कृपया अपने दोंनो की उम्र, अपना फोन नम्बर तथा अपनी ईमेल आई• डी• हमें पर ईमेल करें.

      ✆ आप हैल्पलाइन नम्बर 09313550006 / 09313784375 पर हम से बात भी कर सकते हैं.

      Your email ID is wrong because our reply to you has bounced.

      Please email us your age, phone number and your correct email ID to .

      ✆ Please discuss on Helpline 09313550006 / 09313784375.

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  25. hello love camando
    main ek ladki se bhut pyarr karta hu but uske gher wale uski shaadi kahi ur karna chate hai to plzz muzee kuch sultion bataao plzz plzz

  26. Sir my name Shajju Singh, my gf name Mandeep Kaur, hum eke dusre ko baht pyar krte hain pr meri gf ke father nahi mant,e ham dono shaadi krna chahte hai, plz help sir

  27. sir mera naam Kavya h or main ek Brahmin fmly se.. mere bf ka naam Saleem h nd he is a Muslm
    we realy luv each other..
    sir i can’t lead my life without him..
    meri fmly is rlsp se nakhush h or mujhe home town se kafi door bhej diya gya hai.. plz hlp us sir

  28. Hi m Pratibha, loved one boy Monty Janotra. Hum dono FB pe mile the, kafi tim frnd rhne k bd hum rlsnship mai aye, or ab hum 4 sal ho gye h rlsn mai, mere bf Jamu se hai or m Delhi se hu, hum dono ki family janti h humare rlsnship k bare mai, hum dono shaadi krna chate hai. Hum dono ka family background same h, dono k father police m h. Last week mere bf ne mere father ki tbyt kese h jane k liye ph kra unko but mere father ne usko ulta dra dhmka diya. Usko bola gya meri family ki sid se ki wo apne gr walo se bt kraye agr wo esa ni krega to mere gr wale meri shaadi khi or kra denge. Blackmail kr rhe hte uski family se bt krne k liye. usko abuse laungage m bht ulta shida bola gya hai, infact yh tk bol diya ki agr usne mere se bt ki to uske gr pe police bhej denge, jb ki mere bf ne mere father ko ulta ni bola kuch, or bs sunta rha wo kuki shocking tha uske liye yh. Usne bola bhi mere father ko 1 sal ka tim do m Pratibha se shaadi krunga usko ni shodunga. Apni family se milwaunga but mujhe tim do. Mere gr wale uske sath jbrdsti shaadi krne k liye frc kr rhe h, wo itna dr diya h bt fir bhi wo mere se bt kr rha h. Usne gr mai bhi bol diya h apne, uske gr wale bus dur hone ki wjh se dr rhe h shaadi k liye. Mera bf chahta h mere sath rehna but hum dono ko smjh ni aa rha h ki kya kre, wo chahta h ki hum apni family ko dekhe ab bus. But meko apni family pe trust ni hai kuki unhone mere bf ko jo bola uski sari recdng mane usni, use lgta h wo yh sab janke kr rhe h or mere gr walo ne meko yh bola ki monty glt ldka h hume ulta bol rha tha. I dnt know wo ku kr rhe h yh sab. Plzz help us

  29. hello sir,
    this is Amit Tiwari and my lover’s name is Aru Jha. We both are from Uttar Pradesh and currently studying B.Sc from I.SC Banaras Hindu University, Varanasi… Sir we really love each other. ek din exam ke baad main aoor Aru saath mein baithe hue the in a public place inside the university premises. Aru k papa k office k kisi worker ne dekh liya and ghar pe bata diya uske. N ab usi din se Aru ki shaadi k picche pad gye hain, uski baat hi nhi sunna chahta koi, aoor na hi mjhse milna chahte hain. bs main unse milkar yahi kahena chahta hn ki use aoor mujhe accept karein aoor hum dono ko graduation complete karne ka time de. main unse yeh promise karna chahta hun ki main apne aap ko establish karunga aoor acchi post par jaunga aoor agar main nahi kar paya to jo wo kahnge wahi fir hoga. Sir Aru kaise rah rahi hai main hi janta hn, bahut torture karte hain, bahut ganda bolte hain… Aru ke papa BHU mein hi employee hain aoor mere papa Army mein Juniour Commissioned Officer (JCO) hain. par uske ghar wale kahete hain ki main joonth hn. I have the proof. Sir hum dono ek dusre ko bahut pyar karte hain. Please help us. Love Commandos k bare mein mujhe Satyamev Jayate k episode “Is Love A Crime” se pata chala.

