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Love Commandos is a voluntary organization in India dedicated to helping India’s lovebirds who want to marry for love. We provide assistance in protecting couples, helping them fight harassment and giving them shelter so they can marry freely.

Mr. Sanjoy Sachdev
Chairman
Mr. Harsh Malhotra
Chief Co-Ordinator

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  1. hi.

    im from Bannu, KPK, Pakistan. i read abt you ppl on BBC Urdu webite. wowwww!!! hats off!!! you ppl deserve salutes!!

    no more honor killings!!! we need it.. whether it is India or whether it is Pakistan.. KPK, Bannu!!

    keep it up!!! Allah ll help you!!

    with kind regards

  2. With Love From Your neighbor

    Respected Mr. Sanjoy Sachdev & Mr. Harsh Malhotra

    I am Abdur Rauf from Peshawar, Pakistan.
    I was reading today BBC Urdu story about your fantastic efforts for lovers in this subcontinental conservative society.

    First of all I appreciate your struggle again and again. Love Commandos idea really pushed me to do some thing for such couple on this side of the border too.
    Honor killing is a routine news in Pakistan if we could safeguard someone life and provide shelter it is more better than other activities in this world.

    In my religion “Jis nay aik insan ki jan bachai goya oos nay puri insaniat ko bacha dia“.

    You are great people
    Wish you best of luck
    Abdur Rauf
    Peshawar

  3. Hi All Love Commandos.

    First I salute you for your courageous and such divine work as society doesn’t care about the feelings of youth.

    I am Rakesh (28) my native place is Bihar but I was born and bought up in Ludhiana, Punjab. I am software programmer and having a job in Surat, Gujarat. I luv a Gujarati girl, she is 25, we are in love since 2 years. She had spoken about our marriage to her father, but he is very unhappy with that and does not want to accept me as his son-in-law as I am Bihari and they are Gujaratis, so he thinks that I may be not be able to keep his daughter happy or some other negative thoughts about me. That is untrue, me and my gf are in love and have planned everything in life, be it children, their studies, buying new home, almost everything.

    Her father has threatened us to kill if we marry, even if I go through legal procedure, there is a serious threat from her father’s side.
    Kindly suggest in this regard. I know you don’t operate in Surat, I just need a suggestion, what to do and how to go about it.

    Once again. Many salutes to you guys. Keep good work continue.
    May God Bless You.

  4. Hello dearest,
    Main aapke group ko join karna chahta hu iske liye mujhe kya karna hoga uski sari details de.
    – Sumit Mishra.

    ##############@gmail.com
    (##########)

  5. Hello Sir,
    Mai LUCKNOW ka rahne wala hoon, mai ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hoon, mai Muslim hoon or ladki Hindu hai .. na hi mujhe is chiz se koi aitraz hai or nahi larki ko … uske ghar walo ko ham dono ke baare me pata chal chuka hai, ab use ghar se nikalne bhi nahi dete.. uske father police me hain mujhe usse bhi koi dikkat nahi lekin ham log kuch bhi karker arrange mrg karna chahtey hain, ham dono hi bhaagne ke khilaaf hain, isme hamari or unki dono ki bezzati hogi, please sir aap log hi kuch raasta nikale.
    thank you !!

  6. I am an Indian girl who lives in Norway. Me and my family saw a documentary about Love Commandos. I just want to say keep working and be proud of yourself, because you are doing an amazing job!

  7. Hi sir, i want to need your help. Bcoz ye meri zindagi ka fasla h. Main ek ladki se bahut pyaar karta hu or wo bhi karti, wo Muslim h or me Hindu hu, jish wajh se ushke papa ish riste k liye tayar nhi h. Humne har kosish kar k dekh li but hum nakam rahe, ladki apne papa k khilaf jakar shaadi karne ko tayar nhi h but sath hi sath mere bina jine ko bhi tayar nhi h. Ish liye ab humne sath marne ka fasla kiya h. Agar aap ish case me humari koi madad kar sake to hum aapka ye ehsan jindagi bhar nhi bhulenge

    Ankit Choudhary
    ##########

  8. respected sir,

    i just want to make our world a better place to live. nd for that i want to join you in your work. please contact me.

    thank you.

