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Love Commandos is a voluntary organization in India dedicated to helping India’s lovebirds who want to marry for love. We provide assistance in protecting couples, helping them fight harassment and giving them shelter so they can marry freely.

Mr. Sanjoy Sachdev
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Mr. Harsh Malhotra
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  1. hi friends… mai apne bare me kuch bhi likhne se pehle sirf itna janna chahta hu ki aap sab logo ne apni problems yaha likhi hain… kya kisi ko love commandos ki taraf se call ya mail aya hai? kya love commandos ne kisi ki bhi problem padne ke baad usse contact kiya hai? yes or no plz jarur bataiye… coz agar sach me koi help karta hai ya contact karta hai to mujhe bhi help ki ummeed hogi love commandos se warna yaha likh likh ke koi fayda nahi hai isse to achcha ye hai ke khud hi koi rasta dhundha jaye ya fir mar jau….

  2. Sir M ek Ladki Se Bahut Bahut Pyar Karta Hu Jo Mere Hi Cast Ki Hai Wo Jab 6th Class M Padti THi Tab Se Hi Hamara Love Afair Hai Sir Hamare Love Afair Ko 7 Years Ho Gaye Hai Uske Ghar Wale Bahut Danger Hai Unko Hamare Afair Ka BAre M Pata Hai Lekin Wo Mujhe Accept Nhi Karna Chahte Hai In 7years M Uske Papa Ne Mere Sath 10th Time Jagda KIya Aur Use Bhi Khub Mara Ab Wo April 2012 m 18years Ki Ho Chuki Hai Usne Uske Ghar Walo Ko Bhi Mere Kiye Bol Diya Hai Ki M Shadi Karungi To Sirf usi Se PAr Uske Ghar Wale Teyyar Nhi H AbHamne BHag Kar Shadi KArne KA Faisla Kar Liya H Sir Me Aapke Paas Aakar Shadi Karna Chahta Hu PLZ SIR PLZ PLZ Help Mi Sir Mere Paas Aapka Add Nhi Hai PLZ Call N Address Dedo Sir PLZ M 10-15 Dino M Usse Shadi Karna Chahta Hu My No.- ##########

  3. Dear friend,

    First of all let us make clear to everyone that there is nothing as Court Marriage. Courts only register marriages in HMA or such or allows marriages in SMA.
    Law on compulsary registration of marriages has not been passed and it is not necessary to get a marriage registered. Marriage is a marriage.secondly the Indian Parliament had way back in 1978 omitted the provision of guardianship in marriages and all should keep it in mind. Under the law only a boy marries a girl or a girl marries a boy. Families and Parents have no role what soever.
    The police also and always registers cases u/s 363 or 366 against the boys. It is violation of standing guidelines issued by the Hon’ble Supreme court.

    You may have some more questions and may write to us 

  4. Dear Aakash,

    solution is court marriage agar aapko g.f aapka saath de sake to……agar usko apne gharwalo se pyaar hai aur aur unka izzar bhi karti hai to saayd aapka kaam hona muskil hoga….kaee baar legal case mein ya police case mein girls dar jati hai aur vo ladko apne boy.f ka saath na dekar use apne gharwalo ka sath dena padta hai …aur musibat ladke pe aa jati hai ……..bus mera yehi kehna hai ki aap dono court marriage kar lo aap dono safe rahoge …ek baar court marrg kar loge to aap dono safe bhi rahoge aur gharvale aap dono ke baare mein sochne pe majboor ho jayenge…..  

  5. Dear Sir

    main Dhanbad ka rhnewala hu. abhi main kolkata m Chartered Accountant ka course kar rha hu. meri girlfriend ka naam Sudha Kumari h. mera mummy papa is saadi ko le kar raji h lekin sudha k mummy papa raji nhi h. Q ki humlog ka Cast alag h or usko jor jabardasti saadi karwaya ja rha h. sudha mera sath aane ko ready the lekin uska mummy papa usko dhamki deye h ki agar tum Pintu k sath saadi karege to pintu ka sister k sath galat kaam karege or Pintu ko mar kar fak denge. main Sudha k leye CA karne K sath – sath job v kiya tha uske leye paisa v zama kiya tha lekin abhi usko room m lock kar k rkha ja rha h. agar Sudha humko nhi mele to hum mar jayege or Sudha v mar jayege………..