  30. Hi Love Commandos
    I want help for my future and counselling for my love life under confidential privacy.
    I have no Facebook or other connections via which I can talk to u. or cannot attend calls for long hours. I want whatsap connection and immediate chat with u. can I trust u. I search on net first time.

  31. Sare lovers ki tarah meri bhi prblm lagbhag same h, intercaste or parents manne k liy ready nahi h, ab hmlog kya kare, din raat tention m rahte h, kuch kaam bhi nahi kar pa rahe h … hm dono 21 yrs k h, bs agar aap kuch kar sakte h to pls kijiy fast, uski shaadi kahi ofixed ho rahi h

  32. Hello Sir,
    I am 25 yrs old and the person i love is also of same age but different caste. His parents have agreed for marriage but my parents haven’t. We have tried so many different ways to make them understand from past 3 yrs but failed. All i want is my parents to get me married to the person i love happily and i don’t want to lose them at any cost neither i can marry someone else. Kindly suggest solution to this problem
    Thanking you

  33. hello sir, myself Sagar. m ek ladki s pyar krta hu, vo bhi mjhe bhut pyar krti h. hum dono shaadi krna chahte h. plz help us.
    contact: ##########, ##########

  34. Hello
    Sir, my name is Rahul, m ek ladki se pyr krta hu, hum shaadi krna chatey h pr problem ye h ki hum chatey h ki hamari famliy maan jay pr wo nahi maan rahey kiyo ki hamri caste alg alg h, bhut koshis key bad meri bhi wo log nahi maan rahey or ladki pr uskey fmly waley usko prestion kr rahey h, hum dono govt job ki taiyari bhi nahi kr pa rahey h hamri is tnstion key karan, please ab humko shaadi krni h, ap help kijiye please, apkey brey m mujko newspaper se pta chal, sir plz

  35. Hello sir
    Mera name Roshan hain, main ek ldki se bhot pyar krta hu, 5 yr se hum sath main hain, ab hame shaadi kr ni hai. Par ladki Muslim hain n main Hindu hu, uske ghr wale nai maan re hain na mere, sir jo bhi hain mujhe Sana se hi shaadi krni hain, meri help kijiye sir kch, kya kru main

  36. Hello sir..
    Sir mera naam Mohit hai, main ek ladki se bhutt pyaar karta hu, wo bhi mujhse bhutt lyaar karti hai, dono hi achi family se hai or dono ki hi same caste hai.. par uske ghar wale taiyar ni hai mere se shaadi karne ke liye, problem ye hai main private job karta hu… bhutttt tension mai rehte hai hum dono.. plsss sir kuch help karo humari…

  37. I’m Satish Kumar, loved one girl (Aishwarya). Her parents are not accepting our love. They are doing emotional blackmail. So she can’t understand what to do. Main problem is caste. In my family all are accepted. She is also more interested on me. I can’t live without her. So pls give me the solution.

  38. sir, i am in deep trouble. we both completed our MBA nd we want to tie knot with each other. i am belongs to Kaystha (Shrivastava) and she is from SC (Silwat). at first day we reach to her parents they are totally agree with me. but caste problem arise and they refuse to accept our relation. sir we are in love for last 8 year, even i spent lots of time with her family also. so sir i don’t want to do court marriage bcoz my family is agree. i want your valuable suggestion in our metter. plz help me at 0##########

  39. Mae ek ladki se bahut jyada pyar karta hoon aur wo bhi mujhe bahut pyar karti hai lekin uske family wale jabardasti uski shaadi kisi or ladke ke sath kara rahe hai, please mujhe koi solution batao mae kya karu, help me

  40. I love a girl from 4 years.
    We both want to marry. But she afraid from her father, she told that he is very aggressive person. I can’t live without her.
    Please help me to marry with her.

  41. I am facing emotional blackmail by my parents to get married. I don’t want to marry without their permission but they are just keep pressuring me emotionally to get married with their choice. When this society will understand?

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