  9. I am a girl who lives in Norway. I am Pakistani but born here in Norway. I saw a documentary about what you guys do and your job. I became very happy when i saw how you help two people who love each other. And its amazing to see that its still people in this world who still believe in Love. Keep working!! You guys are doing an amazing job. You guys should be very proud of yourself. I am also in this kind of situation right now and it was a coincidence that i saw that documentary. I am in a long distance relationship and my parents and whole family got to know about it. They didn’t threaten me but they said they will kill him if i didn’t leave him and stop talking to him. Right now we are pretending that we don’t have any contact just to show my family that i am not talking to him. If i could i would have left my family but then this honor comes in my way. I love my Family but they don’t understand me. Because of this my life have changed a lot and i’ve become very depressed. I have talked with many people here who stand by my side but its not much help. The only thing i can do is wait. That’s what i think… it would be great if i got some suggestions from you guys. Is it right to leave your family for someone you really love? My parents have raised me and helped me through my life, i don’t want to hurt them but i can’t leave him either… Is honor more important than Love?
    And once again keep it up!

  10. Sir mujhe jaana h ki jis ladki se m shaadi karna chata hu uski age 19 saal h lekin document m wo 17 saal ki h, sir mujhe us se abhi shaadi karni h lekin kaise kar sakta hu ye bta dijye,
    Sir document m uske pass Aadhar Card h bass or wo alag caste se h or m alag, sir uske ghar m pta chal gya h jis se mujhe pta h ki us ke ghar wale nhi manenge

  11. Please help me please….. I am in a great problem…. mere parents mujhe bhut maar rhe h…. main ek ladke se bhut pyaar karti hu…. aur apni puri life uske saath spend karna chahti hu…. Please help me

    Kya kare hum log….. wo ladka Muslim h aur main Hindu Brahmin…. bus isi reason ki wajah se mere parents maan ni rhe h….. wo b mujhse bhut pyaar karta h……
    Priyanka Vyas – ##.##.####
    Rashid Kalam – ##.##.#### ….. ##########

  12. Namskar sir mera naam Pushpendra he, me Rajput caste ka hu or jis ldhaki se me pyar krta hu vo Patidar yani ki dusri caste ki he, hm dono ke relationship ko 6 saal ho chuke he or hm ek dusre ke bina nai reh pa rahe, me uske bina jee hi nai paunga, me usse shaadi karna chahta hu, sir pr problem he family wale mere papa mma nai maan re he kyu ki vo dusri caste ki he pr me chahta hu ki mere ghar waale maan jaye or hmari ache se shaadi ho jaye, mere ghar wale bhot ache he, pyar krte he pr meri baat nai smjh pa rahe or me kafi time se koshish kr ra hu unhe smjhane ki pr vo meri baat nai sunte, meri jaan he jo jisse me bhot pyar krta hu usse meri baat bhi nai ho pati kafi time ho gya or vo pagal usne jher bhi khaa liya thaa pr mujhe pta he usse mere hote huwe to kuch nahi hoga pr ab bs me jyada time tk wait nai kr skta, me chahta hu ki ab hm jaldi mil jay kyu ki me kese jee ra hu ye me hi janta hu, me net pe bhot kuch dekhta hu ghar walo ko kese mnau ya puja path sb kuch pr jb aapke baare me mujhe net se pta chala to lga ki bhagwan ne hi ye ek rasta dikhya he shayd ab kuch ho jaye, aap se hath jodh kr prathna krta hu ki plz kuch nirakrn kre, mujhe ummid he aap meri baat smjh rhe honge, mujhe aap ke jwab ka inzar rhega, thanku sir