    Plz Sir humlog ka help kijeye

    Name – Pintu Kumar
    Add:- C/o. Raju Kushwaha, Vikash Nagar, Bank More Dhanbad -826001 
    Contact no.- ########## / ##########

  6. Hi I am Anubhav 26 year old & working in a reputed company.
    I hertily love my girl friend. I want to marry her but her parents not ready for this marriage because my girl friend is my sister’s sister-in-law.
    so Please help me anyway. I can’t alive without her.

    Regards,
    Anubhav

  7. Hi I am Renu I am a physically challanged girl. I am a thakur I love a guy he is from Pune, Maharashtra. We both want to get married my family was earlier not aggree but i convienced them and now his family and friends are against this marriage because of my disability and caste as he is a normal and handsome guy. Please help me becoause now he is also denying under familly and friends pressure please save my life as i can’t live without him. 

    • Hi Renu,

      jaisa aapne kaha ki aap physically challanged ho duniya me bahot se log aise log hai isliye kabhi aap apne aap ko kisi se chota mat samajhna aur agar wo aapko abhi deny kar raha hai family pressure me aake to iski kya gurrenty hai ki saadi ke baad wo aapko pressure me aake divorce na de

      i don’t know may be i am wrong per aapko intzaar karna chahiye kya aapka pyaar itna kamzor hai ki kisi ke convince karne pe aap alag ho jaye kisi ne sach hi kaha hai ki agar aapka pyaar laut ke aata hai to wo aapka hai aur agar nahi aata to samjho wo kabhi aapka tha hi nahi …….

  8. I respect your saying but it is the country where Akbar has married with Jodha. Social values never gets disturbed by Love or arrange marriage. Love has no limit, no boundaries and no shape.

    After reading your article, I will say this is more of individual families basic values and social knowledge which doesn’t get properly inherited from their families. Live-in-Relationship are not love but its running away from the responsibilities which are again basic family values should have been tough from the parents. So a Girl/boy child has proper nourishment from childhood, he will be keep doing well after love marriage as well and respect the partners feeling.

    Both type of marriages are successful the only basic thing required is responsible partners.

    Ajay

  9. hi sir…….

    mera Naam Nikhil hai.. and M ek Ladki si Love kARta hu . hm dono shadi karna chahte hai… hm intercast nahi hia…. court marriage karna chahte hai.!

    kya aap hame bta sakte hai ki. iske liye kya process hai or kitna time lag jayega!

  10. Hello sir,

    Please help me my bright future, after 18 i will get to the married, but my parents is not a agree for my love marriage so please tell me what can i do………………..

  11. Hi team,
    I am 24 years old boy and i love a girl who belongs to meena caste from rajasthan. my family is completely agree for our marriage but her father and mother is not ready for intercaste marriage. My family convinced them but they denied but we both want to marry and spent our life together. So we have got marry recently in arya samaj mandir but didnt tell her family because their family is VERY ORTHODOX they are warning me if i wil get marry their daughter they will kill me as well as her..But I will tell them about our marriage soon but after that i dnt know what happen will b done. 

    Sir please suggest me the way which i can convince them for our marriage happily.. GIVE ME SUGGESTION VERY SOON BECAUSE I DONT HAVE MUCH TIME THEIR PARENTS LEFT HER TO THE RAJASTHAN DAYS AGO.. PLZ HELP ME I M VERY TENSED…  

  12. Dear Sir,

    I am 25 year old boy and i love a girl so much more than my life and she is also. But problem is that my family members is ready to marry with her but her family members not ready to marry because according to them i am inter caste. we both trying to conivence them but they are not ready her family no about me and about family.