  13. Bhai mai Dinesh Kumar, mai ek ldki se pyar krta hu, wo bhi mujhse utna hi pyar krti hai, hmne bhag ke shaadi kr liya 18 Aug 2015 ko pr hmne socha ghr walo ko mana ke sath rhna chahte hai aur mera ek baby hai 7 mnth ka, mai kissi ko khona nhi chhata, mai usase aur apne baby se bhut pyar krta hu, agr wo dono nhi mile syd mai is duniya me rhu
    Wo Faridabad me rhti hai, plz aap log marri help kr de, jo kuch bhi apko chahiye mai dane ko ready hu pr mera pyar mujhe mil jaye gi

  14. Hum bhi aapki organisation se judna chahte hain,
    ham apki poori help karenge, pls sir give me one chance to prove it…..
    nd sir plzzz help me … mujhe bhi love marriage karni hai .. other religious me … so what is process plzz ?

  15. sir maie bhut aap k liye parthna kruga k aap bhut acha km kr rhe he.. aur sir maie b aap k jesa bnnana chata hu… agar aap muje aap k is jo bhut acha rasta he aur muje us layak smze toh muje aap k is sfar maie shamil kre.. tki maie kisi ki help kr k khush ho sku.. maie bhut khushnsib houga jo is jung maie ap k paw k niche rhkr kary kru.. .

  16. Mai Baniya caste se hu or wo Pandit hai jise mai bahut pyaar karta hu or wo v mujhe bahut pyar karti h par kuch din pahle uski shaadi tai ho rahi thi kisi or se to wo us ladke ko bata di mere bare me or uske ghar me pata chal gaya or use khub mara gaya or mujhe call karke dhamkaya v gaya k mai chhod du use nhi to mujhe or meri family ko mar denge. unlogo k dhamki k wajah se mai bol diya k thik h hamlog alag rahenge ab par nhi rah payenge hamlog alag, wo call ki mujhe or batai k uske ghar me bahut dukh de rahe h wo log or wo ghar se nikal nhi sakti hai, mai usse shaadi karna chahta hu, mai ek software engineer hu fir v wo log caste k wajah se nhi man rahe, usse bol rahe k pandit hota to kar dete. Kuch idea bataiye kya karna chahiye, hamlog nhi rah payenge ek dusre se dur.

  17. dear sir,

    sir me aap sab ko salam karna chaunga kyoki do pyar karnewalo ko milna woh aap log bhagvan ka kaam kar rahe ho, sir muje ye kehte hue saram ati k kyo hamare hi desme pyarke dusman he, agar ye des bhagvanno ka and bahut dharmik he to kyu yaha pe do pyar karne walo ko nahi milne dete, aisa kyu hota he, sir bhagvan bhi yah nahi chahte k intercaste marriage na ho balki woh to chahte he ki sab log apas me pyar kare jab ki hamara samvidhan bhi is baat ki liye raji he, sir mere ko lagata he ki kyona sab pyar karnewalo sab milke court me ye darkhast kare ki inke liye ek special law hona chahiye and asa hona chaiye ki koi bhi vyakti agar koi do lovers ko milne me interefere ya koi bhi narajgi vyakt kare to uske uper kadi se kadi saza mile.

    i am proud of your team, sir i saluted to your team

  18. Sir I am Sunny Saini from Panipat, m ek ladki se bahut pyar krta hu, vo bhi mujhse bahut pyar krti h, meri family ready h shaadi karwane ke liye but unki family nhi chahti, sir uske date of birth certificate m uska name change h or usme Preeti ki jagah Priyanka h sir or sare document m Preeti h or usme date of birth 23 June 1999 h or uske date of birth certificate m uski date of birth 29 Sep 1997 h, sir uske gharwale usko bahar tak nhi niklane dete so m document bhi nhi de skta, sir m kya kru pls help me

  19. Hello sir, mera naam Moin hai, mai ak ladki se pyar karta hun, wo bhi mujhse bhot pyar karti hai, hamare relation 3 sal se hai aur ladki ke ghar wale shaadi ke liye tayyar nhi ho rahe hai, ham dono Muslim hai bs caste alag hai, plzzz help me sir.

  20. Hi

    Mera name Kush hai, mai ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu or wo bhi mujhse karti hai, ham dono ke relation ko 3 saal ho gye, ham dono ki caste alag hai lekin uske gharke log hame bahot parshan karte hai, pls help me

  21. Sir m ek ladki se pyar krta hu or uske ghr wale man ni rhe h or na hi use bt krne de rhe h, or ghar se bhar b ni aane de rhe, mere ghar wale unke ghr gye the, unhone koi jawab nhi diya, eska koi upay btaye

  22. Sir, I am Hindu boy love’s a Momedian girl, She also loves me a lot, we are both doing MBA bt suddenly uske bhai ko hum dono k relationship k baare me pata chala, my love beg for our relationship in font of her brother bt he is not agree, aur usne uske liye uske Mama k ladke ko fix karwaye jise wo apna bhai bolti thi aaj tk, usase bina puche, She wants to marry with me bt not against her parents, what should we do sir, pls help us sir. Give some advice

  23. Hi

    Mera name Kush hai, mai ek ladki se bahut pyar karta hu or wo bhi mujhse karti hai, ham dono ke relation ko 5 saal ho gye, ham dono ki caste alag hai, maine uska sath kabhi nhi chhoda pichle 2 saal, wo alag hona chahti h apni family k liya but aj tak nhi ho paye, maine finaly apni family ko mana lia h but uske father ki death ho gye hai Feb 2016 mai or ab usse dar hai ki agar ab wo zid karegi shaadi k liya tho samaj bolega bap gya ni ladki maan ki ho gye, pahle uski mummy ready thi but kuch din unhone bhi na boldia, uske mana ne bola ham tumse rista tod dene, ye shaadi hue tho, mai uske ghar bhi gya tha, uski mummy k samne hath jode unke pair pakde lekin unhone mana kar dia or ab wo ladki bhi apni maa k liya khud ko pathar bana rakha mai, uske bina jeena soch bhi ni sakta, mai kya karu plsss help

  24. Hello sir,
    My problem is quite different. we are heavily love each other from last ten years. Our religions are different. in 2014 we decided to saperate. she married with a boy who was her relative and likewise her i too. our marriages date was so close. After the day of marrage she leaved home and said me i can’t live without you. I embarrassed. I was confused what should i do? My married wife was in my house and my love saying me i can not live without u. When my wife knew all event she left me and filed a divorce petition in court last year. My love’s husband also filed a divorce petition. My love is living with her parents but they torture her every time. What can i do in this critical situation please guidance me…. We both want to marry each other…..

  25. Dear sir, my self Faijan Akhtar. mai Ramgarh, Jharkhand se hu. sir hme aj pta chi hm log ke India me koi yesa vi org hai jo is type ka shaport krte hai. Sir really ye bhut attchi kam hai. hmare India me lakho log yese hai jo inter caste mareg ya love marage kr ke dr dr bhatk rhe hai. sir hme vi ap ke org ke sath kam krni hai or yese log ko help krna chte hai jise uske ghr wale vi shaport nhi krte. so sir how can I join your org. plz tell me.

  26. hello sir… m ek ladke se 8 years se pyr krti hu… mere family ko uske bare me 2 times pata b chal gya h.. Hm dono intercaste h.. uski family agree h but meri family agree ni h. m use shaadi krna chahti hu..
    Mr. Dev ##########

  27. hello sir,
    I am a Muslim boy pursuing BSc. from Hyderabad, I love a girl belongs to Bengal and I belongs to UP, we both love each other more than our lives but when the girl’s family came to know about us, they took my girl friend to home tortured her, she called me and told me everything, she want her study and then marry with me but her parents are not accepting our relation, we can’t live without each other.
    please help me! please team member help us! we shall highly obliged please. You are the last hope.