    Sir tell as the way to conivence them. 

  13. i lov a boy but my mother always get sick whn i told her that i love him, plz tell me wht can i do bcoz everyone says that my mother will die if i do luv marriage, i can’t leave him as i am in relation frm last 7 years
     

    • my boyfriend wants to get married with me but my mom is heart patient and she is sick from the day she came to know about my love, wht can I do plz tellme I don’t wnt to loose my mom and also my love…………..I hav 2 wait 4 sum time or I run frm home, we both r planning to migrate 2 abroad 4 study but it is only possible if we do marriage as we want to apply 4 spouse visa and his parents r enforcing us both 2 do marriage in High Court,,,, how can I ensist my mom ,,,,plz reply me soon as we don’t hav much time I hav 2 choose my mom or my love and I don’t wnt 2 loose anyone,,,,,,,,,,,,plz pray 4 me…………..the main problem in our love is different caste but I don’t believe in all dis

    • Hi Ria,

      Felt really bad after reading your situation but I know a friend who were in your situation,but they came abroad and saved thier lives.

      However ,I will say go abroad and live happily after year or so your parents will be happy.

      • thanks anand as i was thinking 2 leave him but no i w’ll not leave him plz pray 4 me. Aap sab ko mera dukh dikh raha hai but why not my parents are realizing they say thode dino tak sab bhul jaoge
         

    • i can’t make a call as my parents had taken my cell wid them,,,plz respnd me through mail on my id,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,it’s urgent
       

    • I don’t care 4 my life…. actually my life is not in danger but my mom w’ll die if I go abroad I as I tell u she is heart patient and my father expired 12 yrs ago…wht d next step whch i hav 2 take respond immedtly

      • Hi Ria, please let me know if you find solution to this problem. My mother in law also get sick when my future wife try to speak about me with her. Our relation is 9 year old & I am trying to overcome from this situations..Thanks and All the best.

        – Ajay 

        • hi ajay, actually my all relatives are enforcing 2 leave my love and they all r giving me sympathy 2 leave him, but i can’t think my life without him. my uncle had taken me 2 their home so that i can forget him and i’m not able 2 make a call 2 him as they hav taken my phn but they don’t know dat lov is in hearts not by making long calls. i’ll wait if my boyfriend w’ll agree 2 wait 4 me(as he is thinking ki agar tumhare parents aaj nhi mane to 2 saal k baad bi nhi manege)  
           then i’ll keep trying 2 get my love as i remember him in each and every thing afterall we hav spend 6 years together. i hope he also loves me a lot. plz tell me he is right as he is saying i’ll talk 2 you only if u marry me in futuregv. plz pray 4 me i can’t live without him, kisi or se shadi krne se to acha ki ma mar jau or spend whole life in his memories.  

    • sir, my parents are refusing my love just bcoz their thinking is ” lov marriage kabhi safal nhi hoti’ plz tell me it’s just addiction of lov which don’t allow me 2 come out of my love, actually i,m thinking i’ll die without my lov 

  14. main aapki baat ko sunkar bahut shocked hoon, ki jatiya aur baki formalities humare desh main dilon ke milan se jyada mayne rakhti hain. anyways, yeh india main bahut common hai. main aap se sirf itna kahunga ke aap apni madad khud hi kar sakti hain. aap kisi insaan ko nahi badal sakti agar aap use badlna chahti hain toh behtar hoga aap uski soch ko, tendency ko mansikta ko badlne ki koshish karein. aap unhe yeh sawal poonchiye ke aap jis dharm aur smaaj ke liye humein milne se rok rahe hain usi dharm ke kis panne pr likha hai ke pyar main jatiyan jaroori hai, ya ishwar ne jis insaan ko aapke liye chuna hoga, aapki jati dekhkar chuna hoga. ya phir aap mere banaye gaye page par likhe gaye articels unhe padhwaiye, i hope unki soch jaroor badlegi. maine sabhi dharmik granthon ka adhyayan kiya hai. kahin koi eisa rule ya regulation nahi hai jo aapko apna manpasnd jeevan sathi chun’ne se roke.
    isliye unki soch ko badlana bahut jaroori hai.

    https://www.facebook.com/is.love.a.crime

    yeh mere page ki link hai. mera bhi yahi vison hai ke main logon ki tendency ko badloon. jis se kisi bhi pyar karne wale ko kahin koi taqleef na ho…
    ummed karta hoon ishwar aapko honsla dega aur aapki har roop main madad karega.
    bus himmat mat harna, aur kabhi haar nahi man’na, chahe koi bhi kimat chukani pade.

     

  15. sir i love a gal frm last 3 years..m 20  yrs old n she is plus 18..v both love each othr a lot..her prnts gt to knw abt it n her dad went to his frnd whu is ACP..coincidntly my chachu knws dat ACP very well n both d fmly met deir n v didnt accpt anythng n v said v wnt to study more..
    n nw der is no cntct wid her..m wtng to bcme 21..bt 1 year left for it..n der is no surity abt anythng frm her fmly syd..dey cn du anythng wid her..dey cn go fo her marriage also..i knw she wont du bt she vil suicide..plz temme wat shud i do???
    plz cntct me as soon as psble..i love hr n i cnt live widout her!!
    i knw SACHA PYAR BINA QURBANIYON K NHI MILTA..
    m ready to sacrfce bt i need ehr at last!!
     

  16. My Adivise to all…..bhhaaggoooooo…!!!!!!   i am in love with a christain girl, her father and my brother  both are very danger guys…if they know about us then everything will be very difficult…so i decided to hide till i save some amount and after that i will ruuunnn…BBhhaaaggoooo……she s from vijayawada and me from hdyerabad, she completed her M.Com and can manage for one more year, after that her father will fix her marriage, so in thsi one year i will save some amount and run with her to some other city….u all do same thing…dont tell anyone, if u tell then it will be a problem…solution to all the problems is Bhhaagggoooo…!!!!!

    NO BODY CARES UU….THE CONSTITUION ALLOWS LOVE MARRIAGE, THE RELIGION ALLOWS LOVE MARRIAGE….AND LOVE MARRIGES ARE SUCCESFULL….THEN WHY THERE IS A PROBLEM WITH IT….

  17. God bless our rich social values & traditions as Arrange Marriage is most peaceful respectful, sucessful process to get merry. Marriage should be most celebrated moment for every, this social junk of west turning into hell.

    Dr. Robert Epstein at Harward university did study on Love & Arrange Marriage concluded with in 18 months 54% of Love Marriage fall apart. India has less than 2% divorce rate. Studies showwing after 2 yrs Arrange Marriage affections above Love Marriage when they were on their peak. after 5 yrs their affection double.

    Your organization may not understand orthodox parents, families, our rich social system, this Western study may help to understand why our social system has strong stand against social junk of West. Your organization encourage kids to make wrong decision ruin average decent families & their wonderful kids must know better than average person as myself or these young kids’s develpoing minds.

    Market base media, Entertainment or special enrust people won’t let our kids to understand what mean Love never mind social sense.

    2% Arrange 40% Love Marriage fail, kids fight each other over girl-friends die even in West other social & health problems to we realy under care or need at any cost; Honor has deep meaning than ego. Social values are to protect our kids & peacein our social system.

    Love Marriage base social system will be worse for every caste. Under privilage girls will be vulnerable under Live-in-relationships. Do we need 12-13 yrs old single mothers under stress abusing drugs alcohol as in west. Economic base system looted, degraded killed whole world has resources to deal with social problems. How many people die in Mexico & around the world to feed drugs to West or their so called Developed World’s broken social system full of stress.