  28. Sir plz contact me, need your help…. I am 27 year old and my love is 26 year… We want to marry each other… We both are post graduate and have done M.Pharma, I am working in Delhi as Pharma co-vigilance office and my gf is assistant sub inspector Pharmacist in CRPF… I have convinced my family but girls parents are against our marriage as we are not of same caste, I’m Rajput and she is Pandit…. but we are determined to marry each other… girls father once has beaten her and also said to kill me too… he is in police… I am very scared… plz if you can do any thing plz help….

  29. sir i need help from u … i m Nisha .. mere parents meri intercaste marriage k liye ni mann rhe, ldka SC caste ka h aur 12 pass h aur printing ka km krta h .. mai B.Com graduate hu .. uske ghar wale jb hi accept krege jb mere manege .. bhag k shaadi krne ko tyar ni .. mere ghar wale mann ni rhe, unhone mujhe mara bhi .. plzz help me plzzzz. plz hmari help kro aur shaadi krwa do sir …

    plz help me sir .. plz my parents not accept my marriage proposal

  30. hi sir/mem

    mera naam Neeraj Yogi (22) hain, aur main Jaipur ke paas ek gaanv me rahtaa hu. me ek ladki se bahut pyaar karta hu, jiskaa naam Nisha (17) hai. ham dono ek dusare se shaadi karna chahte hai magar hamara shaath sabhi dosto ne chhod diya hai. baat yah hai ki Nisha ke father ne bachpan me uske sath kai baar shaaririk shoshan kiya hai aur ab bhi jab ghar par koi nahi hota hai to fir se ese moke ki tlash me rahte hai, aur uski mom ka bhi kai bahari logo se affair hai. kuch dino pahle (18 March) ko uski mom ko hamare baare me pta lag gya tha to usne apne kisi premi ke sath milker use itna maara ki uske haath pero me bahut drd hone lag gya aur wo bhi lgatar 2-3 din tak. aur use ye bhi kaha ki agar usne dubaare se mujhse milne ya baat krne ki koshish ki to wo mujhe bhi maarenge. es karan usane kai dino tk mujhse baat nhi ki, mgr kuch dino ke baad moka milne pr usne kisi ka phone lekr mujhse baat ki aur mujhe sabkuch btaya. fir hmne bhagkar shaadi krne ka fesla kiya. aur hm dono hi es baat ke liye puri trah se taiyar hai.

    uski mom uski shaadi Delhi k kisi ldke ke sath kr rhi hai, jo ki anpadh hai aur Nisha ko bilkul bhi pasnd nhi hai. Nisha abhi minor hai, vo agle saal 13 April ko meture ho jayegi. mgr uske parents uski shaadi isi saal September k lghbhg me kar rhe hai. ab mujhe nahi pta ki Nisha ko uske parents ne kya bolkar draya hai ki usne mujhe ye kaha hai ki vo mujhse shaadi nahi kar skti. or agr meri aur Nisha ki shaadi nahi hui to mere paas suside ke alaawa aur koi rasta nhi rahega. me use chhod nhi skta aur uske bina ji nhi skta. please please meri help kijiye aur btaiye ki me use kese himmt du aur kese mnau. sirf aap hi meri aakhiri ummid bache hai, kyoki mere paas koi bhi helper nhi hai. agr Jaipur me aapki team ke members hai ya koi esa hai jo hmari help kar skta ho to please unhe mujhse contact karne ke liye kahiye ya unse contact karne ka aur meet krne ka mujhe koi rasta btaiye. ab aap hi mere god ho aur aap hi schchhe dost. PLEASE HELP ME.

    name- Neeraj Kumar Yogi
    mobile no.- 0##########
    mail id- ############@gmail.com
    address – ##########, Jaipur – ##

  31. The union of a man and a woman is not something to be bought or bartered or as a negotiation. It is something beautiful that is felt by two people who want to be forever together and become family, no one has the right to choose for them. Love Commandos is a blessing for this who fall in love unconditionally. I pray that God protects them, and gives them the abundance they need to continue to protect true love.

  32. Sir I’m a Dalit boy, I’m loving a Jain girl for 8 years, I’m pursuing my B.E degree now, after the completion of my degree I wanna marry my girl, my girl love me a lot and will your organisation help me, sir I’m from Tamil Nadu

  33. All members whether directly or indirectly who is helping of love birds whether financialy or any other mode whatever name called…. I slaute all those people who Help love birds or Motivate lovers…. and last but not least … Give shelter is most important thing …….

    May be one day I’ll also contact you fr my love, be there for me ……….

    Keeep Going…………..

  34. Love Commandos is a voluntary organization in India dedicated to helping India’s lovebirds who want to marry for love.

  35. I want to know how government react with your organization. Police help or harass. what issue work in ur group. how it help to secret agenda.

    If the couple r in much problem. How will ur team help him.. if they want to get marriage then what will ur plan first to do it. if they belonging to rural area how will ur team go with police or simply

  36. dear sir me bahut hi poor middle class family se hu, aur profesion se pharmacist hu. mera dead sal se hamari hi relatives me Rupali nam ki ladki se pyar tha, aur hum dono 2 Dec 2015 me bhag gaye the. aur hum sidha vahanse Kolhapur me gaye. vha per mandir me dono ne ek dusre se shaadi karli, lekin hamara witnees koi nahi tha aur hamane tasvir bhi nahi nikali. fir humne vaha per bhade se room liya aur 2.5 mahina hum vaha par rahe, room malak aur nebur hmare witness hai. lekin jaise hi humne ghar phone kiya to ghar valo ne hume bula liya aur hum vapas aa gaye. lekin ladki unke hawale gai to uske ghar wale jhabardasti usko marne ki dhamki dekar sab ulta bulva rahe hai lekin ladaki mujhse bahot pyar karti thi aur mai bhi use jan se jyada pyar karata hu lekin ladaki thodi dar gai hai aur jab tak unke kabje me hai tab tak unki taraf se bol rahi hai, aur unhone PSI ko nc de rakhi hai, mai bahot tention me hu, sir please muje us ladki se milvakar shaadi kara do

    ladki ne dar ke mare mere khilap bol diya to mujhe kuch hona nahi chahiye sir, isliye me bahut soch raha

    aur mai ye kahana chahata hu ki ap jab karavai shuru karenge to mujhe bhi involve hona padega kya. kyun ki mai dar dar ke bahar hi ji raha hu kyun ki uske ghar walo ne mujhe kahi par bhi mila to mar dalne ki dhamki di hai. aur mai kabhi kabhi uske ulava sucide karne ki sochatha hu. sir please mujhe help kijiyga. mai bahot disturb hu. bahot pareshan hu, sir pleeeeese mujhe help kijiye.

    sir mai aur kahana chahta hu ki agar ladki uske ghar walo ke presure me ya emotional hokar mere against me kahe to me police ke chakar me phasunga to nahi na sir. ladki sirf unke samne hi aisa kahegi, agar use tum mere pas le ke aye to turant mere side se bolegi. mai abhi Ulhasnagar me hu aur ladki ko uske gaon Dist. Dhule, Maharashtra me rakha hai.

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  38. Sir me apni gf se bhut pyar krta hu. Me usse shaadi krna chata hu par mere ghar wale ni maan rhe h. me usse but pyar krta hu, me usse khona ni chata hu… plz meri help kro guru g plz, me apka esan kbi ni buluga guru g

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