    India is oldest civilization every social tradition design to create strong social & environment sense. Muslim & Christian religion, Economic base system & Communism created broken social system design to expand rather than acceptance & tolerance as Hindu, Sikh or Jewism are. Family & social sense take us close to humanity, God means peacful world.

    • So you seem to be a bit educated ??? Saw Satyameva Jayate did you ??? Didn’t have anything better to do at that time of the night right ??? If you have kids, I wonder how much you know them. By the way, Why didn’t you study in a sanskrit pathshaala ??? When it comes to earning money, you dont seem to have a f****** problem with western culture and all that s*** ??? Nice. Wonder what god will do to you **** *** ***. By the way, when you become 50 years old, by our culture you are no more the head of the family. ******************* Lets see then how much you love your culture !!!
       

      * swearwords have been removed by Admin

    • i m not saying that ur study is wrong but the study is showing the cases registered to officials, this does not indicate the real stats, because in india due to the tendency to deprive the girls and extremely male dominated society do not let them fight against the tortures by their husband and family. that’s why the stats are saying divorce rate only 2%. while on other hand love marriage is of open thinking, they both are adults, they know what’s better for them, but forcing and Honor killing are just inhuman. and must be stopped.

  18. respected sir….i am 20 years old…me and my gf are in deep love with each other….i have told everything to my parents….but they have rejected it at once…our caste is same…but the reason behind the rejection is that our family standard is much higher than that of girls family….they say that girl have made you fall in love just bcs i am rich….i live very simple…and she knows nothing about our richness…..she needs nothing …but only me…i need her….they are pressing me to leave her but you know ,love once done cannot be left ….i want to marry her and live lifelong with her…

    i have tried my best to convince my parents…but all in vain…

    they say that if you marry that girl….hun tumhe bedakhal kar denge…and my mother says that she will inhale poison…and i am the lonely child of my parents….i do not want to leave them alone in this world bcs i love them…..

    few days back i have told everything to my gf about our family…she too have said to her parents about me….they have also rejected….just bcs there girl had loved a boy…and love marriage is a sin for them….

    i am very upset about the attitude of people towards love..both families have rejected …..

    i am in  worst situation.. finding no way out….

    sir, pls guide me what to do….????

  19. Sir 
           Maine  16 august 2011 me saadi kar lee hai par mere ghar waale khush nahi hai aaj tak . Abhi 1year hone ko hai par maanene ke liye tayaar nahi hai aaj bhi wo hi baat bol rahe hai ki unko chode du warna achha nahi hoga . mien khuch bolta hoon to emotional black  mail karte hai  koi bolta hai me mar jaaunga koi bolta hai mein ghar chod kar chala jaaunga . aaj kal hum ghar waalo ke touch me nahi hai kyunki unke papa ki death jan12 me ho gayi thi par kisi ne inform tak nahi kiya hume aprial me pata chala tha to  hame itni dhamki mile rahi hai ki i m underground hai main itni baar bata chooka hoon me unke saath dhoka to  kya mein soch bhi nahi sakta ………….  
    MAIN APNA NAAM BHI SAHI NAHI DE RAHA HOON YAHAAN PER SORRY FOR THIS KUCH BHI HO SAKTA PLEASE…………
     MOBILE BHI NAHI DUNGA  PLEASE …………………….. 

  20. sir mene love commandos ke bare me suna he me ek ladki se bhut pyar karta hu or vo ladki other kast ki he mere ghar walo ko vo ladki pasnd nahi he or uske ghar wale muje pasnd karte he but ham dono ek dusre se bhut pyar karte he or mene apna ghar 1 year se  chod kar rah raha hu or ham dono ne 8 month pehle sadi kar le he or ham dono ek dusre se alag rah rahe he mene apne ghar me abhi kuch nahi batya kahi mere ghar wale kuch kar na de muje bar bar dhamki dete ki agar tune us ladki se sadi ki to ham tuje jan se mar denge pls help me pls pls pls pls pls pls psl

    GHANSHYAM
    9873909071

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